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By *immyg88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

Can someone please advise me on what I’m doing wrong? It drives me insane hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without knowing what you're doing, no.

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By *immyg88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

Good point! I’m not sure what is going wrong for me. But it annoys me because I’m such a horny guy ha

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Maybe expand your bio little more interests even a scenario

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By *immyg88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

I will look into that. Cheers buddy

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By *ay197469Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hmmmm

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I will look into that. Cheers buddy "

Welcome pal

If you use the reply and quote on the one who has commented it helps to understand who you're replying to

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By *immyg88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wrexham


"I will look into that. Cheers buddy

Welcome pal

If you use the reply and quote on the one who has commented it helps to understand who you're replying to "

Also noted hahha

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Did you click on every choice for what your into? And the fucking a million comments really just make it look like you want to have notches on your bed post

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By *immyg88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wrexham

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By *immyg88 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wrexham


"Did you click on every choice for what your into? And the fucking a million comments really just make it look like you want to have notches on your bed post "

Thank you for the feedback. Edited!

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Your bio says you'll send face pics but you've got lots public

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By *unsexual MemelordWoman
over a year ago

Midlothian

Personally I'd ditch the photo of you about to fuck someone, loads of women hate action shots like that. Other pics are mostly fine, good you can accom and travel, I would do as suggested and just expand your bio a wee bit.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Good point! I’m not sure what is going wrong for me. But it annoys me because I’m such a horny guy ha"

Being "such a horny guy' doesn't make you entitled to meets..lol

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

You say you don't mide sending face pics to the ight people but have them on public display, if you don't know what to say do you know what to do, are you from Texan (y'all), how do I know you are trustworthy, I never trust anybody who says they are trustworthy.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I'm not sure you are doing anything wrong unless the messages you send are pretty shit.

You are an hour from Manchester, attend one of the Manchester socials and get yourself known for good reasons, never hurts to network on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good point! I’m not sure what is going wrong for me. But it annoys me because I’m such a horny guy ha"

It's a hard pill to swallow but if people in your area don't click with you then they won't meet you, your level of horny has no bearing on it.

Have you been to any group socials or clubs, it's about networking this site has a very small success rate compared to the real world

Hope it helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Your bio says nothing about you, what your looking for or what you have to offer, I'd skip past.

Mrs

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By *aekaeWoman
over a year ago

Between a cock and a soft place


"I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case"

I'm asking myself the same question. Are you looking at the same picture as me?

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

You mention kink but then don't go in to any further details.

I'd need to know what your kinks / interests are in the bio to decide if I'd either message or reply.

You don't say what you can actually offer or are looking for and that's what I want as a baseline in a profile before I reply or message to see if it's even worth it.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart


"I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case"

It looks a lot like he is in a relationship with the clues in his pics and has kids too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case

I'm asking myself the same question. Are you looking at the same picture as me? "

There's a few for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case

It looks a lot like he is in a relationship with the clues in his pics and has kids too"

Exactly this

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe nothing, as if your actions are resulting in filtering out the mutually incompatible, it's a success.

It's important to have realistic expectations here and to focus your efforts wisely. For single men, it means selling yourself as best as you can.

Read some of the forum posts helping men asking for profile advice, as people getting messages read profiles before messages, most of the time.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case

It looks a lot like he is in a relationship with the clues in his pics and has kids too"

Not sure about your "and he has kids too" comment, aren't guys allowed to have their kids stay with them, not everyone has access for a few hours only some get to have them all weekend and through holidays. Leaving their shower gel out is hardly a crime for the non fab police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your profile or photos. My only advice would be dont ask for profile advice in here

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Says you don’t drink. Is that non alcohol in your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case

It looks a lot like he is in a relationship with the clues in his pics and has kids too

Not sure about your "and he has kids too" comment, aren't guys allowed to have their kids stay with them, not everyone has access for a few hours only some get to have them all weekend and through holidays. Leaving their shower gel out is hardly a crime for the non fab police "

Seeing kids toys etc in sex pics on a sex site is a massive turn off. Disrespectful to the kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case

It looks a lot like he is in a relationship with the clues in his pics and has kids too

Not sure about your "and he has kids too" comment, aren't guys allowed to have their kids stay with them, not everyone has access for a few hours only some get to have them all weekend and through holidays. Leaving their shower gel out is hardly a crime for the non fab police

Seeing kids toys etc in sex pics on a sex site is a massive turn off. Disrespectful to the kids."

It's a home not a hotel, if it was in their bedroom or they are in the picture I can see where you're coming from but it's just a bathroom.

Each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'd ditch the photo of you about to fuck someone, loads of women hate action shots like that. Other pics are mostly fine, good you can accom and travel, I would do as suggested and just expand your bio a wee bit.

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I know I'm in the minority, but I do love action shots on a guy's profile

Mrs

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

You look good and profile is fine so it can only be what you say and your approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey all I've just been reading through the forum and it's actually given me some advice I was looking for just wanted to say thanks and if you can give me any feed back on my profile it would be great thanks

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart


"I'm struggling to decide if your single or not. So even if you were my type, I'd avoid you just in case

It looks a lot like he is in a relationship with the clues in his pics and has kids too

Not sure about your "and he has kids too" comment, aren't guys allowed to have their kids stay with them, not everyone has access for a few hours only some get to have them all weekend and through holidays. Leaving their shower gel out is hardly a crime for the non fab police "

The bath pic he has up clearly has kids bath toys in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all I've just been reading through the forum and it's actually given me some advice I was looking for just wanted to say thanks and if you can give me any feed back on my profile it would be great thanks "

You're best to start your own post as it's bad form to jump on someone else's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all I've just been reading through the forum and it's actually given me some advice I was looking for just wanted to say thanks and if you can give me any feed back on my profile it would be great thanks

You're best to start your own post as it's bad form to jump on someone else's "

Sorry I'm quite new to the forum bit and thanks for letting me know the etiquette

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Can someone please advise me on what I’m doing wrong? It drives me insane hahah"
do you treat this site as a sex site with your messaging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all I've just been reading through the forum and it's actually given me some advice I was looking for just wanted to say thanks and if you can give me any feed back on my profile it would be great thanks

You're best to start your own post as it's bad form to jump on someone else's

Sorry I'm quite new to the forum bit and thanks for letting me know the etiquette "

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