FabSwingers.com forum: Falling for someone on fab :)

By *hocandcuck OP Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

Anyone done it ?

Met choc here and crazy about her !

Anyone else had this luck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love can catch you anywhere !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! We met on here years ago, were fwb, fell in love, got married, had children and thought we’d come back on after some discussions

Mrs

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By *D2015Couple
over a year ago

Wokingham

We met here, been together 8 yrs

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Fell for someone, doesn't feel the same so just amazing sex instead. So nice to hear that it can happen

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

On an ideal world I’d love for that to happen. Would be fantastic to find someone who would like to continue exploring. Congrats OP great news

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Had a strong crush but who wouldn't when you get on so well

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Met my partner through Fab. Been together over 4 years now.

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By *anderForestCouple
over a year ago

Lewes

Yess! Avoided my now partner for a year as wasn't keen on first impression hahaha! Then everything fell into place and we've been together 5 years and it's just got better and better!

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By *hocandcuck OP Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

Great answers and thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep! We met on here years ago, were fwb, fell in love, got married, had children and thought we’d come back on after some discussions

Mrs "

Thats a lovely story

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

it happens,,

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By *hocandcuck OP Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

I didn’t think that I would ever fall for someone on fab but here I am. All loved up with Cream and it’s the best thing ever he is so adorable and the sex is out of this world

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By *ob and DeeWoman
over a year ago

crook

i dont do the love thing.never have.never will.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Met my partner here over 7 years ago now ,so yes it happened even if you're not looking.

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By *bonyGoddessNyxWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yep, met my now husband on here 12 years ago.

We will have been married for 8 years this May, we also have a 6 yr old daughter together

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Kimberley

I fell in love with her 10 years ago and we ventured down this path around 5 years ago. Whilst my love didn’t start from this site I can say that it has cemented it greatly.

I have never been more in love than I am now and the scene has really helped me understand how much mutual fun can help a relationship develop into something so special and unbreakable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep! We met on here years ago, were fwb, fell in love, got married, had children and thought we’d come back on after some discussions

Mrs "

Wow really, that's amazing!!

U pair are lucky. If feeling arnt recipitated then it can be hell !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, met my now husband on here 12 years ago.

We will have been married for 8 years this May, we also have a 6 yr old daughter together "

That's so good to hear x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep, met my now husband on here 12 years ago.

We will have been married for 8 years this May, we also have a 6 yr old daughter together "

That's so good to hear x

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

After chatting on here for months, covid kinda got in the way of meeting up. When we finally did it was uncomplicated, easy yet with depth. Course, we already knew enough of each other’s past to allow free flowing conversations.

Unfortunately it was life that this time got in the way and we didn’t meet again for another nine months but we did. And many times since with increasing intensity, intimacy and fun. We both view the other as each other’s partner, I now look upon her with love. No one’s more shocked than me

(and her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it can happen ive met someone nice on here sex is good hes good company so who knows what will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just joined like 6 weeks ago so at the moment no, I haven't fallen for anyone and maybe unlikely too

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By *ouise_KWoman
over a year ago

leicester

And here’s me thinking I’m crazy hoping to find a decent fella on here… you guys give me hope

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

"And here’s me thinking I’m crazy hoping to find a decent fella on here… you guys give me hope

Keep the faith

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone done it ?

Met choc here and crazy about her !

Anyone else had this luck ?"

Black women are soo sooo easy to fall in love with….they are my Achilles heel…sexy as fuck

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

Yep, met Shogun here 5 1/2 years ago and still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met the love of my life on this site, after he sent me a random message one morning.

tried to deny it for months before i'd actually let my guard down and admit i felt the same, and it was more than just fwb.

we've been together 4 years now.. he's my rock, the love of my life, and the best sex i've ever had

it's definitely possible OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my ex on here

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By *uffinfaceMan
over a year ago

hengoed

I've fallen in love with a guy I met off fabguys

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Debs and I met on another swinging site narly 20 years ago.

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By *reasyontheeyesMan
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"Anyone done it ?

Met choc here and crazy about her !

Anyone else had this luck ?"

Met someone, became FWB.

Would like more......

