FabSwingers.com forum: Cautious but curious

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So some years ago when my kids were a little younger my friends daughter used to babysit my kids at weekends or when i I was working late. She was 18 at the time and was in college. Her mum got ill and After her mum passed she moved back her dad's down south and ended up meeting a guy and having a kid.

We have always kept in contact as i swore to her mum I'd always look out for her. She came up to Manchester a few weeks ago too view a house that she is buying. Instead of her staying In a hotel I told her that her and her little boy could stay at mine while she was here as a hotel for a week would be expensive.

She came and everything was great on the first night we got a takeaway and had a few drinks and was talking about her mum and funny things we both remembered of her. Rather tipsy I called it a night and threw the towel in. I was in bed and half asleep when the bedroom door opened and she was walking through my room wearing nothing but a thong and a stringy vest top. She had come in to my room to use my en suite as the upstairs bathroom was been redone and had no plumbing . She walks right past me in this thong and vest looking at me in a.way she never has before.

Shocked I just lay there wondering what to do. I'd never looked at her like that before

The next morning she apologised and said that she had left her pajamas at home and next time she would make sure she has them.

After viewing the house she decided that she was going to buy it and is in the process of finalising the sale. She has asked me to go in and help decorate her house and has said me and her can stay for a few days. She has one condition and that is that we don't end up having a paint fight .

I don't even know what to do. I've known her a long time and it sounds like more.that paintings on the adgenda. what would you do in my.situation meditation . P.s. tia

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

You mention she met a guy and had a kid but haven't mentioned if the guy is still in the picture. How old is she now and how old are you. You are both consenting adults so how would you feel if it was more or developed into something serious, how would you feel if it where just some fun, how would you feel if you expected more and you read the signals wrong? These are questions you will have to ask yourself.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

She's a friends daughter.

Put the shoe on the other foot and think how you'd feel if your friend was considering making a move on a child of yours?

How much do you want to stay friends with tour friend?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Not sure about this.

There can't be much difference in your ages. I'd have no problem with a friend getting together with one of my children but I can tell you're conflicted. Why is that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She split up with him some time ago and is moving back up north.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's just alien to me I've never looked at in that way until she walked through my room like that. She is stunning but I don't wanna fuck the friendship. I think what I need to do is softly investigate and find out more. Then maybe boundary set. I hinestlt don't know x

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

How convenient that the former babysitter of your kids is stunning, wears a thong and doesn't seem to have any awareness of boundaries when she's staying as a guest in someone else's house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone else think this should be in the fantasy thread

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"It's just alien to me I've never looked at in that way until she walked through my room like that. She is stunning but I don't wanna fuck the friendship. I think what I need to do is softly investigate and find out more. Then maybe boundary set. I hinestlt don't know x"

I think she was offering it to you on a plate and testing the waters...other wise she would have got properly dressed..had you both had a drink? You may have answered your own question too...like you say set the boundaries if you don't want to take things any further.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Sounds far to much like a fantasy, if you were reading this from another guy, what would be your first thought?

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If this is true leave well alone.

I doubt your friend would be happy with you making moves on their teen daughter,it will only end badly.

Think with your other head .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If this is true leave well alone.

I doubt your friend would be happy with you making moves on their teen daughter,it will only end badly.

Think with your other head ."

She's not a teenager any more

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"If this is true leave well alone.

I doubt your friend would be happy with you making moves on their teen daughter,it will only end badly.

Think with your other head .

She's not a teenager any more "

My mistake apologies,

Still leave alone though and keep your promise to look out for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say that you prommised her mum that you'd always look out for her.

I'm pretty sure that doesn't include fucking her.

You're someone she has known for a long time and has learned she can trust.

Don't betray that trust.

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