FabSwingers.com forum: Not surprised us single men get a bad rep!!

By *normousrodent OP Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Just had a great visit to Kestrels today and met some lovely couples today, but there were a handful of imo vile single men literally pestering and have zero respect for any level of personal space. This same man was even giving other men zero personal space and kept saying ‘can I have a look’ etc when it’s just not appropriate.

It didn’t help that he was also very smelly (you’d think with so much water and showers he’d actually use it!).

I’m sure anyone who was there today knows exactly who this person is and for all couples who had the misfortune of having him there…I’m sorry on behalf of the genuine repectful lot (which there were plenty of today). Just 2-3 bad eggs imo today….

#rantover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a great visit to Kestrels today and met some lovely couples today, but there were a handful of imo vile single men literally pestering and have zero respect for any level of personal space. This same man was even giving other men zero personal space and kept saying ‘can I have a look’ etc when it’s just not appropriate.

It didn’t help that he was also very smelly (you’d think with so much water and showers he’d actually use it!).

#rantover"

Sorry mate, my bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to management. I am pretty sure they would kick him out

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By *amLaraCroftWoman
over a year ago

London

Sorry I missed you I usually go on a Sunday too

I find that the other men put these members in their place

Some of the members kind of police themselves and put boundaries in place before it gets to management

But if you bring up a hygiene issue staff would tactfully ask him to take a shower as it can get very hot inside xx

It didn’t help that he was also very smelly (you’d think with so much water and showers he’d actually use it!).

#rantover"

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

very rare that i/we find single men misbehaving we always find it normally a guy of a couple who think because hes part of a couple that the rules dont apply ..

im always weary of men who put other men down its almost white knight oh look at me im perfect im not like then post

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"very rare that i/we find single men misbehaving we always find it normally a guy of a couple who think because hes part of a couple that the rules dont apply ..

im always weary of men who put other men down its almost white knight oh look at me im perfect im not like then post "

This

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"very rare that i/we find single men misbehaving we always find it normally a guy of a couple who think because hes part of a couple that the rules dont apply ..

im always weary of men who put other men down its almost white knight oh look at me im perfect im not like then post "
This but put more politley and op, don't think you have the right to appologise on behalf of me, that I do loath.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

And since I'm having a rant, if someone wants to judge me based on other mens behavour then, they are not the type of person I would want to be with.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"very rare that i/we find single men misbehaving we always find it normally a guy of a couple who think because hes part of a couple that the rules dont apply ..

im always weary of men who put other men down its almost white knight oh look at me im perfect im not like then post "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny now but we were playing in a club recently with another couple of invited guys and a man kept trying to push me (Diego) out of the way.

Had to speak to him rather aggressively in the end.

Some people

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