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"Just block men from messaging. If it really bothers you, hide your profile when you're not online and put your photos in friends only section. Then just send through photos to the women you like. Happy fabbing" Sound advice! | |||
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"Who cares if they look its not doing any harm is it " This | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " You can’t | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange" Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it) | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Click account scroll down privacy and click hide this will make it hidden from everyone but remember no women will be able to message you first | |||
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"Who cares if they look its not doing any harm is it " + 1 and stop being so homophobic | |||
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"On the headings in black at the top go to ACCOUNT, click on that then go to "LOOKING FOR" Make sure you don't click on MEN and that should stop them (Us)" Thats not going to stop it. That just means they wont be able to message him | |||
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"Who cares if they look its not doing any harm is it + 1 and stop being so homophobic " Oh give over will ya ffs | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it)" Well thats a load of presumptuous garbage | |||
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"Well thats a load of presumptuous garbage" Couldn’t agree more lol | |||
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. " Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? | |||
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? " True. Not sure why that is to be honest | |||
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? True. Not sure why that is to be honest " Yeah that is bizarre. Think ill ask admin about that | |||
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"Who cares if they look its not doing any harm is it + 1 and stop being so homophobic Oh give over will ya ffs" Haha | |||
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? " Everyone can view, just not message using the filters | |||
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? Everyone can view, just not message using the filters " I know that, im referring to the 'who viewed me'. Men dont appear in this whereas trans still do, even though i have both blocked | |||
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? True. Not sure why that is to be honest Yeah that is bizarre. Think ill ask admin about that" It's interesting as only single guys get the 'Not looking for..' even if you block anyone and everyone in message filters? | |||
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account " Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic | |||
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account " Block the ones you don’t want to see your profile | |||
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic" OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that | |||
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that " Nice cock you have thou mmmmm xx | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it)" Basically this | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Stop checking your looked at section. | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " You can’t! And we’ll keep doing it. Just for fun! | |||
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that " Perhaps being more specific with your initial post …. Yes you have now clarified that you are not homophonic, however your first message was wide open to that opinion ! with others saying ….’ oh give over ‘ Why ,clearly an observation of a text ! It’s a forum of discussion. However , guys will look ,kinda need to get over it really | |||
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"Also I just want to point out that thre hve been so many studies that there are studies on the metadata of other studies on the topic of is homophobia ( not saying anyone is)an indicator of a repressed latent homoerotic desire? And if you look hard enough with just the right conditions,those conditions being you have eyes and you are alive,you notice a mountain of data says “ yup” absofukinlutely. So if you find yourself being homophobic save us all th time and effort and put a dick in your mouth. Because really If it’s 2 consenting adults? The creepy one is the person being interested in who 2 consenting adults have sex with. So much hatred in he world. Dont encourage anymore. Never know when a mentally unstable white male American with a gun fetish will think your words were the final straw. " Are you thinking of American beauty there?? It's odd that film always comes into my mind when certain threads pop up | |||
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"I notice that since you posted this thread OP, many men will have looked at your profile and esp cock pics. I also notice you haven't stopped men messaging you.. As others have suggested, the answer would seem to be block individual males who repeatedly view your profile if it's an issue.. So my question would be, have you scored an own goal or is this ( the attention) you want? Ps nice cock lol" I think the latter, it was just to get people looking at his profile and possibly get a message or 3 | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Your profile headline says "let's experiment" so obviously people of all genders will look and message | |||
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"You can't. If you don't want to know then just keep single guys blocked from messaging and they won't appear in the viewer list. You could also turn off fabbing of your pics if it bothers you. Does that work though? I also have trans blocked from messaging me but i can still see when theyve viewed me? Everyone can view, just not message using the filters I know that, im referring to the 'who viewed me'. Men dont appear in this whereas trans still do, even though i have both blocked" The whose looked at me if you turn off you can't see and they are unable to buy when on both see unless other unser has theirs set differently it doesn't go by gender just looking feature | |||
