FabSwingers.com forum: Profile Review

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

Was wondering if you could give me a bit of advice on my profile, I want to catch a bit more interest when I message people so looking for some advice on how to make it more interesting, cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically your profile is open to me... Think abt that mildly shocking concept...

Looks like written on phone (typos) and the explore / respect boundiaries thing (I think you mean yours / theirs) cd be better phrased.

But, honestly, there are less attractive men on here 2 (and 3!) times your age less literate.

It's fine xx

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead

Hi Lukas, you love exploring nature, wow, good for you. That gives loads of options for interesting pics.

Add some pics of you at the hiking, at the wild swimming, and in the city. Some pics dressed smartly and some casually.

What's your sport? Pics of you at the windsurfing, or running, or whatever you do?

Go to some socials and clubs and get some veris. Hope you enjoy it.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

You need more photos.

Other than that, your age might go against you, you'll be a little young for a lot of us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Lukas, you love exploring nature, wow, good for you. That gives loads of options for interesting pics.

Add some pics of you at the hiking, at the wild swimming, and in the city. Some pics dressed smartly and some casually.

What's your sport? Pics of you at the windsurfing, or running, or whatever you do?

Go to some socials and clubs and get some veris. Hope you enjoy it.

While it does mean I have some interesting pics I could use, at the same time I don't really want anything with my face or fully nude pics up on my public gallery. I have a couple pictures that I share with people I'm interested in after 2-3 messages though haha

Agree with the veri's, but I think I'm a bit too young for clubs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You need more photos.

Other than that, your age might go against you, you'll be a little young for a lot of us! "

True, I guess I'll try to get more with my face cropped out/from the back. I've definitely noticed a lot of the minimum ages are set to late 20s, maybe I should just come back in 5 years time!

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead

Cropped or from the back, good idea.

You know, Lucas, I have found that other people are more flexible on age when meeting in person.

For example, I've made some fun acquaintances at Abfab/Kestrels who I would be too old for, according to their profile on this site.

My suggestion is to simply go along to socials and clubs and say hello. It may seem awkward but stick with it and you'll probably make friends - especially when you become a familiar face.

It makes such as big difference when you see people for the second time and they're no longer complete strangers, you're remembered from last week, or last time a few weeks ago, or something.

After all, at a club or social everyone has this special, big thing in common.

Some might soon wonder if you have a big thing in your pants as well. (Laugh)

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