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By *illagaz OP   Man
over a year ago

yeovil

So a woman can choose who she has sex with but what seals the deal for a lovely female.

Is it girth or length, nice bottom or just looking very handsome.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"So a woman can choose who she has sex with but what seals the deal for a lovely female.

Is it girth or length, nice bottom or just looking very handsome. "

There is no magic formula that will get you laid.

That's the secret.

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By *inkycoupleMFxxxCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

None of the above

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Surely everyone can choose who they have sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person and situation.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"So a woman can choose who she has sex with but what seals the deal for a lovely female.

Is it girth or length, nice bottom or just looking very handsome. "

Chemistry, "spark". And that has nothing to do with size of the cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of your suggestions.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

A respectful man who doesn't think women want or need a big cock!

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By *ob and DeeWoman
over a year ago

crook

if they can get hard and cum quick for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A respectful man who doesn't think women want or need a big cock! "

This! Chemistry and respect.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

respect, pleasure, respect, arousal ...

x Anne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP is a perfect example of why so many men struggle to get meets on Fab. Looks come after cock. So many guys are obsessed with their dicks and think everyone else is as obsessed. We have been sent literally thousands of dick pics. We've never met a single guy who sent one.

What is sexy is different for everyone. No formula. For us a nice face pic with a smile and no sunglasses (most pics have sunglasses for some reason) so we can see you is a great start. Humour and intelligence is great. Not boasting about you sexual prowess is great.

There has to be chemistry, a spark. Pushy guys are a turn off and serial messengers are just plain creepy.

The majority of messages we get are just disheartening but the few good ones we get make it worthwhile. There are some lovely single guys on Fab, you just have to wade through the dick pics, inane messages and the odd abusive moron to find them.

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By *illagaz OP   Man
over a year ago

yeovil

I love this forum. As people always see the worst in a question. Misinterpretation is exactly what’s wrong on here as texts can be both good and bad. On here NO ONE sees the good side. Oh well it does make me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being respectful and having chemistry is the deal breaker for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please keep the discussion on this in the forum please

Not through sending private messages to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love this forum. As people always see the worst in a question. Misinterpretation is exactly what’s wrong on here as texts can be both good and bad. On here NO ONE sees the good side. Oh well it does make me smile. "

Ignorance is bliss eh?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Personality. Chemistry.

It doesn't matter the size of the cock if the person it's attached to doesn't excite me. It doesn't matter how pretty someone is if the conversation can't flow.

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter


"Personality. Chemistry.

It doesn't matter the size of the cock if the person it's attached to doesn't excite me. It doesn't matter how pretty someone is if the conversation can't flow. "

Absolutely!!

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By *aughtyladyYummymanCouple
over a year ago

In a place not far from Exeter


"The OP is a perfect example of why so many men struggle to get meets on Fab. Looks come after cock. So many guys are obsessed with their dicks and think everyone else is as obsessed. We have been sent literally thousands of dick pics. We've never met a single guy who sent one.

What is sexy is different for everyone. No formula. For us a nice face pic with a smile and no sunglasses (most pics have sunglasses for some reason) so we can see you is a great start. Humour and intelligence is great. Not boasting about you sexual prowess is great.

There has to be chemistry, a spark. Pushy guys are a turn off and serial messengers are just plain creepy.

The majority of messages we get are just disheartening but the few good ones we get make it worthwhile. There are some lovely single guys on Fab, you just have to wade through the dick pics, inane messages and the odd abusive moron to find them. "

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality, spark, intelligence and good girth do it for me.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Personality, sense of humour,conversation and a good face.

The cock doesn't come into it,unless that's all that's on a profile then I'll block.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart (very); hot (enough); nice(ly behaved).

Plus some ease of communication / shared understanding of the rules.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Sense of humour and personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is a perfect example of why so many men struggle to get meets on Fab. Looks come after cock. So many guys are obsessed with their dicks and think everyone else is as obsessed. We have been sent literally thousands of dick pics. We've never met a single guy who sent one.

What is sexy is different for everyone. No formula. For us a nice face pic with a smile and no sunglasses (most pics have sunglasses for some reason) so we can see you is a great start. Humour and intelligence is great. Not boasting about you sexual prowess is great.

There has to be chemistry, a spark. Pushy guys are a turn off and serial messengers are just plain creepy.

The majority of messages we get are just disheartening but the few good ones we get make it worthwhile. There are some lovely single guys on Fab, you just have to wade through the dick pics, inane messages and the odd abusive moron to find them. "

This above , exactly

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By *wendolineFoxWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I’m struggling to see how anyone has misinterpreted OP’s query!

I know it hurts to hear it, chaps, but your cock is a long way down the list of interesting things about you.

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By *ust a little bit moreWoman
over a year ago

kendal

Dick size is irrelevant, you do know alot of women don't cum from penetration alone don't you, so cock size is kinda irrelevant.

There just has to be 'something'

Some kinda spark!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Attraction

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London


"I love this forum. As people always see the worst in a question. Misinterpretation is exactly what’s wrong on here as texts can be both good and bad. On here NO ONE sees the good side. Oh well it does make me smile. "

Am curious how you wanted us to interpret it. Help us out OP!

E

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So a woman can choose who she has sex with but what seals the deal for a lovely female.

Is it girth or length, nice bottom or just looking very handsome. "
Its how you talk to them if you can have a normal conversation then thats the deal breaker how do you even contemplate sex before you meet

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By *llaandGCouple
over a year ago

London


"So a woman can choose who she has sex with but what seals the deal for a lovely female.

Is it girth or length, nice bottom or just looking very handsome. Its how you talk to them if you can have a normal conversation then thats the deal breaker how do you even contemplate sex before you meet "

It sounds so simple and yet…

E

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Chemistry, respect and sense of fun have to click 1st . Also need to find each other attractive to xx

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"The OP is a perfect example of why so many men struggle to get meets on Fab. Looks come after cock. So many guys are obsessed with their dicks and think everyone else is as obsessed. We have been sent literally thousands of dick pics. We've never met a single guy who sent one.

What is sexy is different for everyone. No formula. For us a nice face pic with a smile and no sunglasses (most pics have sunglasses for some reason) so we can see you is a great start. Humour and intelligence is great. Not boasting about you sexual prowess is great.

There has to be chemistry, a spark. Pushy guys are a turn off and serial messengers are just plain creepy.

The majority of messages we get are just disheartening but the few good ones we get make it worthwhile. There are some lovely single guys on Fab, you just have to wade through the dick pics, inane messages and the odd abusive moron to find them. "

Love this!

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"Being respectful and having chemistry is the deal breaker for us. "

Got an O level in it, are you fussy about the grade?

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"Personality. Chemistry.

It doesn't matter the size of the cock if the person it's attached to doesn't excite me. It doesn't matter how pretty someone is if the conversation can't flow. "

So Shania Twain nailed it ?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"So a woman can choose who she has sex with but what seals the deal for a lovely female.

Is it girth or length, nice bottom or just looking very handsome. "

Did you want us to vote on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being spoken to as a person and not a bit of meat, respect goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girth for me and some length! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being spoken to as a person and not a bit of meat, respect goes a long way "

& this!! Some men on here have no idea how to talk to women.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Maybe just talk to them and listen - don’t be touchy/grabby whatever on a meet - let the ‘date’ flow and a woman will let you know if she wants to take it further…. She may subtly say - would you care to bum me out by the bins in 5 mins? Or something equally seductive - but don’t expect anything and then anything else is a plus

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