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By *aircop9 OP   Man
over a year ago

Northwich

I'm struggling as to what to put for a first message, mostly it's something along the lines of, "hiya, how you doing" but I'm guessing this is slightly boring. Any tips?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I'm struggling as to what to put for a first message, mostly it's something along the lines of, "hiya, how you doing" but I'm guessing this is slightly boring. Any tips?"

Read the person's profile and write a message that shows you have read it and why you think you would be compatible.

Most ladies look at people's profiles before replying; so make sure your photos and profile is as good as you can make it, so that it appeals to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm struggling as to what to put for a first message, mostly it's something along the lines of, "hiya, how you doing" but I'm guessing this is slightly boring. Any tips?

Read the person's profile and write a message that shows you have read it and why you think you would be compatible.

Most ladies look at people's profiles before replying; so make sure your photos and profile is as good as you can make it, so that it appeals to people. "

Absolutely agree. If your profile isn't up to scratch abd shows little effort, what you write in a message is completely irrelevant as won't even get read

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

How do you engage in conversation with people in real life?

Just because they are on a fuck site doesn’t mean you have to let your conversational standards drop!

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By *rnypairCouple
over a year ago

south Yorkshire


"I'm struggling as to what to put for a first message, mostly it's something along the lines of, "hiya, how you doing" but I'm guessing this is slightly boring. Any tips?"

It’s a tough one as everyone prefers different types of messages, we prefer people to just introduce themselves and tell us what they are looking for and if it is something that interests us we will reply back.

Any one liners, fancy a fuck or free now either get left unread or deleted.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I'm struggling as to what to put for a first message, mostly it's something along the lines of, "hiya, how you doing" but I'm guessing this is slightly boring. Any tips?"

Wouldn't matter as lots look at your profile before reading the message and I'm afraid yours could be better.. remember it's your shop window

As for a message

It needs to show you have read the person's profile

Meets their requirements as well as your own

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By *edWitch0000Woman
over a year ago

worthing


"I'm struggling as to what to put for a first message, mostly it's something along the lines of, "hiya, how you doing" but I'm guessing this is slightly boring. Any tips?"

I would delete your message before reading as your profile is lacking. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How you doing? is a friendly question but it just lack imagination.

We get numerous message like that every day and to be honest we just ignore as we think uninteresting message / profile means uninteresting person.

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