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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Needs to be in a picture with someone else?

I have seen photos where there is just a penis in a picture against a woman's naked body. Whereas I have had a picture rejected where my hand is clearly in the picture.

Does anyone know the official position?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least your cock minimum.

Something substantial.

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By *elpful and caringMan
over a year ago

Scarborough

I think it’s arbitrary depending on who moderates it.

I’ve had pics rejected and on other people’s accounts the same type of pics are in plain site.

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Thanks for the feedback.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Needs to be in a picture with someone else?

I have seen photos where there is just a penis in a picture against a woman's naked body. Whereas I have had a picture rejected where my hand is clearly in the picture.

Does anyone know the official position? "

What else was in the photo other than your hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair OP, I very much doubt that any of your target audience want to see any pictures on YOUR profile of anyone else but you.

Nobody wants to see your 'conquests'

As for the rules, did you conceal the womans identity sufficiently?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I only want to see the person not anyone they have met

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

As much of you as possible... Nobody else if you are a single profile... Seen some lovely bums that are feck all to do with anyone on here ffs!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm sure if you can prove the other parts of the body is yours by other images (detail)

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"As much of you as possible... Nobody else if you are a single profile... Seen some lovely bums that are feck all to do with anyone on here ffs! "

This.

And there's nothing worse than having to.print out various body parts and assmble a jigsaw to get the slightest idea of what someone looks like, even without a face pic.

The hand on an arse/cock in a mouth (or vice versa) shots that are 95% woman on a single guy profile tell you fuck all about the guy in question.

And it's always 'an ex' if bareback.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much of you as possible... Nobody else if you are a single profile... Seen some lovely bums that are feck all to do with anyone on here ffs! "

A picture paints a thousand words, show your value.

Social proof can be powerful.

If you are nailing hot women some other women will think there must be something about them.

The product is good.

Will filter off the 1s who are gonna give you a headache and not be up for pics and videos too.

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By *ensual OP   Man
over a year ago

Sutton

Thanks everyone. The picture was not of a "conquest" but of a friend in rope, suitably anonymised and with consent. To be honest my target audience is those interested kink and preferably Japanese style bondage. Where the look of the rigger should not affect their ability to tie. Also I am not so narcissistic that I have to appear in my pictures or show off conquests. I rarely take pictures when doing a rope scene as it is hard to keep the emotional connection and flow of the rope if I stop to take pictures. But there was a natural break and she likes a picture as a reminder. So putting myself in such a picture and displaying the rope well, does not work.

But I will see it as another lesson learnt about Fab.

One good thing is that when I told my friend the picture was rejected, she said I should come over and do more tying and take more pictures!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Thanks everyone. The picture was not of a "conquest" but of a friend in rope, suitably anonymised and with consent. To be honest my target audience is those interested kink and preferably Japanese style bondage. Where the look of the rigger should not affect their ability to tie. Also I am not so narcissistic that I have to appear in my pictures or show off conquests. I rarely take pictures when doing a rope scene as it is hard to keep the emotional connection and flow of the rope if I stop to take pictures. But there was a natural break and she likes a picture as a reminder. So putting myself in such a picture and displaying the rope well, does not work.

But I will see it as another lesson learnt about Fab.

One good thing is that when I told my friend the picture was rejected, she said I should come over and do more tying and take more pictures!"

What you describe sounds like your most recent photo which is publicly visible.

You can see an anonymous hand clearly.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Thanks everyone. The picture was not of a "conquest" but of a friend in rope, suitably anonymised and with consent. To be honest my target audience is those interested kink and preferably Japanese style bondage. Where the look of the rigger should not affect their ability to tie. Also I am not so narcissistic that I have to appear in my pictures or show off conquests. I rarely take pictures when doing a rope scene as it is hard to keep the emotional connection and flow of the rope if I stop to take pictures. But there was a natural break and she likes a picture as a reminder. So putting myself in such a picture and displaying the rope well, does not work.

But I will see it as another lesson learnt about Fab.

One good thing is that when I told my friend the picture was rejected, she said I should come over and do more tying and take more pictures!"

Everybody always says they have consent but Fab has no way of verifying that and neither to others. I once found my hand in action on another site for (insert name of old Ford car) without consent and rather off-putting. Also come across cases before where ladies have found out somebody has shared saying consent and they were lying and the lady was furious.

Interesting to think what would happen if the rule of being in the pic wasn't there. Guess people could post all kinds of crap and we would never know who is who. Current system is not perfect but think it broadly works. For rope there is alway self-tying/self suspension

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"As much of you as possible... Nobody else if you are a single profile... Seen some lovely bums that are feck all to do with anyone on here ffs!

A picture paints a thousand words, show your value.

Social proof can be powerful.

If you are nailing hot women some other women will think there must be something about them.

The product is good.

Will filter off the 1s who are gonna give you a headache and not be up for pics and videos too.

"

Gosh so not wanting pics/videos equate to giving you a headache? Might have self-filtered with a few there

You are right on social proof to some extent and hence the power of veris. Not sure close up cock in some random fanny or hand on some random arse really gives much social proof. As already commented lots and lots of ladies really don't like it.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"As much of you as possible... Nobody else if you are a single profile... Seen some lovely bums that are feck all to do with anyone on here ffs!

A picture paints a thousand words, show your value.

Social proof can be powerful.

If you are nailing hot women some other women will think there must be something about them.

The product is good.

Will filter off the 1s who are gonna give you a headache and not be up for pics and videos too.

"

that's all I've got for that

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