FabSwingers.com forum: Relationship

By *narmitage OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Staines

Hello, I am Anna. Male to Female Transgender, on hormonal medication since October 2021. I am currently in a sexless relationship that literally messes up with my head every day, I am taking Citalopram (antidepressant) as to cope with the situation. My nature is to be romantic, nurturing, supportive and up to a reasonable point - clingy. This relationship is starting to make me devoid of any emotions that I want to express as a lover, feels just like a friendship at this point. It is weird. He is not doing almost anything to improve the situation.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hello Anna

I'll move this to support and advice. Hopefully you'll get some useful support

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Anne sorry to hear this ...you need to talk or move on with your life xx

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, I am Anna. Male to Female Transgender, on hormonal medication since October 2021. I am currently in a sexless relationship that literally messes up with my head every day, I am taking Citalopram (antidepressant) as to cope with the situation. My nature is to be romantic, nurturing, supportive and up to a reasonable point - clingy. This relationship is starting to make me devoid of any emotions that I want to express as a lover, feels just like a friendship at this point. It is weird. He is not doing almost anything to improve the situation."
Talking's good but doesn't work for everyone. Have you expressed all of this to your partner? If so and it hasn't improved in any way - best to get out imo. Your nature sounds very similar to mine, I've found that not many can handle such intensity. There truly is something/someone that'll get you. They don't have to fully understand you but will be willing to stand by you. So stay authentic no matter how difficult it seems because it's the only way to attract what suits us