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By *lobalHotstepper OP   Man
over a year ago

Cricklewood

Been toying with the idea of making my first club visit. Potentially be with a female friend for her first time, but probably as a single male. What advice and tips would you give to make sure its enjoyable?

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By *offee Cocktails and CumCouple
over a year ago

Waterlooville

Our advice for you as a single male going to a club is don’t be a meerkat, ie stood around watching hypervigilantly, engage in conversation, be interesting, be interested.

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By *lobalHotstepper OP   Man
over a year ago

Cricklewood


"Our advice for you as a single male going to a club is don’t be a meerkat, ie stood around watching hypervigilantly, engage in conversation, be interesting, be interested. "

Thanks! Appreciate you - I can imagine that just come across as a bit odd for those in couples, I'll keep this in mind definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approach couples and try to politely engage them in some neutral conversation.

Be chatty and smile a bit if approached.

Pay her some compliments and If it feels right get a bit flirty and you never know.

This works for us.

Don’t I mean absolutely do not wait till the hubby fucks off to the loo before you approach the lady.

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

Dress smartly, smell good and smile at people. Stand near the bar and strike up conversations. If you sit in a corner wondering what to do without your phone you will have a poor night.

Kudos to any single male that has the bottle to attend a club. It takes courage and respect - not every woman will fancy you even if you are Daniel Craig himself.

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston


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Don’t I mean absolutely do not wait till the hubby fucks off to the loo before you approach the lady. "

Exactly this, as I had that the last time we went to a club. It doesn’t go down well.

Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don’t I mean absolutely do not wait till the hubby fucks off to the loo before you approach the lady.

Exactly this, as I had that the last time we went to a club. It doesn’t go down well.

Red "

Almost every club visit

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By *lobalHotstepper OP   Man
over a year ago

Cricklewood


"Approach couples and try to politely engage them in some neutral conversation.

Be chatty and smile a bit if approached.

Pay her some compliments and If it feels right get a bit flirty and you never know.

This works for us.

Don’t I mean absolutely do not wait till the hubby fucks off to the loo before you approach the lady. "

This is some great advice! Thank you. I can't say I had even considered approaching a lady with the guy in the loo, and I'm very surprised that this is a thing.

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