FabSwingers.com forum: Body odour at a club

By *amLaraCroft OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I tried to be polite about it but couldn’t be clear and polite at the same time

So in the end I said we don’t have a connection

How do you deal with body odour on a meet?

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

If their sweating it shows effort

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By *amLaraCroft OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"If their sweating it shows effort

Lol good point but sports before a meet this time lol xx

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By *aleakalaMan
over a year ago

Perth Australia

No showers at the club?

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By *ommyTighMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sweat is fine

Body odour- dirty sweat, not good!

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By *helovesitwetCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"I tried to be polite about it but couldn’t be clear and polite at the same time

So in the end I said we don’t have a connection

How do you deal with body odour on a meet?"
yours or theirs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clear sweat is no issue but I can't abide by actual body odour as in you stink

I've had people turn up to socials etc not best presented. I am not obliged to engage if they can't even be clean.

I've not had this issue at a club though.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Left a couples room for fresh air once, as soon as a guy took his boxers off, could instantly smell something odd.

My experience is fresh sweat doesn’t actually smell so they’ve not made the effort to shower before the club.

Totally get that some people sweat a lot and clubs can bring on nervous sweating. Quick trip to the showers will sort that

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"I tried to be polite about it but couldn’t be clear and polite at the same time

So in the end I said we don’t have a connection

How do you deal with body odour on a meet?"

Just tell them to do one

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I tried to be polite about it but couldn’t be clear and polite at the same time

So in the end I said we don’t have a connection

How do you deal with body odour on a meet?"

It’s the same as stinking of cigarettes; thanks but no from me

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By *amLaraCroft OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Clear sweat is no issue but I can't abide by actual body odour as in you stink

I've had people turn up to socials etc not best presented. I am not obliged to engage if they can't even be clean.

I've not had this issue at a club though. "

There are showers and chlorine but this was hard to disguise needed a proper scrub with hot soapy water xx

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By *amLaraCroft OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Left a couples room for fresh air once, as soon as a guy took his boxers off, could instantly smell something odd.

My experience is fresh sweat doesn’t actually smell so they’ve not made the effort to shower before the club.

Totally get that some people sweat a lot and clubs can bring on nervous sweating. Quick trip to the showers will sort that "

It’s just not nice and off putting xx

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

we all sweat but body odour thats awful,,

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Body odour is very off-putting for me, as certain smells can bring migraine-type headache for me. I remember a situation in a club, I was in a stable-door room with my partner, in the middle of play, when all of a sudden I could smell an awfully strong stench of cheap cigarettes coming from somewhere. That stopped all play as I just could not concentrate on getting pleasured. I later found out that stench was coming from one of the guys in the club so I tried to be as far from him as I could.

If it was someone I have arranged a 1:1 meet, I guess I'll try suggesting we'd shower together beforehand, or just fake a sudden onset of an illness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny story….

Chatting to a potential fit guy at a club one evening.

Dora leans in for a cheeky kiss and the guy has really bad breath.

Not wanting to hurt his feelings she said that she’d never been with a bearded guy before and wanted ti try but found she didn’t like it.

Off we trot.

Couple of weeks later at a different club and there’s the same guy only clean shaven and very keen to have another pop.

Poor Dora was struggling to find a kind way to put him off whilst I quietly chuckled.

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

Not that i have ever been told but i think i would prefer to be politely made aware of the situation. Bad breath or body odour. Just a quiet polite, have a chewing gum mate or grab a shower and come back.

I repeat this has never happened to me, i always smell good !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to leave a sauna a couple of times because the smell of BO from one guy there was just too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not that i have ever been told but i think i would prefer to be politely made aware of the situation. Bad breath or body odour. Just a quiet polite, have a chewing gum mate or grab a shower and come back.

I repeat this has never happened to me, i always smell good !"

I think you’re right about the bad breath to be honest.

People can be unaware of it especially if they don’t have a regular partner but still a tough thing to say to someone.

Body odour though?

Surely they remember that they haven’t had a shower for a few days?

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

Personally I think tgat they should be quietly and politely told what the problem is.

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By *rnmrs81Couple
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I once went to a club as a single guy and I was told I had too much aftershave on. I had just showered and re did my aftershave with 5 squirts.

But on the sweat thing… if their armpits smell bad I can imagine the smell or taste of the cock would be far worse.

I hate women with smelly minge flaps too! Puts me off going down on them to the point I am sick!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I would just be direct and tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to know a lady that had very bad body odour. She used to join a group of us in socials etc. First time we let go because we thought it was a one off but no it was every time.

One of the group politely told her that it was unbearable and that she needed to shower before coming out with us next time. Her reply was "oh yeah I've been told that a few times before."

