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Repeater, Stamina, or both?

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By *JAY52 OP   Man
over a year ago

London

So I’ve recently unearthed the ability to cum back-to-back-to-back without a mere water break in between. It’s no super power I know, but I managed to produce an 8 rounder last night so it got me thinking…

Ladies, do you prefer stamina to last all night, or are a series of quicker fire rounds best? If neither, what’s your perfect mix?

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By *XZRMan
over a year ago

Inverness


"So I’ve recently unearthed the ability to cum back-to-back-to-back without a mere water break in between. It’s no super power I know, but I managed to produce an 8 rounder last night so it got me thinking…

Ladies, do you prefer stamina to last all night, or are a series of quicker fire rounds best? If neither, what’s your perfect mix? "

Safe to say if you produced an 8 rounder you've all bases covered no matter what the general consensus!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Stamina for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stamina for me

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By *JAY52 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Stamina for me"

Good to know, curious to hear any reasons why though?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Stamina for me

Good to know, curious to hear any reasons why though? "

I'd say if you're able to hold back before the lady as long as possible it's a win win blood and sweat and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick fire rounds with stamina for the odd longer round every now & then. Can be with breaks or play in between too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stamina for me

Good to know, curious to hear any reasons why though? "

For me, I tend to find flow gets interrupted if a guy is a repeater x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um. It varies I guess.

Cums too quick then loses interest? Bit rubbish. Cums quick but keeps that energy flowing until they're good to go again? Brilliant. Takes hours to get there but makes sure to keep it varied and exciting throughout? Amazing. Takes hours of doing the same repetitive thing long after it's stopped being remotely stimulating to me? No thanks.

Sometimes I want things to last hours. Sometimes I want the same things to last minutes. It's more about matching energy and how in tune you are with your partner.

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By *JAY52 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Quick fire rounds with stamina for the odd longer round every now & then. Can be with breaks or play in between too."

Sounds like my cup of tea

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By *JAY52 OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Um. It varies I guess.

Cums too quick then loses interest? Bit rubbish. Cums quick but keeps that energy flowing until they're good to go again? Brilliant. Takes hours to get there but makes sure to keep it varied and exciting throughout? Amazing. Takes hours of doing the same repetitive thing long after it's stopped being remotely stimulating to me? No thanks.

Sometimes I want things to last hours. Sometimes I want the same things to last minutes. It's more about matching energy and how in tune you are with your partner."

All very valid points and completely agree - no one likes a selfish lover scenario. The point on keeping things varied throughout is so important especially when it’s a marathon session.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"Stamina for me

Good to know, curious to hear any reasons why though? "

I like long sessions, alot of guys say they can repeat but can't so don't want my time wasted when I just want to fuck lots and all night

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

The older I get and gave up the gym during ccovid my stamina is swindling. I've often thought whats the best way to train to be able to go like a fright train again

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um. It varies I guess.

Cums too quick then loses interest? Bit rubbish. Cums quick but keeps that energy flowing until they're good to go again? Brilliant. Takes hours to get there but makes sure to keep it varied and exciting throughout? Amazing. Takes hours of doing the same repetitive thing long after it's stopped being remotely stimulating to me? No thanks.

Sometimes I want things to last hours. Sometimes I want the same things to last minutes. It's more about matching energy and how in tune you are with your partner."

This everytime.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"Quick fire rounds with stamina for the odd longer round every now & then. Can be with breaks or play in between too."

This

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull

I'm petrified of cumming and not been able to get hard again, so usually do about 2 1/2 HR then cum so if I can't go again it's ok because no-one is disappointed, but I can't stop myself from shooting too many times or I just won't be able to at all.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol


"I'm petrified of cumming and not been able to get hard again, so usually do about 2 1/2 HR then cum so if I can't go again it's ok because no-one is disappointed, but I can't stop myself from shooting too many times or I just won't be able to at all. "

I don’t know if a guy hasn’t cum before 2 hours I’d feel like I wasn’t doing a good job

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"I'm petrified of cumming and not been able to get hard again, so usually do about 2 1/2 HR then cum so if I can't go again it's ok because no-one is disappointed, but I can't stop myself from shooting too many times or I just won't be able to at all.

