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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Do you think that I would get any interest if I attempted to organise and host a couples only party at my place, I have a large, safe, comfortable home with a large cinema room available in the Bingley area? Snacks and drinks supplied by myself, no charge of course as I would be hosting and hopefully enjoying the evening as invited.

In terms of numbers I could easily cater for up 5 carefully vetted couples.

Thoughts appreciated...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect it will appeal to some but we’d be concerned about hidden cameras personally so not for us.

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Of course, I never thought about that, naive me. I would never do that but gaining people trust might be tough.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We've been to parties organised by single guys but a single guy organising a couple's party sounds a bit creepy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think if you had 1 couple at least, who are friends, who join with you to organise it, it would be more likely to get attention.

You'd probably need to think about what they could get that they wouldn't get from meeting at a club, which they can currently do.

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Yes I can understand that but that's not me, just struggling to get meets off here and wanting to provide an opportunity for people to see my genuine, likeable character whilst helping them have fun.

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Good point, thanks


"I think if you had 1 couple at least, who are friends, who join with you to organise it, it would be more likely to get attention.

You'd probably need to think about what they could get that they wouldn't get from meeting at a club, which they can currently do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This do you know a local couple well who could help you promote the event?

Failing that if you had a solo / single female friend who would help you promote it that may help.

We know a singl le male in the north east who ran successful parties. The ratio would be approx 3 single males Inc him 5-8 couples and welcomed any single females who wanted to attend.

The promoting was done by himself and a couple he was good friends with.

KJ

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Thank you for your good advice, does any couple/single lady want to help?


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This do you know a local couple well who could help you promote the event?

Failing that if you had a solo / single female friend who would help you promote it that may help.

We know a singl le male in the north east who ran successful parties. The ratio would be approx 3 single males Inc him 5-8 couples and welcomed any single females who wanted to attend.

The promoting was done by himself and a couple he was good friends with.

KJ"

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I expect it will appeal to some but we’d be concerned about hidden cameras personally so not for us. "

Same for me. It’s my biggest concern with attending any kind of house party, no matter the organisers, therefore I wouldn’t be interested.

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

I understand your point totally, thanks for replying.

A difficult concern to elevate me thinks.


"I expect it will appeal to some but we’d be concerned about hidden cameras personally so not for us.

Same for me. It’s my biggest concern with attending any kind of house party, no matter the organisers, therefore I wouldn’t be interested."

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Yes I can understand that but that's not me, just struggling to get meets off here and wanting to provide an opportunity for people to see my genuine, likeable character whilst helping them have fun."

Try organising a social.

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

I have but not much doing sadly, but will keep trying


"Yes I can understand that but that's not me, just struggling to get meets off here and wanting to provide an opportunity for people to see my genuine, likeable character whilst helping them have fun.

Try organising a social."

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Like someone said above, it does comes across as a bit of a creepy way to try and get a meet.

Never going to work.

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By *ysonfuryMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I've have hosted parties for couples but it has been couples I have met before or where they are friends of couples I have met

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By *ysonfuryMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I have hosted parties for couples but it has been couples I have met before or where they are friends of couples I have met

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Thanks for your comment and yes it seems knowing people first will be a great help.


"I have hosted parties for couples but it has been couples I have met before or where they are friends of couples I have met "

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Couldn't agree more

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

parties for couples that i/we attended are run by couples i/we would not attend one run by a single guy ..

however we know of a guy whos been on here forever who never had a meet until he started saying others could use his house and he now has quite a few veri for hosting but not joining in so it will work for some i guess

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Yes that could work for me too, I have available the space and would enjoy helping folk get together even if I didn't get to play, happy to watch if allowed though.


"parties for couples that i/we attended are run by couples i/we would not attend one run by a single guy ..

however we know of a guy whos been on here forever who never had a meet until he started saying others could use his house and he now has quite a few veri for hosting but not joining in so it will work for some i guess"

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

I can see why you say this but the last thing I am is creepy, just am open and friendly bloke who is finding meeting couples very difficult it's probadly my age.

It might not work but I am least trying to help couples meet up in a safe comfortable environment without financial reward.


"Like someone said above, it does comes across as a bit of a creepy way to try and get a meet.

Never going to work."

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Yes I can understand that but that's not me, just struggling to get meets off here and wanting to provide an opportunity for people to see my genuine, likeable character whilst helping them have fun."

I don't know your swinging history and if you attend clubs but if not it might be a good idea to attend social, clubs etc meeting people that way, of course it would need to be a fair few times so that people can get to know you, gain trust etc. Just an idea.

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By *rGen OP   Man
over a year ago

Bingley

Thank you and yes I agree, its a very good idea.


"Yes I can understand that but that's not me, just struggling to get meets off here and wanting to provide an opportunity for people to see my genuine, likeable character whilst helping them have fun.

I don't know your swinging history and if you attend clubs but if not it might be a good idea to attend social, clubs etc meeting people that way, of course it would need to be a fair few times so that people can get to know you, gain trust etc. Just an idea."

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