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Trying to get the wife into the life style

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By *ornishLust OP   Man
over a year ago

pool

We have watched MMF porn together which really turns her on and simulated MMF with dildo. Very nearly came to having a threesome whilst d*unk on holiday but the other male jibbed it last minute.

How do I broach the subject that it turns me on and I am sure she’d love it especially as we were so close before.

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By *parkle13Woman
over a year ago

Dundee

Try ffm not all woman would like spitroasted ,

Its ok to watch but in reality she's gonna be sleeping with another man ..mabey she doesn't want that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch some more porn that you're interested in, and if she seems to enjoy it, tell her you'd like to experience that with her.

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By *ornishLust OP   Man
over a year ago

pool

She tried FF when she was younger not o really keen on it. She’s not sure about seeing me with another female. I said I would be happy just playing with her and watching them to play. She has enjoyed being fucked with a dildo whilst sucking cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch some more porn that you're interested in, and if she seems to enjoy it, tell her you'd like to experience that with her. "

Try this xxx

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By *ornishLust OP   Man
over a year ago

pool


"Watch some more porn that you're interested in, and if she seems to enjoy it, tell her you'd like to experience that with her.

Try this xxx"

Definitely, got some porn saved to kick start the conversation.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Watch some more porn that you're interested in, and if she seems to enjoy it, tell her you'd like to experience that with her. "

Start off ask her opinion about it and does it sexual turned on by it then lead it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want your wife to sleep with other men? Show her your infidelity profile on here. Simples.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Unbelievable!

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Unbelievable!"

Apologies this was meant for my forum post.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Want your wife to sleep with other men? Show her your infidelity profile on here. Simples.

"

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Watch some porn together that is more attuned to a female audience (more sensual, gentle, etc) and if she doesn't kickstart a conversation about it, very gently bring up the subject, but don't rush the issue.

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"Want your wife to sleep with other men? Show her your infidelity profile on here. Simples.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Watch some more porn that you're interested in, and if she seems to enjoy it, tell her you'd like to experience that with her.

Start off ask her opinion about it and does it sexual turned on by it then lead it further "

I personally would avoid asking, sometimes a person canv feel the questions are leading, and not sure where they're leading to.

I think it can be difficult someone admitting to a partner that they'd like another to join them, especially if she's uncomfortable with her partner with another.

Express yourself, give get the confidence to express herself too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want your wife to sleep with other men? Show her your infidelity profile on here. Simples.

"

I was kinda thinking same tho ….

So is he cheating with this profile or is she aware he swings ??????

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why can't you ask her? I don't mean that aggressively but you seem to have talked about it before, what's changed?

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

Suggest doing a couples profile together or does she already know you have a profile on your own??

Xxx

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You can only really talk and for 2 of you to be trusting and honest. Your understanding of each other should increase, even if it's about differences between you. There's no guarantee that each partner is going to be interested in swinging at the same stage of their lives, if at all.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Want your wife to sleep with other men? Show her your infidelity profile on here. Simples.

I was kinda thinking same tho ….

So is he cheating with this profile or is she aware he swings ??????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want your wife to sleep with other men? Show her your infidelity profile on here. Simples.

I was kinda thinking same tho ….

So is he cheating with this profile or is she aware he swings ??????

"

Thought the same. Profile with a verification but she doesn't do it? What's the story there?

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By *astle321Man
over a year ago

pershore

Make it very clear that all you want is for another male to join you. She will be paranoid thinking that you are using her to get with another woman so clear this out of the way from the start. Secondly,and just as important, alcohol Definitely helps !

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By *arrior PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ask her if she fancies going to a club

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Assuming she's real, why not just ask her if she'd be interested while your watching these type of porn.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

There's no mention of your wife in your profile ,so I don't know if she knows about fab or not.

All you can do is talk to her and ask her if it's something she'd be up for.would she try a club with you ,go and see if it's her thing or not with no pressure to play.

If she says no to the scene /other men you have to then leave it alone.It won't be for all and fantasies are v different from reality, in the cold light of day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Want your wife to sleep with other men? Show her your infidelity profile on here. Simples.

I was kinda thinking same tho ….

So is he cheating with this profile or is she aware he swings ??????

Thought the same. Profile with a verification but she doesn't do it? What's the story there?"

I wonder if the lady he met who left his veri was aware he is married. Certainly no mention of it in his profile.

Has you wife seen your profile OP?

KJ

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Make it very clear that all you want is for another male to join you. She will be paranoid thinking that you are using her to get with another woman so clear this out of the way from the start. Secondly,and just as important, alcohol Definitely helps !"

Would not encourage alcohol if there are any reservations or anxiety, been there done that

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Just have the conversation with her, I don't understand why that would be difficult?

Enjoying a dildo is a whole different ball game to another person though, I enjoy a dildo while sucking the Mr, I have zero interest in another bloke fucking me though.

Mrs

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