FabSwingers.com forum: Cuck angsts

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys recently started on the end of a cuck relationship with a fwb I know where she teases me and tells me the details of what she’s up to and I find it really hot

But honestly it makes me feel bad sometimes about myself, what’s a good way to deal with the mixed emotions

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

I think that if you are going to have a cuckold relationship.. Then it has to be part of a 'proper' loving [full time] relationship. It's all well and good having the humiliation, excitement of imagining what is going on etc.. But you absolutely have to be loved, supported, and nutured by your hotwife/girlf/partner afterwards and at all times during the relationship. Otherwise it's really not fair. I don't see how that is possible with a FWB personally..

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

Please reply in the forum.. It might help others to see the advice and discussion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the message, I get what you mean it’s really hot but It does hurt a little so it’s a weird mix

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

"I think that if you are going to have a cuckold relationship.. Then it has to be part of a 'proper' loving [full time] relationship. It's all well and good having the humiliation, excitement of imagining what is going on etc.. But you absolutely have to be loved, supported, and nutured by your hotwife/girlf/partner afterwards and at all times during the relationship. Otherwise it's really not fair. I don't see how that is possible with a FWB personally.. "

This reply is perfect.

With a FWB. Isn't it just them winding you up about their other men and meets.

Hence possibly your mixed feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I suppose it is, I want it to just be fun because it is really hot but it does get to me a bit

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

It's effectively an abusive relationship... Maybe not purposefully, but I think it is bad for you. This type of dynamic has to have rock solid underpinnings..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see your point buts it’s hard to just give up something so fun for nothing else

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

Discuss it. See if you can come to an understanding that enables you to continue to feel good about it post-orgasm..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would be a good way forward?

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Keep taliking to each other

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

The cuckold dynamic only really works in "Real" couples, it's the love between the couple that intensifies the cuckold experience.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

"What would be a good way forward? "

Cut all contact and move on.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such"

And exactly the reason so many so call bulls get it wrong when messaging us. Having a big cock is advantageous but the ability to get into our heads is rarer that rocking horse shit.

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

So true

"100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such

And exactly the reason so many so call bulls get it wrong when messaging us. Having a big cock is advantageous but the ability to get into our heads is rarer that rocking horse shit. "

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such

And exactly the reason so many so call bulls get it wrong when messaging us. Having a big cock is advantageous but the ability to get into our heads is rarer that rocking horse shit. "

A lot of them forget that there are three people in the relationship. As the 'third' (I hate the term bull) they need to realise that they are responsible for making sure the cuck gets something out of it as well.

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

"The cuckold dynamic only really works in "Real" couples, it's the love between the couple that intensifies the cuckold experience."

your so right there , its the being there for all the other stuff going on in life and enjoying the time you have with the extra guy and what he brings ,, but once he has gone you are both still buzzing

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By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

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"100% this ... cuckold is for people in loving relationships ... most of its in the mind not the sex as such

And exactly the reason so many so call bulls get it wrong when messaging us. Having a big cock is advantageous but the ability to get into our heads is rarer that rocking horse shit. "

not always about the cock size,, the mind is the best tool in the guys box, shame so many dont use it,, after all the cuck side is also mind and how its used my all 3 , cuckold play is always about enjoyment and openness with all,

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By *r_magic_tongueMan
over a year ago

Hull

Having had the pleasure of being a 'bull' for several cuckold and hotwife couples over the years, I fully agree with the other posts. The bull has to gain the trust of both the husband & wife and understand when to act in a sexual manner and when to just relax and enjoy the social side.

It's not just about the sex acts as most guys think. A good bull will be able to stimulate the couple's imaginations and bring a new dimension to their sex life through conversation and enabling fantasies.

If there's no mutal respect between all 3 of you then it's going to end badly for you op. Take measures to protect yourself before you get hurt

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