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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are meeting a guy tomorrow in a hotel, how do we get through the lobby without telling people why we are there??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get him to dress as a Policeman and tell everyone he's a stripogram surprise for the OH ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are meeting a guy tomorrow in a hotel, how do we get through the lobby without telling people why we are there??"

Just walk straight through with confidence, no one will have any idea. And enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem. Either one of you goes down and meets him or the 3 of you walk through the lobby together.

Why would you have to tell anyone? Why would anyone ask?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem. Either one of you goes down and meets him or the 3 of you walk through the lobby together.

Why would you have to tell anyone? Why would anyone ask? "

Have you done this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have me Women and Couples at hotels. Its abit daunting but nobody even bats a eye lid. Just ask him. Where he is and look for the lift or stairway. Have fun.

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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago

north wales / chester

I work at hotel so see it happen ...if u just walk through full if confdence we wouldn't even bat eye lid but when folk look dodgy thatd when we stop and ask..just get they person your meeting to meet you us the best way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem. Either one of you goes down and meets him or the 3 of you walk through the lobby together.

Why would you have to tell anyone? Why would anyone ask?

Have you done this?"

Yes.

And funnily enough I've walked in to a hotel with numerous vanilla friends without worrying that everyone thinks we are having an orgy.

No one cares. No one will bat an eyelid. No one will notice anything.

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By *ussexcouple2014Couple
over a year ago

chi/bognor

i was the night manager of a hotel in london and saw lots of things and lots of peps going in and out but to be honest they probly wont even notice xxx have fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one will notice or care.

We have had several meets in hotels and 4 of us have walked past reception to the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got hotel meet fri night too much going on at hotels to worry about swingers unless your shagging in the lounge then I think they would notice lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Make sure you don't try to drop the key off the window....like someone did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maidstone couple,he is a lucky guy,Mrs Maidstone is gorgeous x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just done one today - I met him outside and my wife waited in the room - just casually went to our room and had an hour of fun - we all left together and there was no problem at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem. Either one of you goes down and meets him or the 3 of you walk through the lobby together.

Why would you have to tell anyone? Why would anyone ask?

Have you done this?"

Yes and so have we. Staff at the hotel won't even notice so don't worry. Have a good meet!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

LOL when I think of the things I have got away with in hotel rooms.....

They don't give a crap, really.

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Being from Guernsey when we play in the uk 9 times out of 10 its in a hotel, we always book in first get ready then when the guy?woman?couple are arriving the text us and I go down to meet them and just walk straight back to the room with them in tow, never been stopped or even looked at funny.

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By *a petite madameWoman
over a year ago

London / Essex

Nobody else's business

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By *exyminxxWoman
over a year ago

sexyville

We are meeting a guy tomorrow in a hotel, how do we get through the lobby without telling people why we are there??

Just make sure you get the room number before you go in. The rooms areclearly ssigned so its easy to see where to go normally.

I've done it and the first time its daunting after that its easy. Just hold your head up in confidence and go. Hope you have an enjoyable experience xx

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

Just walk through. People always walk straight through. If they've already booked in and have popped out and are coming back. There's nothing seedy about it..... Just act like you know exactly where you're going and go. If any one does approach you ... Which is unlikely ... Just say 'I'm waiting for my friend' or if they say 'can I help you?' just say ' oh no it's ok thankyou' and carry on.

Simples*

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By *lipperyWhenWet!Couple
over a year ago

Rochester

As the thread is now 2 days old, I wonder if we can tempt the OP to letting us know if they went bright red in the lobby?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

walk in like you own the place and staying there and no problems x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just all walk in and be natural...no one cares as long as the room is paid for...

Just make sure if you have pre agreed to share the cost of the room the other party coughs up before leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what do you say when booking the room . Do you book it for the night and just leave after the fun is over.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So what do you say when booking the room . Do you book it for the night and just leave after the fun is over."

Yep. As long as you pay and don't completely trash the room I am pretty sure they don't care. I suspect hotel owners have seen it all by now.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

used hotels dozens of times without any issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think the people working there are paid enough to give a shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just walk upto reception and tell them your here to fuck the person in room 308

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has always worried me before, glad to see it's never usually an issue. I guess I'm just too darned innocent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always ask them to call us when they get parked up and one of us goes down to let them in. Reception staff have never asked any questions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of years ago we arranged a meet with a fem at a Premierinn. We had drinks in the bar, then decided to go play in our room. Part way through I had a txt on my phone saying "are you guys swingers". The phone was the same one given for the hotel booking and not a number id give out to casual acquaintances. Mr notts then said he'd noticed one of the male members of staff looking very suspicious and thinks he followed us to the room.

Can only assume he listened at the door , confirming what he thought then got my number off the booking.

Cheeky sod !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having previously worked in hotels for a number of years, as long as your not causing too much of a disturbance or openly playing they wont say anything.

I now spend a lot of nights away for work and would be more than happy to accomodate people. No sharing costs as the company pays

If anyone is interested pm me to see if im in the area...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are meeting a guy tomorrow in a hotel, how do we get through the lobby without telling people why we are there??"

Just walk to his room or ask him to meet in reception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say it was clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just walk through, no one will ask why your there, a hotel has lots of guests.

If anyone did guess, then they would simply be jelous lol

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By *hangovCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

The only problems we have ever had is that people have complained about the noise from the room and about us doing pics on the stairs.

We just got a bit quieter in the room and on the other occasion stopped doing pics and went back to the room and everything was ok!

