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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

Single girls who have no meets or verifications for a certain period should be banned from the site. Also men who pose as couples are complete twats and shouldn't even be able to register.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Why?

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I agree on the second point. But not sure about the first.

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

Because what is the point in being on here if you are not willing to meet? Surely everyone gets frustrated with them not just myself

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

Well atleast your profile is being honest about your intentions

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

Nope. Why should people be penalised because it doesn't fit your narrative.

We know several people who will not meet off this site.

They use it for socialising and chatting.

The site provides plenty of filters, as well as countless threads on why this won't happen.

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

What do you mean nope?

Then thier profile should explain that they are not willing to meet and are only on here for chats then

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Because what is the point in being on here if you are not willing to meet? Surely everyone gets frustrated with them not just myself "

No people can be on here for other reasons than just meets!

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

Is nobody listening to me? Then thier profiles should state this

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town


"What do you mean nope?

Then thier profile should explain that they are not willing to meet and are only on here for chats then"

Again no.

How others run thier profile is entirely up to them.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Is nobody listening to me? Then thier profiles should state this "

I’m sure people can do what they like on their own profile

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

But it wastes other peoples time and effort. So you are saying I can pretend I am a female as it's my profile so I can do what I want

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town


"But it wastes other peoples time and effort. So you are saying I can pretend I am a female as it's my profile so I can do what I want "

I would use the tools provided and my own way of filtering out the genuine people.

It's really not difficult.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

How does it waste other people's time?

I'm not meeting and it says so on my profile but even when I am I've no problem chatting to people who aren't meeting.

Despite what some like to tell you, we aren't all here for the same thing.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"But it wastes other peoples time and effort. So you are saying I can pretend I am a female as it's my profile so I can do what I want "

It’s not hard to suss the fake profiles

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

So like I said they should be banned then.

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

So like I said they should be banned then?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

That's not what you said though. You said ban single women who aren't meeting.

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

If it says on thier profile then thats ok. I'm not frustrated with those.

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

The fake profiles are fairly easy to spot.

If the chat gets to sexual, then it's normally someone using it for wank fodder.

As for meets, a simple phone call with the female eliminates any doubts.

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

Yeah I understand that there are ways to spot these. I'm just having a rant about them

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think girls are already banned as it's an adult site for women

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I wouldn’t get upset over it

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

Haha good one. I think most are men creating fake profiles using thier partners pics anyway

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I wouldn’t get upset over it"

Too late for that

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

I'm not upset about it. Just venting you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not upset about it. Just venting you know "

Do you even realise women on Fab are not sex workers.

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

What are you getting at? Where did I mention sex workers?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I'm not upset about it. Just venting you know "

Then relax have a wank you'll forget about everything

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

Will do haha

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!


"Because what is the point in being on here if you are not willing to meet? Surely everyone gets frustrated with them not just myself "

Maybe they just don’t wanna meet you op

Absolutely ridiculous statement, you don’t get to tell people how to use the site!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Will do haha "

Use the reply and quote on a comment makes it easier to understand pal

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Because what is the point in being on here if you are not willing to meet? Surely everyone gets frustrated with them not just myself "

We'd say what's the point in Dick Pic profiles?

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

What makes your pics any different?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Lol, even if they are active women who do meet (like myself) what makes you think they’d want to meet you?

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing


"Will do haha

Use the reply and quote on a comment makes it easier to understand pal "

Oh soz

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By *otty2468 OP   Man
over a year ago

worthing

I dont. Its not me its anyone haha

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"What makes your pics any different?"

Variety

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Single girls who have no meets or verifications for a certain period should be banned from the site. Also men who pose as couples are complete twats and shouldn't even be able to register. "

It's not a dating website it's a social media for swingers so stop telling people what they should be doing how they should be doing it you're not the god of fab..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you should set up your own site and then you can impose your opinions on everyone that chooses to join your site.

