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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

hi all do you think it’s possible to find a fwb on here where we could attend clubs and socials together

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

It definitely is... I am on my 3rd and been seeing him for over 6 years

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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

can’t see it happening tbh not having much luck either on here or in clubs

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Maybe try a social?

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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

been to a couple of socials didn’t enjoy them tbh

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Yup.

I met my usual club buddy on here

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I've found a few fwb's in the time that I've been here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can’t see it happening tbh not having much luck either on here or in clubs "

You asked the original question then backed it up with the above, I'm not sure why your original post then

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes it is .

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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail


"can’t see it happening tbh not having much luck either on here or in clubs

You asked the original question then backed it up with the above, I'm not sure why your original post then "

just me pytttung myself doen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sure hope so....that's why I'm here too

Waiting for some 'non vanilla' dating events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yes it is ."

What she said

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"can’t see it happening tbh not having much luck either on here or in clubs

You asked the original question then backed it up with the above, I'm not sure why your original post then

just me pytttung myself doen "

Don't, unless you are trying to sabotage getting anywhere on here.. It's not very appealing

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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

ok

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Yes it’s possible to find a fwb.

If you didn’t like the socials what makes you think you’ll like the club scene? You’d need to mix and speak to people at a club.

A verification can disappear if someone leaves.

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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

been to chams quite a few times now and always enjoyed myself

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"been to a couple of socials didn’t enjoy them tbh "

Why do you want to go to something you don't enjoy?

That'd be like me going to a cricket or football match

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By *rijj73Man
over a year ago

croydon

Why didn’t you enjoy the social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why didn’t you enjoy the social? "

Maybe he's like me, in a social group meet setting where people know each other I think I'm butting in rather than joining in. Strangely when I change jobs I'm the most social person I can be and just feel at ease and let others feel at ease with me instantly.

I went to a fab social and although it was good I just felt out of place so I never went back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s the dream. I’m still looking.

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By *urvaceousVioletWoman
over a year ago

RCT

Yep, found my fwb within a month of being on here and things are going great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possible yes but I think a lot of men want to skip the friends bit

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"hi all do you think it’s possible to find a fwb on here where we could attend clubs and socials together "

Tbh it’s much more fun being single on the scene

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By *isge BeathaWoman
over a year ago

Here, There and Everywhere

I live in eternal hope but doubt I'll ever find one! The search goes on!

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I live in eternal hope but doubt I'll ever find one! The search goes on! "

Same! It’s definitely harder than people think, excuse the pun

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Any interest feel free to message me

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Possible yes but I think a lot of men want to skip the friends bit "

That’s a very important bit.

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By *odg123Man
over a year ago

southampton

I'm looking for a fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possible yes but I think a lot of men want to skip the friends bit "

Many just want the woman to use as sex bait and a back up fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Possible yes but I think a lot of men want to skip the friends bit

Many just want the woman to use as sex bait and a back up fuck."

You would be surprised! A lot of women assume that's the case but it isn't necessarily...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you certain of what you actually want?

If you’re not enjoying the social side what are you hoping for by attending a club with a FWB?

Couple with couple fun will be unlikely if you’re not going to be sociable.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

I'm sure you can find someone with the type of arrangement you want

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Over the years had a couple and always great fun. Hard to find though.

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

I want this too

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Still looking

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)


"Possible yes but I think a lot of men want to skip the friends bit "

Exactly this!

Concentrate on meeting people, making friends.

If all you're thinking of is getting laid then you're not thinking straight and ruining your own chances.

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By *ecretRDZVMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

You have to make friends first if you want to add the benefits. Socials are realistically the only way you’ll manage as getting good interaction through messages here is extremely difficult, luck and timing is probably more important than anything.

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By *xpert Pleasure providerMan
over a year ago

near Edenbridge

I’ve had quite a few amazing FWBs over the years - mainly met on fab. I keep in touch with most once the benefit part stops - they are best fwb because you know the friendship art was as important as the benefit part

I’m not interested in one offs. The sex is much better with a FWB. A good FWB is hard to find but worth the effort in keeping

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"hi all do you think it’s possible to find a fwb on here where we could attend clubs and socials together "

Yes I Tony have had several . Was becoming increasingly rare due to covid etc but things seem to be picking up again..

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By *aan31Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I'd love to try and meet someone I could go to clubs with, socials etc but I need to feel like we have some sort of connection physically but most importantly get on well as friends.. it's also important for both to feel comfortable around each other.

I am generally quite shy so would find it hard striking up conversations face to face in the first instance

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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail

didn’t enjoy the social as i didn’t know anyone know i know people who go it will be better

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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail


"Why didn’t you enjoy the social?

Maybe he's like me, in a social group meet setting where people know each other I think I'm butting in rather than joining in. Strangely when I change jobs I'm the most social person I can be and just feel at ease and let others feel at ease with me instantly.

I went to a fab social and although it was good I just felt out of place so I never went back.

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yes i felt like i was hurting in when people were already talking

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By *agicmarc OP   Man
over a year ago

tonyrefail


"Are you certain of what you actually want?

If you’re not enjoying the social side what are you hoping for by attending a club with a FWB?

Couple with couple fun will be unlikely if you’re not going to be sociable. "

didn’t say i don’t enjoy the social side i said i didn’t enjoy the social because i felt i was butting in with people’s conversations

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