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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on here for a few weeks and have had horrible luck. Any advice on getting better?

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

What are you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More positive interactions leading to meets. I always figured my looks were universally subpar but I heard there's something for everyone on here. Just hasn't been proven to me yet.

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By *awg-mo-thoinWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

There is definitely not someone for everyone here. If you’ve been told that you’ll potentially be left very disappointed.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

You get out of here what you are willing to invest either in your profile and in the forums

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Well you've been here 3 weeks and had 1 meet...Good going by Fab standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been on here for three weeks. That's no time at all. Think you need to lower your expectations.

Single guys outnumber women and couples by quite some distance. You really have to stand out to get a meet.

Posts like yours are posted almost daily on the forums and the same advice gets given. Persevere, go to clubs and send face pics with your messages. Be prepared that it might be months before you get a reply, let alone a meet.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Yeah, totally unrealistic expectations, I’m afraid.

Many guys go a year or more before getting a meet, so you’ve done well .

Fab is a community - IMO, the way to have a rewarding time here is to become a valued member of that community.

Oh, and don’t message loads of women within the area - (much) less is more.

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
over a year ago

brighton

You're 20, so you're the age of the children of most swingers. You're a single man, so one of literally thousands on here all trying to meet women and couples.

This isn't a free sex site. You need to lower your expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had a meet already and been verified that's a lot more than most newbies. what were you expecting exactly? 20 years old is going to be way too young for a lot of people on here so be realistic about that

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