FabSwingers.com forum: Women meeting couples…

By *sagent81 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Me and my fb are going to be making a couples profile and are hoping to meet bi women to join us for threesomes. I was wondering what women generally look for when meeting couples? What makes an attractive couple’s profile? Thanks.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like to see some pics of the couple together

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not a single female but have asked in the past, the responses were as above pics of both for the majority.

Hope that helps.

Mrs

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It's still incredibly difficult for the majority of couples to meet single women via Fab unfortunately, even with a solid, lighthearted and humourus profile with a varied array of pics of us both, including public face pics, we are still yet, in over two years, to expand on the ONE SOCIAL meet we've had with ONE woman....

Single ladies are the most sought after demographic in this lifestyle so try and make your couples profile as easy going, welcoming and appealing as possible

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By *sagent81 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I like to see some pics of the couple together"

Together intimately too or is that off putting?

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By *sagent81 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not a single female but have asked in the past, the responses were as above pics of both for the majority.

Hope that helps.

Mrs "

Cheers

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By *sagent81 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Thanks. Going into it with no expectations. I feel my experience as a single male on fab has prepared me for lots of rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely pictures of the male. And not cock pics.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

For me, I like to see enough of both people, preferably together, that tells me I find them both physically attractive.

I like to know exactly what sort of thing they're looking for, is this experience more for one partner than the other, and if so is the other genuinely into the idea.

I like to know they appreciate I'm an entire person and not an object or experiment.

I like a sense of humour and to see some of the personality of both people in the profile or at least messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I would say to make sure you put pictures of yourself on the couples profile and not just the missus. Many couples will upload only one or two dick pics from the guy and the rest of the photos are just showcasing the wife. Its important for the female to know what the guy looks like too! Couples profile=couples pictures ...a wife isn't there to be used as bait for the husband

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

I won’t unicorn anymore as too many “couples” are just FWB or guys that want the girls to “put on a show”. Or one penis policy ENM couples.

It is worth understanding why you’re after single females and consider Feeld or Tinder where you’re likely to get better luck. Fab is much better as a swing, rather than a hook-up site.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To us it is about three equal people, their individual sensual and erotic needs met holistically ,not a two and an add on.Something not easily put across on a profile, other than verification’s .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet with couples anymore for several reasons: first is no pictures of the man or them together, it's got to be a three way thing. Secondly, I'm not there for their entertainment in any which way shape or form and most often are made to feel like that before you've even met them. Thirdly, too many couples are male led and I'm not comfortable with that.

Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!

I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!

PS clubs are a good bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To us it is about three equal people, their individual sensual and erotic needs met holistically ,not a two and an add on.Something not easily put across on a profile, other than verification’s ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I would say to make sure you put pictures of yourself on the couples profile and not just the missus. Many couples will upload only one or two dick pics from the guy and the rest of the photos are just showcasing the wife. Its important for the female to know what the guy looks like too! Couples profile=couples pictures ...a wife isn't there to be used as bait for the husband

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I have two couples I play with regularly and for both of them, they wrote interesting opening messages, had good photos of both of them on their profile and were happy to have a phone call before. One of them, we even had a social meet over dinner to check for chemistry before arranging to meet for sex and we have had some fab times.

The key is not making me feel I’m an experiment for them or that the other lady is doing something to please her man, and that is rare.

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
over a year ago

Bristol/ Daventry

"I don't meet with couples anymore for several reasons: first is no pictures of the man or them together, it's got to be a three way thing. Secondly, I'm not there for their entertainment in any which way shape or form and most often are made to feel like that before you've even met them. Thirdly, too many couples are male led and I'm not comfortable with that.

Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!

I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!

PS clubs are a good bet

This is so true. I feel exactly the same way with the entertainment front. It feels kink/sex dispensary. Male-led couples are a hard no. I always get enthusiastic consent from all involved.

On couples living apart I agree for short relationships (long term established relationships I’m good with apart-ners, particularly when they are professionals/divorced with kids that are together, blended families can be hard to do, or resources are enough that they don’t need to live together).

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By *sagent81 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I won’t unicorn anymore as too many “couples” are just FWB or guys that want the girls to “put on a show”. Or one penis policy ENM couples.

It is worth understanding why you’re after single females and consider Feeld or Tinder where you’re likely to get better luck. Fab is much better as a swing, rather than a hook-up site. "
I am definitely not looking for a show. Want to be right in the action. My experience with tinder is that most women on there seem to be looking for relationships. Will have to look into Feeld. Thanks

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By *sagent81 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Definitely pictures of the male. And not cock pics."
will do. I am not shy. Thanks

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By *sagent81 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I have two couples I play with regularly and for both of them, they wrote interesting opening messages, had good photos of both of them on their profile and were happy to have a phone call before. One of them, we even had a social meet over dinner to check for chemistry before arranging to meet for sex and we have had some fab times.

The key is not making me feel I’m an experiment for them or that the other lady is doing something to please her man, and that is rare."
Yeah I imagined socials are a must. Thanks

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By *sagent81 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!

I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!

PS clubs are a good bet

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it’s definitely about mutual enjoyment for everyone involved. I’d of assumed at a club it would just be guys and couples?

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Yeah, agree that the key is not implying I’m an experiment, merely there to ‘spice up’ someone’s relationship or that pretty much any ‘female’ (eugh!) will do the trick.

I would never do anything with a couple without a social first; the power imbalance, even if meeting somewhere neutral, is too much of a potential risk for me.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

There has to be a 3 way attraction and understanding. Not for 1 person or to put on a show.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

"It's still incredibly difficult for the majority of couples to meet single women via Fab unfortunately, even with a solid, lighthearted and humourus profile with a varied array of pics of us both, including public face pics, we are still yet, in over two years, to expand on the ONE SOCIAL meet we've had with ONE woman....

