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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any guys out there any tips for lasting longer?

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Any guys out there any tips for lasting longer?"

Aerobic exercises combined with healthy diet can increase sexual performance in bed.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Practice stopping and controlling it ?

Every guy on here seems to be a fan of edging so maybe that helps.

Sorry Mr Dot would be better to answer this than me.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Practice more!

Definitely explore edging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys

Fitness/diet - it may help, however even at my fittest running self I’ve never lasted long with my mrs! Plus another of the guys we meet is waaaay more unfit than me and doesn’t struggle.

Edging/practice - that sounds more fun! Maybe that will help!

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

Does the traditional have a wank an hour before hand not help ?

Plus from a woman's perspective. I don't need to be fucked hard for hours at a time. Im more than happy to take a break if you're getting close and you finger me or lick me or get some toys out or whatever.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Quite a lot of it is just the way you are wired. There are sprays you can buy which do work but (a) taste horrible (b) can numb your partner too, which may not be what you want, and (c) need to be applied some time in advance so can ruin spontaneity. They are usually condom-compatible and you can apply them and wash them off once they’ve started working to help with (a) and (b) but see also (c) above. For some people anti-depressants like Prozac or seroxat can delay things, but also may take away your libido in the first place, and you’d need an off-label prescription from a medic.

Or you could have a wank an hour or so before you want to perform!

So I’ve been told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guys out there any tips for lasting longer?"

Cock ring and edging. They work for me.

When I get close I will stop. Lick my wife etc while the urge dies off then start again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wanking first always feels like cheating lol - if we’re playing with others it’s nicer to finish with a big load on her, which if I’ve wanked before won’t be as big. But I do think that might be the simplest solution.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe practice edging, failing that picture someone/something that would be a turn off just until the sensation passes.

Mrs

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

DM me I sorted this out years ago

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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Stud 100 spray works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my personal opinion of course but I don't like long lasted sex I prefer other stuff lol and a quickie AND a big load is completely irrelevant. But if it's really important to you both then edging might be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"DM me I sorted this out years ago "

Can't you just say in the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"DM me I sorted this out years ago

Can't you just say in the thread "

In the interest of sharing is caring, the tips are below!

1. Learn how to edge

2. Desensitise your penis a bit

Both require a lot of wanking

I’m seeing a common theme and one I’ve not tried before with the edging so got to be worth a shot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"DM me I sorted this out years ago

Can't you just say in the thread

In the interest of sharing is caring, the tips are below!

1. Learn how to edge

2. Desensitise your penis a bit

Both require a lot of wanking

I’m seeing a common theme and one I’ve not tried before with the edging so got to be worth a shot!"

Or no "shot" if you're edging

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I don't worry about cumming too soon because I concentrate on her.

If you only do the things she responds to, it will stop you getting into a selfish flow.

Sounds a bit "out there" but has I have never "suffered" in this area.

Prlut the lady first and you will always cum second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't worry about cumming too soon because I concentrate on her.

If you only do the things she responds to, it will stop you getting into a selfish flow.

Sounds a bit "out there" but has I have never "suffered" in this area.

Totally agree

Prlut the lady first and you will always cum second. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't worry about cumming too soon because I concentrate on her.

If you only do the things she responds to, it will stop you getting into a selfish flow.

Sounds a bit "out there" but has I have never "suffered" in this area.

Totally agree

Prlut the lady first and you will always cum second. "

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