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"I looked Don't worry Not impressed Owwww " It was a wind up Just trouble me Sorry OP | |||
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that Perhaps being more specific with your initial post …. Yes you have now clarified that you are not homophonic, however your first message was wide open to that opinion ! with others saying ….’ oh give over ‘ Why ,clearly an observation of a text ! It’s a forum of discussion. However , guys will look ,kinda need to get over it really " Where in the op is anything open to homophobia? Unless you're too busy looking for it? It's simple. He doesn't want men viewing his profile. Nothing homophobic about that. If you're seeing it maybe need to reflect upon why you're seeing it? | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange" Nothing strange about it if you're straight. I don't really want a category of people I'm not interesting in sexually looking at my pictures. Pretty simple, nothing wrong with that. It's my preference. I agree with OP, there should be a way to block completely from viewing you a category or gender etc .. | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange Nothing strange about it if you're straight. I don't really want a category of people I'm not interesting in sexually looking at my pictures. Pretty simple, nothing wrong with that. It's my preference. I agree with OP, there should be a way to block completely from viewing you a category or gender etc .. " I'm straight, I don't care. What if you're out and a guy eyes you up, do you run away? Fight him? Ignore him? | |||
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"Hold up, people think I'm being homophobic I'm not that at all I just didn't want certain few people seeing my account Dont worry about that, that was just one person saying that. You're not being homophobic OK thank you I didn't want people yo think that Perhaps being more specific with your initial post …. Yes you have now clarified that you are not homophonic, however your first message was wide open to that opinion ! with others saying ….’ oh give over ‘ Why ,clearly an observation of a text ! It’s a forum of discussion. However , guys will look ,kinda need to get over it really Where in the op is anything open to homophobia? Unless you're too busy looking for it? It's simple. He doesn't want men viewing his profile. Nothing homophobic about that. If you're seeing it maybe need to reflect upon why you're seeing it? " What absolute bollocks you’re talking ,read what I put ! | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " I wonder how many more views from guys this topic created lol OP, if you block messages from single guys, they won’t appear in view your profile section as well. Easy. If you don’t want certain guys to look at your profile - block them. | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Ironically you've probably diverted more men to your profile. I will not have a gander myself. Lol. | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Feeling insecure sweetheart x | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it)" Jezzz bit harsh. He was only asking question. | |||
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"Oh and now all the men will now fab your cock pics and put it at top in hot pics section " Much appreciated and no I don't feel insecure at all I just didn't want a few people looking at it I have nothing wrong with men looking at my profile there are certain people I'd rather not know I'm on here and they are men that's all | |||
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"Oh and now all the men will now fab your cock pics and put it at top in hot pics section Much appreciated and no I don't feel insecure at all I just didn't want a few people looking at it I have nothing wrong with men looking at my profile there are certain people I'd rather not know I'm on here and they are men that's all " You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. Some people like to make themselves feel better by bringing others down. Hope you got it sorted | |||
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"Oh and now all the men will now fab your cock pics and put it at top in hot pics section Much appreciated and no I don't feel insecure at all I just didn't want a few people looking at it I have nothing wrong with men looking at my profile there are certain people I'd rather not know I'm on here and they are men that's all " Can you use the advanced search, location age etc as it seems you're avoiding people you know? Try and find them and block them before they get an eyeful. | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. " Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer " It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. " yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile " Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it. | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile " Whaaat? Wait.. Now people are reading profiles? | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it. Glad it doesn’t bother you. Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum past lol " | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it. Glad it doesn’t bother you. Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol " | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it. Glad it doesn’t bother you. Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol " No one knows the answer. | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it. Glad it doesn’t bother you. Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol No one knows the answer. " because ppl don't read profiles. | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it. Glad it doesn’t bother you. Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol No one knows the answer. " Well I’m not sure about that. But if anyone does know please enlighten me | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer " Bombarded? Honestly? I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages! What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch? There must be something, surely? A | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer Bombarded? Honestly? I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages! What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch? There must be something, surely? No if you look at my profile only pics of me. So certainly not insinuating my hubby is a god that attracts men. Although he is to me though. He doesn’t feel the need to put pics up to attract people that’s not what we are looking for. so there’s certainly no secret. Maybe it’s because we state we aren’t looking for that and they see it as a challenge or we notice some are looking for shock value with there explicit messages. But thank you for your insightful message with so many theory’s on our profile. Hope we have answered your questions A" | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it. Glad it doesn’t bother you. Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol No one knows the answer. " The desire for arse exceeds the effort required to read a profile? | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer It takes a second to block. So they have to take no for an answer. yeah it maybe takes a second to block one person but not multiple ones everyday. Especially when you clearly put what you want in your profile Yeah, same as a lot of people , I block straight guys looking to be bummed along with the crazies Have lost count. I don't mind it. Glad it doesn’t bother you. Just wonder why the men that constantly message us want to waste there own time and not concentrate on the couples that are looking for bisexual or gay men to join them. But that’s a whole other forum post lol No one knows the answer. The desire for arse exceeds the effort required to read a profile? " Haha now that’s a great answer | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Men, women and everything in between will look at your profile. You do not have to engage with them or meet/fuck them. | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer Bombarded? Honestly? I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages! What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch? There must be something, surely? A No if you look at my profile only pics of me. So certainly not insinuating my hubby is a god that attracts men. Although he is to me though. He doesn’t feel the need to put pics up to attract people that’s not what we are looking for. so there’s certainly no secret. Maybe it’s because we state we aren’t looking for that and they see it as a challenge or we notice some are looking for shock value with there explicit messages. But thank you for your insightful message with so many theory’s on our profile. Hope we have answered your questions " You've answered them - thanks. But I'm still astounded that bi/gay men would be contacting a profile with no male photos in such apparent high numbers. It's a common thing I'm sure for men who post plenty of cock shots, the gym fit dudes who attract the guys into muscles and those that give visual appeal to those seeking men. But with nothing to arouse and entice? That's odd. But hey. Nearly 15 years on here and every day is still a school day. A | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer Bombarded? Honestly? I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages! What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch? There must be something, surely? A No if you look at my profile only pics of me. So certainly not insinuating my hubby is a god that attracts men. Although he is to me though. He doesn’t feel the need to put pics up to attract people that’s not what we are looking for. so there’s certainly no secret. Maybe it’s because we state we aren’t looking for that and they see it as a challenge or we notice some are looking for shock value with there explicit messages. But thank you for your insightful message with so many theory’s on our profile. Hope we have answered your questions You've answered them - thanks. But I'm still astounded that bi/gay men would be contacting a profile with no male photos in such apparent high numbers. It's a common thing I'm sure for men who post plenty of cock shots, the gym fit dudes who attract the guys into muscles and those that give visual appeal to those seeking men. But with nothing to arouse and entice? That's odd. But hey. Nearly 15 years on here and every day is still a school day. Hey it’s fab nothing should astonish you on here A" sorry but I can’t answer for them. Glad we have satisfied your curiosity though on our part | |||
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"Think this site is becoming over run by gay men as this thread clearly demonstrates... Just not my preference and there's nothing wrong with that .. if you want guys to look at you pictures fine nothing stopping you tick looking for men too .. but for those of us that don't want that which is perfectly normal, there should be an option to prevent it. Entirely reasonable. Yeah like you said absolutely nothing wrong with any gay, bisexual etc being on here everyone has their own preferences and just has as much right as anyone else. When it personally becomes bothersome for us is when we clearly state that’s not what we are looking to but still get bombarded with messages along us to partake and not taking no for a answer Bombarded? Honestly? I'm surprised given that we're a couple that actively look for bi guys and we have photos of me (the male on public display).....yet we have never been 'bombarded' with messages! What's your secret? There must be something attracting all these men to your profile and encouraging them to message? Do you have photos of the male that would obviously attract bi/gay men that they find so irresistible that they just have to get in touch? There must be something, surely? A" This! | |||
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"So many people with so much knowledge of what's happening with another person's profile. " Very true | |||
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"So many people with so much knowledge of what's happening with another person's profile. " I'm assuming you meant me. I have no knowledge. Hence I asked the questions I did. Have a fab day! A | |||
