FabSwingers.com forum: Profile help??

By *d1981 OP Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Can someone look into my profile and tell me what’s wrong as I can’t get responses on fab..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Pics are ok, I'd loose the close up cock ones with the messy floor.

Bio is ok, nothing about what your looking for though or what you have to offer.

I'd look at some of the men's profiles and see what stands out.

Mrs

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Can someone look into my profile and tell me what’s wrong as I can’t get responses on fab.."

You have asked for help before? I would try get out to clubs and organised socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bio is good but personally I’d lose all the cock close ups . Good luck

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

Ok..... some honest truth from my POV... (not saying these are right but this is the blunt truth when I read/saw the profile)

1- Pics

The last face pic looks old and kinda catfishy.

The bedding looks like a child's

The view of the floor just makes me look at the clutter

There's something about the pics that makes me wonder if you're in a relationship- maybe the something pink and I think I saw leopard print. (Could be wrong)

2- The bio is fine

(No offense either but.....) are you above average cock wise? Cos if so your pics don't do you justice.

Also.... you've been on here a while now... and have asked a good few times about your profile. So is it your profile? Or is it your msgs?

I don't mean anything rude ... these are just my unfiltered thoughts

I wish you the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the above.

Plus you could cut well over half the text. It's mostly stuff that shows in stats and/or pictures.

Try it and then look at the pretty bland sentences which are left. And think if you really want 50% of your remaining mesaasging to be saying "conversation will likely be pretty awkward". I mean, by all means leave in if true. But maybe add smthing positive/specific abt yourself to balance it a bit.

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By *heSilverFox1701Man
over a year ago

Near Sleaford

You’re a man, that’s the problem. No matter how nice your profile, no matter how good your opening message you are competing with 1835281 messages every woman gets ! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You’re a man, that’s the problem. No matter how nice your profile, no matter how good your opening message you are competing with 1835281 messages every woman gets ! Lol!

Not necessarily, I personally think it’s how a man or really anyone portrays themselves in profiles. I’ve had some really good looking men that fit what we are looking for and near us, but the way they write their bio and the pics they put up can be a big turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Familiarise yourself with site FAQs OP.

Nobody is OWED a response.

You need to think about your expecations when joining the site - and re-evaluate them.

Look at it another way.

How many takeaway menus do you get posted through your door?

Did you ask for them?

Are you interested in any of them?

You might even love Pizza, but the menus stuffed through your letterbox aren't quite appealling enough to you.

Do you phone these places up to tell them thanks but no thanks?

No. And why should you?

It's the same on here.

You could have the best profile write up on fab, with a good range of photos and still get no response. Almost everyone you message will look at your profile before even thinking of reading your message. If they don't find you appealing - for any reason - why should they message you to tell you?

Would it really make you feel better having an inbox full of 'No thank you' messages?

Also, single men out number women and couples on fab by over 100 to 1.

Think about how many messages they get in their inboxes.

There's a lady on fab whom I know personally in vanilla life who recently had to empty her inbox of 6,000 unread messages because there was just no way she could get through them.

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