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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want to jump on this hole 'profile review' thingy Before every gets a little bored of it. Iv noticed i tend to get over looked. I know im not going to be everyone's cup of tea which is fine. I don't want to be quite Frankley lol.. just could you please take a look and see where I'm going wrong. I mean maybe it's just me being me. Who knows. But if you can take 2 mins to review it and another 2 to comment I'd be very greatful.

Have a great weekend either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference in the spelling and grammar on this post and that in your bio leads me to believe that you’ve just cut and pasted your profile from somewhere else.

Therefore it’s not really an original description of you you is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact you put in your profile that your too busy to message speaks volumes

You only get back what you put in which is probably why you get over looked

Most females and couples get many messages so spend a lot of time dealing with them, they don't need to always go searching as others have already searched for them n sent a message

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think it’s a waste of time messaging first you’ll prob find you do get overlooked. The ratio of single men to women etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The difference is, I took my time on my profile (over time) this just got typed with not much thought.

Tha ks for looking I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The fact you put in your profile that your too busy to message speaks volumes

You only get back what you put in which is probably why you get over looked

Most females and couples get many messages so spend a lot of time dealing with them, they don't need to always go searching as others have already searched for them n sent a message

Good luck "

I appreciate that. To be honest, I give up messaging people. They are either rude or a waste of time. I guess I am to blame. But I'm not about to change that. I'm here if you want me. Thats my motto

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london

It’s a decent profile with some seriously hot pics. But I’d tend to say it’s a tad negative. Reads like you’ve been hurt by rejection and that’s never a good vibe. You say little about what you want/offer. The lines about “want x? - message me” are a bit throw away. I’d rewrite to focus on what you want/offer. If you must keep the negative stuff in (I wouldn’t) then add it almost as a footnote at the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s a decent profile with some seriously hot pics. But I’d tend to say it’s a tad negative. Reads like you’ve been hurt by rejection and that’s never a good vibe. You say little about what you want/offer. The lines about “want x? - message me” are a bit throw away. I’d rewrite to focus on what you want/offer. If you must keep the negative stuff in (I wouldn’t) then add it almost as a footnote at the end "

I am taking note on this, I really appreciate it. It shows because its true. But I guess it's not a good look now you say it ill have a look and see how I can tweak it. Thanks a bunch buddy and just so you and anyone who reads this knows. I'm never rude when rejected, iv always taken it on the chin. We are all adults aren't we

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By *olbornsubguyMan
over a year ago

london

Cheers - good luck with it. The trick is to balance what you say, whilst thinking about what will attract the people you want to fuck.

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By *idalgo13Man
over a year ago

Near York

Hi D, it is very much ‘horses for course’ on fab. My personal advice is that you are a good looking chap with a great torso so flaunt it! Personally I am not a lover of bathroom selfies, as I don’t always want to see what’s in the background, as it distracts from the person, body, face etc.

Listen my bio and photos are never going to be to everyone’s taste..but I knew that when I started. Also the photo of you next to the ceiling shade distracts from you. You have great veris, great body and are good looking, just tweak a few photos and change the ‘someone special’ to incorporate couples in your bio.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Your profile looks good and the pictures I'm surprised you're struggling because you are a pretty tall guy and are many on here whom are interested in that so try to connect with those whom match your requirements as well as theirs and use the calm approach within the messages remember people are people not objects

Good luck pal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi D, it is very much ‘horses for course’ on fab. My personal advice is that you are a good looking chap with a great torso so flaunt it! Personally I am not a lover of bathroom selfies, as I don’t always want to see what’s in the background, as it distracts from the person, body, face etc.

Listen my bio and photos are never going to be to everyone’s taste..but I knew that when I started. Also the photo of you next to the ceiling shade distracts from you. You have great veris, great body and are good looking, just tweak a few photos and change the ‘someone special’ to incorporate couples in your bio. "

Thankyou kindly buddy. I appreciate the response. Im trying! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi op

Your profile looks good and the pictures I'm surprised you're struggling because you are a pretty tall guy and are many on here whom are interested in that so try to connect with those whom match your requirements as well as theirs and use the calm approach within the messages remember people are people not objects

Good luck pal "

Thanks buddy I appreciate the kind words. I try to keep it casual. But can you be too casual? As we are all here for the same reasons?

Thanks again mate

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi op

Your profile looks good and the pictures I'm surprised you're struggling because you are a pretty tall guy and are many on here whom are interested in that so try to connect with those whom match your requirements as well as theirs and use the calm approach within the messages remember people are people not objects

Good luck pal

Thanks buddy I appreciate the kind words. I try to keep it casual. But can you be too casual? As we are all here for the same reasons?

Thanks again mate"

Welcome buddy

Best way have no expectations treat others with respect which I'm sure you have and try to get to know them none sexually then build up to flirting. Nope you can't be too casual it's relaxing never try to be someone else if that's how you are keep it.

As you've mentioned we are all here for the same reasons users on here are looking for allsorts some same, some totally different some prefer clubs whereas others something else even enjoying the social aspects which can be pretty much enjoyed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi op

Your profile looks good and the pictures I'm surprised you're struggling because you are a pretty tall guy and are many on here whom are interested in that so try to connect with those whom match your requirements as well as theirs and use the calm approach within the messages remember people are people not objects

Good luck pal

Thanks buddy I appreciate the kind words. I try to keep it casual. But can you be too casual? As we are all here for the same reasons?

Thanks again mate

Welcome buddy

Best way have no expectations treat others with respect which I'm sure you have and try to get to know them none sexually then build up to flirting. Nope you can't be too casual it's relaxing never try to be someone else if that's how you are keep it.

As you've mentioned we are all here for the same reasons users on here are looking for allsorts some same, some totally different some prefer clubs whereas others something else even enjoying the social aspects which can be pretty much enjoyed "

I totally get every word your saying. And I'm forever trying to incorporate this into my time here. Iv been patient for well over a year on here now lol, So that must say something. Just seems the longer I'm on here, the harder it gets. When I joined years ago, I had meets after meet. Most aren't on here anymore. But the last year has been so dry. Iv been patient though and non pushy. I guess my time will come

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi op

Your profile looks good and the pictures I'm surprised you're struggling because you are a pretty tall guy and are many on here whom are interested in that so try to connect with those whom match your requirements as well as theirs and use the calm approach within the messages remember people are people not objects

Good luck pal

Thanks buddy I appreciate the kind words. I try to keep it casual. But can you be too casual? As we are all here for the same reasons?

Thanks again mate

Welcome buddy

Best way have no expectations treat others with respect which I'm sure you have and try to get to know them none sexually then build up to flirting. Nope you can't be too casual it's relaxing never try to be someone else if that's how you are keep it.

As you've mentioned we are all here for the same reasons users on here are looking for allsorts some same, some totally different some prefer clubs whereas others something else even enjoying the social aspects which can be pretty much enjoyed

I totally get every word your saying. And I'm forever trying to incorporate this into my time here. Iv been patient for well over a year on here now lol, So that must say something. Just seems the longer I'm on here, the harder it gets. When I joined years ago, I had meets after meet. Most aren't on here anymore. But the last year has been so dry. Iv been patient though and non pushy. I guess my time will come"

Since the pandemic loads of things changed on the site loads of users gone AWOL but many new the site has many ways to engage with others their is the meet section and putting an interesting article but remember not everyone may see it as not everyone maybe viewing or not on the site but keep at it then their is the cams a great way to use the chat and connect with others and obviously the forums get involved and remember not everyone might get involved but might be lurking and if they see something that caught their attention can also lead anywhere be patient while using the tools available you'll be fine

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