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"So many people with so much knowledge of what's happening with another person's profile. " Very true | |||
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"So many people with so much knowledge of what's happening with another person's profile. I'm assuming you meant me. I have no knowledge. Hence I asked the questions I did. Have a fab day! A" Think it was the way you asked the many questions came across as quite condescending. But I hope I cleared that up. | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males" Answer: "Cherry Blossom, I’m outside your age range so no private message. I’m also on the wrong side of a continent thats on the wrong side of an ocean. But sometimes a man sees a woman’s ass Thts so perfect he thinks “ I got a truck to get me to the water I’m a pretty strong swimmer and most importantly that ass. Or just send a Friend request my way, it’s always good to have a friend in LA." Arguably the most far from topic answer you could pluck out randomly? | |||
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"I couldn't resist taking a look at your profile to check out what you didn't want me to see. Sorry about that." I am not sure why he would be bothered. From looking at the pics in certain that most could control themselves . Seems very strange to me that anyone would care as you can block people from messaging. | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange Because they're very insecure about their own sexuality, they think a man looking at them makes them gay? (They're probably in denial but are too "manly" to admit it)" Most likely the issue. Someone looking never has to develop into actually meeting them for sex. It's the OP problem I'd say | |||
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"On the headings in black at the top go to ACCOUNT, click on that then go to "LOOKING FOR" Make sure you don't click on MEN and that should stop them (Us)" That only prevents you from seeing which men view your profile it doesn't stop them looking or fabbing your pics but they won't come up on "last viewed" your profile | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " in settings just delete men | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " do it via tour filters, unless I am wrong, thats what I did. try and look at my profile and let me know if thats the case | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males do it via tour filters, unless I am wrong, thats what I did. try and look at my profile and let me know if thats the case" I can see your profile peekaboo | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males do it via tour filters, unless I am wrong, thats what I did. try and look at my profile and let me know if thats the case" I can see your profile and I just test fabbed a pic, I just can't message you. Filters only stop the messages | |||
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"When the site was created, there should of been an option where who can look at your profile based on their gender" It should be by the criteria your looking for as per profile which would make it easier to connect with those preferences | |||
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" Filters only stop the messages " Yes bit it'll also stop them showing up on OP's "looked at me list" too | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Suck it up Buttercup Going to look at your profile as well now | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males " Delete it | |||
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"Youll find most men only look at other mens profiles from verifications so they get an idea of what a woman or couples preferences are. I'm not in bad shape, but if someone whose profile interests me, has only met up with ripped men, i know I'm not their type" I'll admit I do the same.... | |||
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"I couldn't resist taking a look at your profile to check out what you didn't want me to see. Sorry about that." Ma That made me laugh | |||
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"Me thinks the lady doth protest too much! " Me thinks you are very right | |||
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"Attention seeker I think. I don’t care who looks at mine or msgs me. If I turn guys on so be it " Totally agree, hmmm the OP asking that question after being on here over a year hmmmm | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange Nothing strange about it if you're straight. I don't really want a category of people I'm not interesting in sexually looking at my pictures. Pretty simple, nothing wrong with that. It's my preference. I agree with OP, there should be a way to block completely from viewing you a category or gender etc .. " I honestly think it's a bit strange too, I'm 100 per cent straight, do I care whether women look at my profile in a sexual manner?? No, why would I, what difference does it make | |||
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"If it’s attention you want join as a couple lol My single profile rarely messaged.. joined with partner as a couple and fuck me.. inbox overload lol " Or put some killer heels and lippy on. Worked for me x | |||
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"How do I get my profile hidden from males Not sure why some get so bothered by other men looking. Strange Nothing strange about it if you're straight. I don't really want a category of people I'm not interesting in sexually looking at my pictures. Pretty simple, nothing wrong with that. It's my preference. I agree with OP, there should be a way to block completely from viewing you a category or gender etc .. I honestly think it's a bit strange too, I'm 100 per cent straight, do I care whether women look at my profile in a sexual manner?? No, why would I, what difference does it make" If you read the ops comments his reasons and the difference it makes to him are clear enough. | |||
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"Op, nothing wrong with a little window shopping, we're not all looking to buy. " exactly this, christ of men didn't look at other men's profiles we'd have no views at all | |||
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