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By *cnugatug OP   Man
over a year ago

Chatham

Hi all I have a problem with uhhm bit embarrassing but cumming too quick what's everyones technique for lasting longer then half an hour I feel like my performance well endurance I should say holds me back from that possible second meet its actually starting to really affect me mentally and we'll ax I said I'm embarrassed to really ask but I feel like I have to just to keep my sanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Answer from a lady .... focus on the foreplay and your oral skills rather that cock in pussy

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger

That's what I call the "pporn effect!"

In the studio produced pornos, the dudes all have 17ft long dicks and last for about 20 minutes without even needing to stop for tea and biscuits. Don't be fooled my guy! Us average Joe's are only good for a couple of minutes, every dude always likes to think they can go for hours but it's simply not true! Try a thicker condom, durex extra safe are a little thicker so not quite as sensitive on the general, if you get my meaning

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Honest answer from a female.... I would say most women aren't too bothered about men banging away for hours! Plenty of foreplay and round 2 works for me

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger


"Answer from a lady .... focus on the foreplay and your oral skills rather that cock in pussy "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Answer from a lady .... focus on the foreplay and your oral skills rather that cock in pussy "

We concur.

It's the cock in the pussy thing is what's making you come so quickly.

Spend sometime pleasuring the lady.

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By *cnugatug OP   Man
over a year ago

Chatham

Thanks everyone actually you all have made me at ease a bit more than I was I have a neet coming up next weekend and I guess I've been reading far to much online and got myself in a panic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find myself sometimes masturbating in the shower when i get home if i know we are on for a bit of fun later on in bed. Does help a little. But as mentioned earlier the average guy inside of her wet pussy is going to last about 5/6 mins. Pub talk suggests we can go all night....hah ha

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By *ayzDreamingMan
over a year ago

Shipton bellinger


"Thanks everyone actually you all have made me at ease a bit more than I was I have a neet coming up next weekend and I guess I've been reading far to much online and got myself in a panic "

Just make sure everyone gets to orgasm, sometimes a well placed finger or two will sort things before cocks go venturing anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honest answer from a female.... I would say most women aren't too bothered about men banging away for hours! Plenty of foreplay and round 2 works for me "

Oh my gosh if a guy is banging away for hours and not making my cum then I am gonna start planning my shopping list and start remembering the chores ai haven't done.

Quality not quantity is key plus round 2

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By *hropshireGentMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

From my experience most women prefer good foreplay and oral and more than one round.

That’s the secret to success

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somehow OP you've managed to ask a question and get serious answers, well done mate and try and put you issue to the back of your mind as dwelling on it may make things worse, everyone's given sound advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually bring my wife off first. Plenty of kissing to get us wet and hard, then it could be fingers around pussy leading to a clit wank or getting my head between her legs with plenty of tongue inside and on her clit. If that doesn't bring her off then more fingers on her clit whilst finger fucking. Then I can slide inside and take as little or as long as I like to orgasm. By then she would prefer me to get on with it or she suggest she wanks me off.

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea


"Thanks everyone actually you all have made me at ease a bit more than I was I have a neet coming up next weekend and I guess I've been reading far to much online and got myself in a panic "
please try not to think about it as once your brain starts thinking about it it will become a mental block

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

The cock is not the only way to please ,tounge n fingers also need to be involved

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea

Ok so I'm the opposite of the OP as I can literally last for a couple of hours with out cumming.and no I'm not boasting as it can start to take the pleasure away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I'm the opposite of the OP as I can literally last for a couple of hours with out cumming.and no I'm not boasting as it can start to take the pleasure away."

You must be Miss Popular

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By *leased to meet youTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend-on-Sea


"Ok so I'm the opposite of the OP as I can literally last for a couple of hours with out cumming.and no I'm not boasting as it can start to take the pleasure away.

You must be Miss Popular "
it can be frustrating babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with all the ladies posting. Doesn’t bother me at all as long as there’s plenty of foreplay beforehand. Certainly wouldn’t put me off meeting someone again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had the opposite problem. I remember one girl got upset because she was used to men finishing within a minute or so and I didn't. She thought it meant I didn't fancy her, although the fact I was rock hard should have made it clear that I did.

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By *ickymint52Man
over a year ago

York

Half an hour your doing great mate !,don't worry.... I would concentrate on the lady in question.Focus on her make her cum with your fingers tongue vibrator. Keep your dick out of her pussy. See how many times you can make her cum without using your dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah… always got the impression for women that they much prefer a round two in a meet then going for hours… don’t put yourself under pressure… just enjoy some mutual fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Answer from a lady .... focus on the foreplay and your oral skills rather that cock in pussy "

Wow that’s good advice. Thank you. I’ll check that in mind

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Try getting your partner to tie a shoe lace around your cock and balls and then locking your cock in a cage, before making you wear a strap on and fucking her with that. You’ll last for hours as long as your cock and balls are tied up tight enough to stop any cum from coming out.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

If I feel myself getting close I go down on the wife

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

I always used to tell him to think about his granny but that was only ok while she was still alive.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"If I feel myself getting close I go down on the wife"

Doesn’t giving your wife oral pleasure turn you on then?

Are you saying that going down on your wife stops you feeling horny?

Like some men think about their grandmother to stop them cumming too soon as their grandmother is the most unsexy thing they can possibly think about. So are you saying that going down on your wife is the most unsexy that you can think of?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't consider lasting a half hour cumming to quickly.

If I understand your post properly, you are lasting a half hour, that's plenty of fun.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No but it helps reduce the urge to cum momentarily

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I don't consider lasting a half hour cumming to quickly.

If I understand your post properly, you are lasting a half hour, that's plenty of fun."

Cumming after half an hour definitely isn’t too quick, OP has either never had sex and is going by what he’s seen in porn videos where men last for ages or he’s trying to impress us by telling us that he can last half an hour but doing it in a way that isn’t bragging.

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