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By *un and Frolics 1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Thats what im looking for a bit of romance with good sex

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By *reasyontheeyesMan
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"Thats what im looking for a bit of romance with good sex"

A very very good friend with benefits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! We met here

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yeah we met on here almost 3 years ago now

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Wow! Great that it's happened for some. We met online elsewhere but were so lucky.. In the fact we're both filthy and imagine that meeting here takes a great deal of worry away when, as opposed to a vanilla method, those tentative/testing moments 'arise'.. Yeah we meant that!

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

Stumbled across this thread and was going to add my big yes…only to find my partner has beaten me to it! I think meeting on Fab meant that we had such open conversations right from the start, so we were good friends before I found out what an amazing lover he is!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Stumbled across this thread and was going to add my big yes…only to find my partner has beaten me to it! I think meeting on Fab meant that we had such open conversations right from the start, so we were good friends before I found out what an amazing lover he is!"

You're already many steps in so to speak?! Alleviates a lot of doubt in having 'those' conversations?! We were just bloody lucky and tbh add the fact I am as blunt as a brick..

Took him by surprise initially

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Met my bf on here and been in love with him from the start. 9 months and counting.

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

You're already many steps in so to speak?! Alleviates a lot of doubt in having 'those' conversations?! We were just bloody lucky and tbh add the fact I am as blunt as a brick..

Took him by surprise initially

Exactly! And yes, luck/timing is a big part

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

A random thread got us talking and flirting and the rest is history, nearly a year and a half later here we are, not without its bumps and trials, but I wouldn't change a thing x

Tinder x

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By *ngeleyes2749Woman
over a year ago

South East

I met my partner on here two and a half years ago. We have an incredible swinging/ vanilla relationship. We are open and honest about everything and we find it has brought us so much closer together than previous relationships. Just a bit awkward explaining to people how/ where we met!!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Love can catch you anywhere ! "

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So delightfully and simplistically put!

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By *nicorn69coupleCouple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

We meet as singles on here. Both wasn’t looking for a relationship. Then realised we had fallen for each other. That was a few years ago now and still going strong.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"We meet as singles on here. Both wasn’t looking for a relationship. Then realised we had fallen for each other. That was a few years ago now and still going strong."

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

You're already many steps in so to speak?! Alleviates a lot of doubt in having 'those' conversations?! We were just bloody lucky and tbh add the fact I am as blunt as a brick..

Took him by surprise initially

Exactly! And yes, luck/timing is a big part "

Nail and head!! X

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

yup

we met from on here,

fell in love,

moved in together

and married during lockdown.

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By *nicorn69coupleCouple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

I love how many people have met on here and appear to have such strong and solid relationships.

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By *LDee2023Man
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Fell for a much younger lady on Fab...Ella2000.. made an absolute fool of myself. Doubting whether I was good enough for her.. made really bad decisions trying to see if she was seeing others.. I overstepped the mark when I left flowers on her doorstep .. a nice gesture or so I thought.. but apparently not in her eyes.. made a complete fool of myself ..let my emotions take over .. shared a lot of personal things even went shopping for her new sofas together.. I now feel bloody stupid and totally used.. and incredibly hurt.. I am a big bloody softie who should know better. !!

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By *weetkitten65Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

"Fell for a much younger lady on Fab...Ella2000.. made an absolute fool of myself. Doubting whether I was good enough for her.. made really bad decisions trying to see if she was seeing others.. I overstepped the mark when I left flowers on her doorstep .. a nice gesture or so I thought.. but apparently not in her eyes.. made a complete fool of myself ..let my emotions take over .. shared a lot of personal things even went shopping for her new sofas together.. I now feel bloody stupid and totally used.. and incredibly hurt.. I am a big bloody softie who should know better. !!

I am sorry you are hurting OP but you shouldn't use people's names..

It's against the site rules.

Looking at the Green arrow I think you would benefit from talking to someone about your feelings..

Samaritans are really good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lady who gave me my very first meet verification on this profile - the very next guy she met after me they fell instantly in love, soon deleted their Fab accounts, rode off into the sunset... and... as far as I know... lived happily ever after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met my partner on here two and a half years ago. We have an incredible swinging/ vanilla relationship. We are open and honest about everything and we find it has brought us so much closer together than previous relationships. Just a bit awkward explaining to people how/ where we met!!"

Just say you met online. A dating site.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

I think you are on the way to accepting her truth rather than ypur own. It will no doubt help you next time you find yourself in that position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting a meet is hard enough lol

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By *unnybunny1000Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes, hook line and sinker, had to abruptly end contact

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Yes, hook line and sinker, had to abruptly end contact "

Why?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Fell for a fwb... Didn't end well for me....