I don’t know if a guy hasn’t cum before 2 hours I’d feel like I wasn’t doing a good job "

Just posted in another thread about this, happened on our first meet and I definitely felt like I wasn't that skilled after all

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I usually take hours to cum, the reason is want to KNOW she has had her fix of fun with as many orgasms she can have before I would shoot. I always take this approach. Sometimes when you last so long that you cannot cum in the end or it is hard as my dick is more numb. Not good for anyone I know. However, I continue to stay hard throughout. It isn't that the female is doing anything wrong. My priority is her orgasms, not my own.. I have been lucky enough to be invited to some epic home partys in the past that each one lasts around 6 hours. At those I have sometimes not cum, cum once or have ever cum 3 times. So there is no science for me shooting. Just an art that I try to balance between her fun and my orgasm(s). If I don't cum and we played for 2-3 hours, I still had fun. Normally I like to play 2-3 hours and shoot at the end.

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By *actilenorfolkgentMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"I usually take hours to cum, the reason is want to KNOW she has had her fix of fun with as many orgasms she can have before I would shoot. I always take this approach. Sometimes when you last so long that you cannot cum in the end or it is hard as my dick is more numb. Not good for

anyone I know. However, I continue to stay hard throughout. It isn't that the female is doing anything wrong. My priority is her orgasms, not my own.. I have been lucky enough to be invited to some epic home partys in the past that each one lasts around 6 hours. At those I have sometimes not cum, cum once or have ever cum 3 times. So there is no science for me shooting. Just an art that I try to balance between her fun and my orgasm(s). If I don't cum and we played for 2-3 hours, I still had fun. Normally I like to play 2-3 hours and shoot at the end. "

I envy you, tend to cum too quick first time

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I honestly don’t mind which method of stamina you have. Stamina and the willingness for play not to be over too quickly is key.

I do like breaks for sexy chat etc though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both, I don’t want fucking for hours, it’s just not my thing, but also don’t want a two second wonder we enjoy lots of foreplay too

Mrs

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By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

M20

Who else has trained themselves to have dry orgasms before the big one?

When I was a kid I read an article about wanking habits creating hair trigger lovers. Basically most wankers try to get over the line as fast as possible and it creates a habit.

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull


"I'm petrified of cumming and not been able to get hard again, so usually do about 2 1/2 HR then cum so if I can't go again it's ok because no-one is disappointed, but I can't stop myself from shooting too many times or I just won't be able to at all.

I don’t know if a guy hasn’t cum before 2 hours I’d feel like I wasn’t doing a good job

Just posted in another thread about this, happened on our first meet and I definitely felt like I wasn't that skilled after all "

This isn't anything to do with your skill, (in my case) it's about wanting the lady to be absolutely satisfied then it's my turn, but I'm not finishing till she is ready, she always tells you and provided you aren't doing same thing over and over she seems to not get over sensitised and she's still enjoying herself (has to be) and having little breaks for water/breather, chat etc.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Um. It varies I guess.

Cums too quick then loses interest? Bit rubbish. Cums quick but keeps that energy flowing until they're good to go again? Brilliant. Takes hours to get there but makes sure to keep it varied and exciting throughout? Amazing. Takes hours of doing the same repetitive thing long after it's stopped being remotely stimulating to me? No thanks.

Sometimes I want things to last hours. Sometimes I want the same things to last minutes. It's more about matching energy and how in tune you are with your partner."

Exactly this!

Mrs

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"So I’ve recently unearthed the ability to cum back-to-back-to-back without a mere water break in between. It’s no super power I know, but I managed to produce an 8 rounder last night so it got me thinking…

Ladies, do you prefer stamina to last all night, or are a series of quicker fire rounds best? If neither, what’s your perfect mix? "

when your 25 years old like you , you can shag all night if you meet the right woman ?

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Used to be a repeater from time to time but now it's stamina and I guess it dwindles with age. But I don't let a woman go unsatisfied do will get down there and give oral and finger play until either I'm back up again or she has orgasmed, whichever is first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's an eight rounder?

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