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By *unfunfun xMan
over a year ago

LONDON

Take it with a pinch of salt, I've had no problem meeting people on other sites but coooor blimey this site is tough to get a message let alone a meet haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you mean nope?

Then thier profile should explain that they are not willing to meet and are only on here for chats then"

What if they have met but only met other unverifieds then they cant get verified themselves?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

It took me months to get a verification. Maybe after 2 years of being inactive. They should automatically close the account. But shouldn't be banned just because they're fussy! Lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Should straight guys looking for MM couples be banned as their profile is confusing?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"What are you getting at? Where did I mention sex workers?"

The fact most women just don't want to fuck the first man offering. It takes time to meet the right person and we shouldn't be penalised for it

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"What do you mean nope?

Then thier profile should explain that they are not willing to meet and are only on here for chats then"

Most people ignore profiles, some are men posing as women hoping for a bit of wank chat... The rest just don't want to meet you... Women who have no intention of meeting more often than not, do actually say so

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Single girls who have no meets or verifications for a certain period should be banned from the site. Also men who pose as couples are complete twats and shouldn't even be able to register. "

Why just single women?

Have you considered that some people choose not to accept/display meet verifications? That doesn't necessarily mean they don't meet, they just don't need the rest of the site to know about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single girls who have no meets or verifications for a certain period should be banned from the site. Also men who pose as couples are complete twats and shouldn't even be able to register. "

Also ban women that create a couple profile with no pics. Ban men for use of the word dominant. Ban women for use of the word.... Well, any words lol. Also suspend profiles with zero write up until there's at least a paragraph. Also

Ban male profiles that tick they are straight but have male verification of sexual activity. That's just too confusing dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should straight guys looking for MM couples be banned as their profile is confusing?"

Also we should ban straight males who have sex meet verifications with other males as again that's totally confusing and not what's been advertised

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"Single girls who have no meets or verifications for a certain period should be banned from the site. Also men who pose as couples are complete twats and shouldn't even be able to register. "

I agree about the men posing as a couple .....

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Single girls who have no meets or verifications for a certain period should be banned from the site. Also men who pose as couples are complete twats and shouldn't even be able to register. "

Couples operate false profiles as well...

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Oh dear. I better delete my profile quick!!

Why on earth would you want to receive verifications in the first place?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Single girls who have no meets or verifications for a certain period should be banned from the site. Also men who pose as couples are complete twats and shouldn't even be able to register. "

I have a much better idea... lets ban single men who complain and only have cock pics on their profile.

Seriously though, just do you and don't worry about how others choose to use the site.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Have you ever thought that they just don't want to meet you, or chat, tbh we wouldn't entertain you or anyone else that makes very little effort in their profile. It's not instashag, just because your on a swingers site doest meant that every woman and couple will pounce on you..everyone has diffrent reasons for being here and nobody owes anyone anything especially tailoring their profile to meet others needs.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We think flashers (single guys with cock pics) should be banned.

We haven't had a meet for four years and someone on this thread thinks we should be banned.

If everyone's opinion was considered and enforced, probably just about everyone would be banned!

If someone's profile doesn't fit just move on from it, you can't seriously think that people should be banned just to suit your needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think flashers (single guys with cock pics) should be banned.

We haven't had a meet for four years and someone on this thread thinks we should be banned.

If everyone's opinion was considered and enforced, probably just about everyone would be banned!

If someone's profile doesn't fit just move on from it, you can't seriously think that people should be banned just to suit your needs."

Haha exactly definitely prefer if cock pics were banned just joking lol

I really don’t know why anyone would be bothered/interested in other peoples own preferences what they want on here is entirely up to them

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"So like I said they should be banned then?"

Report them then rather then winging about it.

People can do what they want with their profiles, just because they don't want to meet you, doesn't mean they don't meet others.

Mrs

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Why not just stick a timer on each profile so within that time you need to meet or sent to oblivia any violation time gets deducted like a stopwatch but any successful meets the time goes up honestly how desperate would folk be the future

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