FabSwingers.com forum: Here we go again

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yet another single male being rude and abusive towards us in a follow up message because we didn't reply to his earlier one and just deleted it

Rude arrogant pig is what we were called on this occasion

Not acceptable

So yes reported and moved on, they never learn

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

My favourites are the ones that tell me I'm a selfish cunt in the very first message and then block me before I've even read it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

It's great that you did report it as no need for anyone to act in that way but its not exactly moving on when you've made a post about it

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By *drian52Man
over a year ago

Derby

It's okay to air your frustration and then move on. The OP has had enough and can vent! A reminder to all to be polite or be reported

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Yet another single male being rude and abusive towards us in a follow up message because we didn't reply to his earlier one and just deleted it

Rude arrogant pig is what we were called on this occasion

Not acceptable

So yes reported and moved on, they never learn

And I bet he was telling you how incredible you look, and how loved your profile...and has been enjoying it for months now.. o-

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when I get called an ugly fat pig who obviously is not into actually swinging because I don't meet.

Haha shut up you twat.

Honestly I get they are butt hurt but how is that going to help. Mostly single guys have been respectful though, just the odd few that have been like above thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get these a fair bit. We've been called timewasters just for saying no thanks. One guy who told us he got 2-3 meets a month but didn't have a single verification wasn't 'a verifications type of guy' then told us that we 'we must have a very low IQ' and then said 'well done, you've removed yourselves from my wanted list'. Hilarious.

One guy recently sent a message after being rejected that said 'I bet you don't have any verifications' despite us having plenty.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

im thankful when they throw there toys out the pram makes things so easy to deal with ,,block move on and ve thabkful you never gave then your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The single-guy-being-a-dickhead make things so much harder for other single guys. I've noticed an increase (mostly couples profiles) of "no single guys" on profiles, whether this is related to the increase in dickheadedry I don't know.

Its always best to be respectful, but sadly if someone doesn't answer it's a red flag to some and they go into attack mode.

Lifes to short to be angry at everything.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

You could block men from messaging and send first contact messages yourself and save yourself the hassle of getting messages like that in future if they annoy you so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could block men from messaging and send first contact messages yourself and save yourself the hassle of getting messages like that in future if they annoy you so much. "

We tried that and it's hard to find decent single guys using search. We actually want to meet single guys and most of the guys we've had meets with have messaged us initially. The rude and agressive guys are thankully only a small percentage.

About 50% of the guys that message us don't bother to read our profile and message us despite not being our preference and it being clear on our profile what we're looking for. We just delete these.

We get a lot of messages from polite, friendly single guys that are a pleasure to interact with wether we meet them or not.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We've never had a rude message but we only open messages that have a face pic attached. As JustBo said, there are ways to solve the problem if you wish to, otherwise just accept that a small minority will be rude, just don't let it concern you.

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