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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Probably gonna sound stupid ,keep thinking I'd like to try the attic, but I'm so nervous ( shy and not very confident) and would probably be solo

I do av connections that av been but don't want to invite myself or feel like a gooseberry

As for what to wear that's another headache

Anyone else felt the same ?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes my first visit I was terrified but deff worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t sound stupid at all OP. Nerves can get the better of anyone when they’re going to a club or a meet.

Have a look at the swing club section as people often advertise on the forums if they’re going to the Attic and you could maybe join in the conversation and get to know people.

I’d love to go for the first time. Maybe we could get a group of us to go together if you fancy that? Safety in numbers?

Keep in touch if yo like and any other woman that night like to go! Could be the start of some good nights out

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We still get nervous stepping into a club even though we can't be classed as newbies. We don't frequent as often as we would like, so the first few minutes to relax are butterflies.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Probably gonna sound stupid ,keep thinking I'd like to try the attic, but I'm so nervous ( shy and not very confident) and would probably be solo

I do av connections that av been but don't want to invite myself or feel like a gooseberry

As for what to wear that's another headache

Anyone else felt the same ?"

It can be a daunting thing trying a new place , especially if your shy. But you shouldn't once you've stepped through the doors, we are here to look after you and make sure have a safe and enjoyable visit. You can hang out with the female staff till you feel comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you peeps , glad I wasn't the only one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably gonna sound stupid ,keep thinking I'd like to try the attic, but I'm so nervous ( shy and not very confident) and would probably be solo

I do av connections that av been but don't want to invite myself or feel like a gooseberry

As for what to wear that's another headache

Anyone else felt the same ?

It can be a daunting thing trying a new place , especially if your shy. But you shouldn't once you've stepped through the doors, we are here to look after you and make sure have a safe and enjoyable visit. You can hang out with the female staff till you feel comfortable. "

Thank you , hopefully I'll av the courage to walk thru those doors x

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