Single ladies are the most sought after demographic in this lifestyle so try and make your couples profile as easy going, welcoming and appealing as possible

Exactly this.

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By *onlywishiMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Have been lucky enough to have this fun time when with a fwb the whole time was mainly devoted to the girls having fun I only joined in when asked by the single lady think she just needed help satisfying my fwb

Could very much see how the couples excitement could take over the proceedings and make the single lady feel used ?

It’s all about the planning and chat before the meet that will help

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By *9 TeaCouple
over a year ago

London/Essex

We have been let down by couples

We have a few single females we are going to meet

Just like any profile lots of pictures including ones togeather

Expect alot of chats to go stale

Fun for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like open and honest profiles, I like to get to know a bit about the couple in question from reading their profile. Not just a list of things they like sexually but what they are like as people, do they like humour, what do they like in others etc. I prefer to see pics of both people and not just genitals lol.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I like open and honest profiles, I like to get to know a bit about the couple in question from reading their profile. Not just a list of things they like sexually but what they are like as people, do they like humour, what do they like in others etc. I prefer to see pics of both people and not just genitals lol.

I'm with you there it's not easy to tell if your attracted to someone by a penis and vag

Mrs

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

I'm with you there it's not easy to tell if your attracted to someone by a penis and vag

Mrs "

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By *amLaraCroftWoman
over a year ago

London

I would want you to be clear about why you want a unicorn only and to be clear you want a unicorn

More about your relationship and details of your needs from the unicorn

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By *amLaraCroftWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!

I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!

PS clubs are a good bet

it’s definitely about mutual enjoyment for everyone involved. I’d of assumed at a club it would just be guys and couples? "

Why don’t you want to play with couples too I would need that on your profile too

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By *9 TeaCouple
over a year ago

London/Essex

Men and women think totally different, there is a massive power thing between men especially ones fucking your wife, it's why we have an entire porn genre dedicated to Cucking.

There is also the thing that can destroy a relationship and that's accidentally getting pregnant and it does play in couples minds, we have chatted to a few couples on here and that is a worry for them.

(K can't get another woman pregnant if an accident does happen *snip snip*)

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Wouldn't mind my wife playing with a couple in the same room as they all cuckold me and make me watch

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By *oshnbex30Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

Think a lot of couples struggle with finding a single lady the ones we have came across have only wanted the male half as they are straight and not bi

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

As a unicorn I like to see a decent profile, light hearted, yet well written,

pictures I prefere to see and equal amount of both members of the couple.

I've got to find both of them physically and mentally attractive, before I'll even contemplate playing

always state who is talking/messaging, it's just the polite thing to do.

When you get to the face pic swapping be sure to send a pic of both of you....

If arrangin a social before playing, I know this sounds rediculous but make sure both of you can attend, at the same time, and if you can't, just cancel the whole thing and rearrange when you can.

People think unicorns have the pick of the crop when it comes to couples, but we definately don't x

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By *oldie100Woman
over a year ago

Wirral

"For me, I like to see enough of both people, preferably together, that tells me I find them both physically attractive.

I like to know exactly what sort of thing they're looking for, is this experience more for one partner than the other, and if so is the other genuinely into the idea.

I like to know they appreciate I'm an entire person and not an object or experiment.

I like a sense of humour and to see some of the personality of both people in the profile or at least messages."

I'm a single female and can identify with this. Personally I like to chat with both on here too so you can gauge if you have a connection.

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By *oeGunxMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"For me, I like to see enough of both people, preferably together, that tells me I find them both physically attractive.

I like to know exactly what sort of thing they're looking for, is this experience more for one partner than the other, and if so is the other genuinely into the idea.

I like to know they appreciate I'm an entire person and not an object or experiment.

I like a sense of humour and to see some of the personality of both people in the profile or at least messages."

Yes this sounds exactly as I'd expect it to go down.. especially having a sense of humour and some sort of likeable personality!

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I never met up with fwb couples or couples not living together as it's too complicated to arrange plus the dynamic never feels the same but that's just me!

I'm sure you'll find someone and definitely enjoy the ride!

PS clubs are a good bet

it’s definitely about mutual enjoyment for everyone involved. I’d of assumed at a club it would just be guys and couples? "

There are plenty of single ladies that go to clubs as it's a safe place to be in a vulnerable position. The club etiquette is know and usually upheld by everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you there it's not easy to tell if your attracted to someone by a penis and vag

Mrs "

Exactly haha unfortunately not everyone has gotten the memo. I love it when I'm called a pic collector because I ask to see one

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By *oupleforfun1977Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

We'd love to meet a lady and that's for me as much as my hubby. Many years ago I had a thing with a friend for months after we shared her hubby 1 night (horniest night ever

) but when it was just me and her it was very horny. Not something I'd ever thought about before the mff with her and hubby. Sometimes it was slow and sensual with her and others it was raw and very naughty. Unfortunately it's coming upto 20 years since I've had fun with another lady

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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Single ladies are the most sought after demographic in this lifestyle so try and make your couples profile as easy going, welcoming and appealing as possible

Precisely this, if you make the profile as welcoming and honest about your situation with only being FB’s the content of you both together then I’m sure you won’t have any issues with finding someone of them finding you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the least of your worries ,actually finding a single female on here is a mine field.

So top of the list are the adult models ,not swinger at all , spot them a mile off..lol

Then youve got the attention seekers never meet but cam

What comes next are the ones that really piss you off , the married or attached, single profile but after chatting they arent single and hubby want to be involved

Then once you worked your way through all them ,you find the genuine single females , who are in that much demand youll be lucky to end meeting ...lol

Good luck

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP Have you made the couples profile yet ?

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