FabSwingers.com forum: Blow jobs and condom's

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find a lot of men expect a blow job and that's a blow job without a condom. You can still catch alot of diseases by giving a blow job and I don't think it's fair that this is expected when you don't know someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don’t do it……next

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

I'd never do one with a condom on. I'm aware of the small risks and find it one I'm prepared to risk

If you don't want to then don't.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I don’t do it. Just commented on a previous thread about it.

I don’t think most men expect anything, no one’s ever had an issue with me using condoms for oral.

Usually just the woman being assertive enough to say.

No complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find a lot of men expect a blow job and that's a blow job without a condom. You can still catch alot of diseases by giving a blow job and I don't think it's fair that this is expected when you don't know someone"

I genuinely think people don't believe they can catch STIs from oral

I choose to do oral without but would happily do it with. Each to their own but it does baffle me (even my own play!) Why it is the norm

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Then don’t do it……next "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then don’t do it……next

This

Noooo I think it's important to discuss especially your other reply! It's really valuable

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By *aughtyPumpkinWoman
over a year ago

between Donny/Scunny/Gainsborough

If someone’s expecting me to suck their dick, it’ll be without thanks. I know the risks.

Otherwise, don’t ask. I’m fine either way

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

These discussions about preferences are typical and expected before meets, so that we filter appropriately.

Most people are not compatible with most other people and this includes our preferences.

Thankfully, most swingers are very active with their sexual health regimes.

I don't really like giving oral with a condom, so I take a calculated small risk.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I find a lot of men expect a blow job and that's a blow job without a condom. You can still catch a lot of diseases by giving a blow job and I don't think it's fair that this is expected when you don't know someone"

I never expect a blowjob on a playdate, mostly because I rarely cum from a bj, and there's even less chance of that happening if the lady doesn't genuinely want to do it in the first place...

I'm happy to be shown wearing a condom for a bj doesn't alter the act though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I posted on another thread:

After recently catching (just) gonorrhoea of the throat, I will no longer do unsafe oral.

Totally changed my outlook on oral sex.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I believe all men I have been intimate with expect bj without a condom like it's the norm to do so. I have said no to men who asked me to do so too. Better safe than sorry

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

I make it clear that I won’t kiss them or do OWO in the list of rules and preferences before time. If they don’t like it, they don’t have to meet.

Like others have said, your body, your rules. You don’t have to please anyone but yourself.

Communicate clearly and succinctly ahead of time and everyone will be happy and know what is happening.

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

To be honest meets are rare so most men dont expect anything at all, maybe just a chat and a coffee is a plus. There are a minority of guys that think they are an adonis. Most dont

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs doesn’t like it. Last guy we met at a club put one on before oral and she didn’t enjoy sucking his cock at all like that

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By *evilinherCouple
over a year ago

varied

Just like to add it works both ways women can carry sti to would you expect women to carry dental dams with them to use with having oral sex

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Just like to add it works both ways women can carry sti to would you expect women to carry dental dams with them to use with having oral sex"

Yep….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like a blow job with a condom on to be fair

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I never expect one, with or without. Would never ask either. It wouldn’t be right. Would spoil the mood.

If the chemistry is there between 2 people you pick up on what the other person wants anyway. But I would never ask or expect it.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

move onto next person OP , we all like different things with sex ... cant please all ..

I turn down blowjobs giving or receiving if condoms are required , as simply I would rather not waste my time with that .. I can happily just go right into fucking instead and not worry with oral .

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By *ally_and_SeanCouple
over a year ago

Warks / Northants Border

"I don’t do it. Just commented on a previous thread about it.

I don’t think most men expect anything, no one’s ever had an issue with me using condoms for oral.

Usually just the woman being assertive enough to say.

No complaints

I agree with this.

As a guy, I only expect this because most females who have obliged, don't like the feel of them in their mouth. If a female wanted me to wear one, I would. Also, I'd try to make a fun joke about it, so she doesn't feel awkward for asking.

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