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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I could do with some advice really peeps as I've just and a good ear bashing of a certain lady for calling her a mature lady which I thought was fine so really what would you lady's of a certain age liked to be known as help

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

ummmmm, a lady?? why do you have to reference her age?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Agreed with eve. Just a lady will be fine, no reference to age needed z

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I could do with some advice really peeps as I've just and a good ear bashing of a certain lady for calling her a mature lady which I thought was fine so really what would you lady's of a certain age liked to be known as help "

Oh dear...do you guys never learn? lol

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

You would have got one from me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the quickest ways to find yourself ignored - referring to us as "mature" or "older" women in an early message!

It is NOT a compliment!!!

It's one thing to sensitively mention that you enjoy an age difference after you've established contact.

But we get lots of opening one-liners saying things like "I love older women..." which go straight to the deleted bin.....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could do with some advice really peeps as I've just and a good ear bashing of a certain lady for calling her a mature lady which I thought was fine so really what would you lady's of a certain age liked to be known as help

Oh dear...do you guys never learn? lol"
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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"One of the quickest ways to find yourself ignored - referring to us as "mature" or "older" women in an early message!

It is NOT a compliment!!!

It's one thing to sensitively mention that you enjoy an age difference after you've established contact.

But we get lots of opening one-liners saying things like "I love older women..." which go straight to the deleted bin.....!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How old was she ?

If she was over 50 then mature is ok isn't it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

next time call her a man mate.

bound to get the bull charging at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could do with some advice really peeps as I've just and a good ear bashing of a certain lady for calling her a mature lady which I thought was fine so really what would you lady's of a certain age liked to be known as help "

no need to mention age. perhaps refer to sagginess, wrinkliness or size instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could do with some advice really peeps as I've just and a good ear bashing of a certain lady for calling her a mature lady which I thought was fine so really what would you lady's of a certain age liked to be known as help "

I'm just a person, a woman. Yeah, it's nice to be referred to as a lady, too.

The thing is, when a guy says to me he likes older or mature women I feel like I've become a fetish and that he's not thinking of me as an individual, so it's always a no!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

A lady !.. a Sexy lady ! .. Hell why does one have to differentiate age by a word. If older ladies appeal to you then really there is no need to mention it.

I was called elderly lady by one man of 37 and yes I really did take exception to it. I had a lover 20 years my junior and I dont think he sees me as old even now.;-)

we dont all act the age we are or infact look that age.

So just put up an age range beyond which you would not go. Then enjoy the rest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How old was she ?

If she was over 50 then mature is ok isn't it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers guys some good advice thanks

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Context.

Maybe appropriate, maybe not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed with eve. Just a lady will be fine, no reference to age needed z "

I agree too. You'd have got an ear bashing and blocked from us. Ms

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agreed with eve. Just a lady will be fine, no reference to age needed z

I agree too. You'd have got an ear bashing and blocked from us. Ms"
its a good job u live to far for me then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be delete and block by me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agreed with eve. Just a lady will be fine, no reference to age needed z

I agree too. You'd have got an ear bashing and blocked from us. Msits a good job u live to far for me then lol "

TFFT

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

There are worse things to be called on here....

But it does make me laugh when I get called it by a 'youngster' who is 42 himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if I am older than the guy messaging me I don't care..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are worse things to be called on here....

But it does make me laugh when I get called it by a 'youngster' who is 42 himself "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could do with some advice really peeps as I've just and a good ear bashing of a certain lady for calling her a mature lady which I thought was fine so really what would you lady's of a certain age liked to be known as help "

Im sure you would hate it if us 'older' ladies called you a 'young boy'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind the word mature... But do hate being called... Dear or baby lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could do with some advice really peeps as I've just and a good ear bashing of a certain lady for calling her a mature lady which I thought was fine so really what would you lady's of a certain age liked to be known as help

Im sure you would hate it if us 'older' ladies called you a 'young boy'?"
to be honest it wouldn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I got called a cougar by a 25 year old n I'm only 27 Ffs! You find us attractive then that's all u need to say why bring age into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I got called a cougar by a 25 year old n I'm only 27 Ffs! You find us attractive then that's all u need to say why bring age into it "

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