FabSwingers.com forum: Profile review

By *ha94 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Hi all

Just looking for some tips. I have been on here for quite a long time but I had my time wasted multiple times by seemingly fake people and/or completely blanked by real ones despite meeting their criteria.

I know it is much harder for South Asian single males (even more if not gym fit and tall) but not even one meet going ahead when outside of fab I do get to have some fun probably means I should change something in my profile or maybe the approach?

Any help is much appreciated

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By *ha94 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Bump

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Maybe add some variety of pictures and update your bio as it just seems to be cliff notes

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Your profile seems OK to me, outlines what you are looking for and a nice pic on it. Maybe a couple more pics? Even if you think you meet someones criteria, there are hundreds of others who probably do too so it won't be a given that they will pick you.

Most of the time it is just a waiting game to be honest, why not stick around on the forum and see if you get noticed that way, or the chatrooms if you are into them

Good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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PS do you like big social events or clubs ? if so there are lots of events to go to in the event and party section of the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might meet their criteria but for alot its down to attraction you just might not be for them, like the poster said above its a waiting game men out weigh woman id say you really need more variety of pics aswell

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By *ha94 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Your profile seems OK to me, outlines what you are looking for and a nice pic on it. Maybe a couple more pics? Even if you think you meet someones criteria, there are hundreds of others who probably do too so it won't be a given that they will pick you.

Most of the time it is just a waiting game to be honest, why not stick around on the forum and see if you get noticed that way, or the chatrooms if you are into them

Good luck

Thank you! In terms of photos I have more available for friends and can take more on request. It's just that I have to be more discreet because of my work and community

I have seen an increase in views since I joined the forum so let's see

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By *ha94 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"You might meet their criteria but for alot its down to attraction you just might not be for them, like the poster said above its a waiting game men out weigh woman id say you really need more variety of pics aswell"

Thank you

Yes I know there is plenty more men that would also fit the criteria so I was just wondering whether there was something that I was maybe doing wrong. Photo wise, I do send a clear recent face picture with my messages and have more available for friends as I need to be very discreet

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By *ha94 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe add some variety of pictures and update your bio as it just seems to be cliff notes "

Thank you

in terms of variety what would you all suggest? I do have more available for friends

Bio wise do you have any tip?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

You dont need to have personal photos on display but your profile is like a shop window people look and if theres not much to see they move elsewhere, you can photos without your face in them.. body shots clothed and unclothed etc

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Variety is the spice of life when a user has a preference this can either open the options available to them or cut it down as for photos you can either crop or taken from an angle some smartly dressed others bit of kink whatever you feel comfortable with you can browse the photo gallery for ideas that may give you inspiration

Good luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Most of the time it is just a waiting game to be honest, why not stick around on the forum and see if you get noticed that way, or the chatrooms if you are into them

Good luck

Thank you! In terms of photos I have more available for friends and can take more on request. It's just that I have to be more discreet because of my work and community

I have seen an increase in views since I joined the forum so let's see

Ijust meant that's the only thing I could suggest to improve your profile as I liked the profile as it was even with just the one pic...others may like to see more though, if you do decide to add more they don't have to be naked or face shots though.

Lots of people view in stealth so you have probably had more views than you think

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By *ha94 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Thank you all! I appreciate the feedback

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