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By *ubyRichardsWoman
over a year ago

swansea

I do love hearing about happily ever afters on here even if it’s not the most “conventional” way of meeting!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yep! Not sure it's luck though, sometimes it happens. Met my fiancé. Well he was just a random man with a predilection for hats back then. A good few months later, realised I loved him and couldn't not have in my life.

I'm falling for another person on here. Sometimes he's a bit of a dick, but he's a rather loveable one really. He's fallen for me, think it's the voice and waffling in equal measures.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

The ex-wife... ^

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

We just say online dating

Tinder x

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met on here, both active singles.

The meets got longer and the gaps in between shorter.

Became a couple, got engaged last year and getting married this year.

Bought a house together.

Guess you could say it’s serious.

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We just say online dating

Tinder x"

I did too - then people wanted to know which site!

Ms x

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Did find myself falling for someone, but know that they aren't looking for anything serious. So just have to settle for occasional amazing times together.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We met each other on here.

We weren’t looking for anything serious but we met and met and realised we liked each other more and more. The meets got more frequent and lengthier and then suddenly we both thought this is much more.

I’d say finding a partner on FAB is fantastic as you are already open with each other and have fantastic sex - 2 very big important things in a relationship

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"The ex-wife... ^"

Oh you

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By *ugarandspice9569Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We met on here as singles, realised we really got on despite the age gap.

Our version of going Facebook Official was to shut down our single profiles and set up a joint one.

Many years later we've a house, a son, and plenty of good FAB friends too.

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By *become1Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Yep met my now partner on here

Currently in the middle of getting a divorce from the mrs.

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By *ang average kinkMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

This is possibly the most feel good thread I've ever seen on here.

Thanks op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my partner on here about 5 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! Bear and I met on here 4 years ago and we are now engaged, live together and have 3 fur babies! Very much in love and loving fab again!

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By *reasyontheeyesMan
over a year ago

out in the sticks

"Fell for a fwb... Didn't end well for me.... "

It can hurt, a lot, if you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and broke my own rule in doing so. Was I just thinking with my dick? Either way those castle walls were somehow scaled.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Anyone done it ?

Met choc here and crazy about her !

Anyone else had this luck ?"

Nope and after years of trying realise I am wasting my time

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By *erdyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

Yep, knew of each other before fab,but chatted on here and the rest is history.

Married with a child now and back in the lifestyle!

H x

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Fell for a fwb... Didn't end well for me....

It can hurt, a lot, if you do.

Oh it really did....

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I love how many people have met on here and appear to have such strong and solid relationships.

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just as many don't though trust me lol

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

If you click, its all good

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By *ilthyRacersCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We met on here in 2018. Started as casual once-a-month fuckbuddies. Got married last weekend.

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By *aya_69Woman
over a year ago

Stoke/Cheshire

Gives me hope, would love to get into something real life with someone preferably from here

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By *hocandcuck OP Couple
over a year ago

Gravesend

Thanks for all the mainly positive replies x

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

"We met on here in 2018. Started as casual once-a-month fuckbuddies. Got married last weekend.

Bloody lovely. Congratulations!!!!

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By *imandher123456Couple
over a year ago

gosport

We met on here and now married

Great to know sexual compatible right from the start

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By *ibi_curiousCouple
over a year ago

Shepperton

I met Mary on here over 3 years ago, I don't know what I would do without her now xxx

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Some lovely stories on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This gives me hope! I’ve joined here looking to find a partner but all it seems to be is men that just want to meet for sex and that’s it. They don’t seem to understand “friends with benefits” actually involves hanging out together and texting in between meets as well….it’s so frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's how we met. 2 years later still at it

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By *eterandJaneadventuresCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

Jane and I meet via here, 645 days ago, still going strong , enjoy our vanilla , swing and domestic lives together , she does make me smile .

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

So nice to hear that you can find love on here hopefully one day il find that special woman

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By *_yeahPartiesCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sure did, met on here in 2017, moved in together 2018 and will be getting married in August. Not looking for it, just an unexpected bonus

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By *appyfazer600Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

No, I haven't found anyone special on here and pretty close to giving up looking. I did on another site. We fell in love but then she saw sense because she was much younger than me. I would have left my wife for her too. The feeling of being wanted was overwhelming.

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