Some people just don't get it. I understand people go nose blind but there really is no excuse nowadays for not being clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body odour really is a no-go for me! In work I’m the one to have these awkward conversations, so I know how to bring it up without it making anyone feel awkward.

There are some medical conditions that can cause excessive body odour, but I think people should be honest if they have this. That said, it would definitely put me off whether medical or not, unfortunately.

Mrs

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By *aleakalaMan
over a year ago

Perth Australia

I wonder if people losing their smell through Covid has caused an issue. My smell went/was changed for months and I was paranoid that I couldn't tell.

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I haven’t come across anyone with bad body odour but Oral hygiene is very important to me. I can’t imagine how some people can have sex or sleep in a same bed with someone with bad breath

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

We went to a club not so long ago and the standard of hygiene from the single guys was poor. The thing is if they had smelled nice they would have been in with a chance. One guy was so bad it made us gag. Single guys always moan that they can’t get a shag but some really don’t help themselves

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

B.O. is a turn off so it would be a firm no thankyou from us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve experienced it with both guys and girls and it’s really not pleasant. Surely it’s not hard to wash before you go to a club or out dogging

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

"I once went to a club as a single guy and I was told I had too much aftershave on. I had just showered and re did my aftershave with 5 squirts.

But on the sweat thing… if their armpits smell bad I can imagine the smell or taste of the cock would be far worse.

I hate women with smelly minge flaps too! Puts me off going down on them to the point I am sick!!!"

Lol that made me chuckle minge flaps

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By *andyrod1Man
over a year ago

St Margaret's at Cliffe

I had a meeting with a woman and all was going well until she slipped her rather nice black lacy knickers down to reveal that she hadn't wiped her arse. That kind of dampened my ardour, hers too when l told her!

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

I'm more direct and suggest they have a shower

We can't always smell our own. Equally I would prefer if someone said something to me. I wouldn't want others to pit up with my odour

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By *amsubMan
over a year ago

hyde

Can't stand smelly people they smell I leave

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I tried to be polite about it but couldn’t be clear and polite at the same time

So in the end I said we don’t have a connection

How do you deal with body odour on a meet?"

Hmm...I think the most beneficial approach for all is to state the body odour as a fact as kindly as you possibly can and maybe a few suggestions.

Bodies are not perfect and sterile in the real world.

I workout a fair amount and in their excitement male meets forget that "hey I have to go home and shower before coming to see you. I can't finish seeing my trainer at 13.30 and see you at 13.45. Lol!"

Some smells like body odour or extra strong cologne/perfume I'm sensitive to. We've had a colleague and a customer like this at work...which was either BO, cigarettes or unwashed and improperly dried clothing/hair. I'm also aware of medical conditions.

That said I do have wipes in the....um sex kit because....accidents happen and sometimes you end up playing with more than one person and some clubs do not have a shower and soap.

Imagine sex in the old days when people only bathed once a week/once a month!! Crikey!! They say Versailles stank to High Heaven, God Almighty! Thank God we have reverted to the Roman ways of visiting the bath (house) every day.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"I had a meeting with a woman and all was going well until she slipped her rather nice black lacy knickers down to reveal that she hadn't wiped her arse. That kind of dampened my ardour, hers too when l told her!"

Maybe she had an accident and didn't realise. I'm going with the best-case scenario here. Since we are all adults, some people can't tell if it is queef, discharge, fart, shart or shit. If you are a woman, you get the fun of deciding if nether regions activating is shit, period clots or just a mind-bending cramp from nowhere. yeah.... Sometimes the excitement of a meet overrides all logical thinking...for some people...not me....I'm far too anxious of something going wrong while I'm ill.

I for one suffer anxiety-induced IBS and in that severe state I can't tell if it's going to be the top end or the bottom end. However, I am aware enough to eschew all sexual and compromising scenarios. Much to the chagrin of others..but I take note of the fact that not everyone is medically and psychologically qualified to deal with my being ill.

The only person I know who is, is my mother. She is a retired nurse. Midwife at that and she's had all manner of bodily smells and fluids encountered during her career. She is decidedly unsqueamish and stoic while I, the father and the sibling are in distress and freaking out.

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By *andyrod1Man
over a year ago

St Margaret's at Cliffe

You make a good point, we did both make a joke of it and met again, with a very pleasant outcome.

I did meet one lady who asked me to finger her arse, l was more than happy to oblige until l pulled my fingers out and found sticky brown ring on it! A hazard of playing in that area, a babywipe took care of it but rimming her was off the menu that day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No showers at the club?"

When we used to go to Eureak around 30 years ago, we'd always shower and use deodarant and possibly have another shower before we return home.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

id tell them they dont smell right ... honest and blunt to the point with out being rude .... there is the other end too what is it will people who cover themselves in deodorants and aftershave /perfume the type you know would blow up if you lit a match

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