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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago

Whitstable

We usually meet the guy in the bar have a drink , then Rebecca goes to the room(never looks odd with just two people walking through), then give it 5 mins then I go.Never had a problem yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just been offered a hotel meet with single guy. Very tempted as hotel is actually only 15 min walk from ours lol. And love making noise in hotel rooms lol

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

There's nothing to worry about at hotels as no one bats an eye lid.but I suggest you arrange to meet in a bar unless your sure about the person,so many time waisters on here,are you sure they will turn up,we were at a wedding and planned to meet a guy after but he didn't turn up.we had called him so say we had left wedding .wife was horny as hell .but the wanker was a no show,so be careful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just walk upto reception and tell them your here to fuck the person in room 308"

just make sure you get the number right

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

YA the Lucan Spa hotel in dublin rang us in our room when we brought two black guys up to our room for some fun!!

told us to get them out of our room as you are not allow bring guest's up to your room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet in the bar, have a couple of drinks then I'll go up to the room for a shower and five or ten mins later, Jonny brings our playmate up (we always ask for two keys!).

We've never had anyone ask any questions. Normally Jonny and I stay over at the hotel, we've only had to leave before morning twice - once because I had to go to the walk in centre as I'd got a seed lodged in my throat and even after several hours and much sucking of cock it still hadn't dislodged!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi we would say meet in the bar as if it was business have a chat maybe a play under the table or at the bar . then you the male of the couple goes to the room first then the other two five min later .if you like him that is .

good luck and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a meet before Christmas gave them the room number and hotel and they ended up going to the right room wrong hotel. That was an interesting conversation when they knocked on the door!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if its a daytime meet how does it look when you book out again at say 7pm what do you guys say ??

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By *rowing old disgracefullyMan
over a year ago

Pickering

Done this in London and locally. Make sure your 'meet' has given you the room number and, as others have said, walk in with confidence.

Have fun guys!!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

wear ur sunglasses even if its dark, and just cruise on in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel staff have seen it all my mate used to work in one and they know what goes on. As long as you don't break any rules they don't care.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"YA the Lucan Spa hotel in dublin rang us in our room when we brought two black guys up to our room for some fun!!

told us to get them out of our room as you are not allow bring guest's up to your room.

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Irish hotels can be very straitlaced.

A friend of mine was accused of being a working girl after she had company. Thing was they booted her out in the middle of the night and not only refused to refund her for other nights she had booked but also told her they had rung other local hotels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had arranged a hotel meet with a very sexy male friend of ours and it was going very well until there was a loud 'crack' and the wooden bed fell to the floor.

So funny having to call the manager up to try and get moved to a new room and trying to convince him that it just broke!!!

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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago

Whitstable

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By *lbecCouple
over a year ago

Whitstable


"So if its a daytime meet how does it look when you book out again at say 7pm what do you guys say ?? "

Just say you have a very early start next day and can you settle bill now, never had a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if its a daytime meet how does it look when you book out again at say 7pm what do you guys say ?? "

Settle the bill as you arrive then when you have finished your fun just go. Leave the key/card in the room. Never had a problem doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if its a daytime meet how does it look when you book out again at say 7pm what do you guys say ?? "

Let them take a swipe of your debit/credit card and leave when you want leaving the key in the room, done it loads and never had an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggest you don't tell anyone why you are there? Interesting question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your message is so strange that, being cynics, you are really trying to advertise where you are going to be. If that's the case, we don't think it will work.

Signed ... cynic xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was the night manager of a hotel in london and saw lots of things and lots of peps going in and out but to be honest they probly wont even notice xxx have fun xxx"

Looking to hv our first meet in a hotel. Nervous but how to meet at the hotel but this thread has definitely helped banish some nerves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your message is so strange that, being cynics, you are really trying to advertise where you are going to be. If that's the case, we don't think it will work.

Signed ... cynic xx"
your cynicism is misguided..i was the lucky guy and it worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have two separate nights booked in March so think we'll either

1) meet our playmates by the bar,

2) give them the room number so they can walk straight in, or

3) just walk through the lobby with our playmates brimming with bravado

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its no ones business as to why your there unless you make it known.

Just walk through. Have him meet you both or juat go straight up to his room if your comfortable..and take it from there.

Dont act suspicious or you will raise suspicion.

Have a good time regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop in hotels a lot for work - most would be no problem but most of the newer premier inn's and travel lodges (and some IBIS's) have a keycard system to enter the hotel after the lobby. Hence, visitors are forced to ask reception to let them in. But as previous posters have said, be confident. Errr, and dress down - going through the lobby in a PVC dress and nowt else might raise a few eyebrows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had a problem in a premier inn after coming back late and his name not being on my room they were right arsey,. but apart from that one time never had a problem just walk straight in they will just think your a guest x

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By *ussexcouple2014Couple
over a year ago

chi/bognor

Hubby has just become night worker at a chain of budget hotels on the south coast anyone meeting in hot3ls on the south coast let us know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We are meeting a guy tomorrow in a hotel, how do we get through the lobby without telling people why we are there??

Just walk straight through with confidence, no one will have any idea. And enjoy "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to a hotel with a guy. We walked in together, he had pre-booked the room and while he was paying the "ugly" receptionist looked at me like I was a prostitute. When I asked him if he saw it he said yes - he wasnt too impressed. Soured the evening a little for me.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

depends if you book the hotel room per person per night or room rate ..if you pay the room rate then it doesnt matter how many people are in the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wondered this,if you met a guy and you met in lobby to chat then the 3 of you's walked off towards the rooms lol

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