FabSwingers.com forum: Profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello sexy people. How do I know if my profile is any good please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s any good, people will message you.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

You'll be fighting off the schlongs with a schtick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s any good, people will message you. "

Lol

Really ..

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Tbh no it’s not great

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tbh no it’s not great "

Thanks. Anything specific?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that was your CV how would you feel?

We wouldn’t give you the job.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If that was your CV how would you feel?

We wouldn’t give you the job. "

A Dear John letter - oh dear! Must try harder

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Tbh no it’s not great

Thanks. Anything specific? "

Does really say much about you and the chick pic isn’t great

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It doesn't say much about you and the pictures are not the most flattering.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

To be absolutely blunt, it's a bit crap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone. Really useful so far.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

You'll be inundated with messages and putting up a status sorry but I need to do a bulk delete as far too many

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By *abulousTwo!Couple
over a year ago

Lowestoft

It doesn't do anything for us to read the stuff about being a professional businessman etc. Your work has nothing to do with lifestyle here and it's not some badge of honour that impresses. In fact it does the opposite as it makes us think you're job will take priority over shagging for you. Mostly we ignore people who bang on about how professional they are or how they need to be discreet because of work. Everyone is in the same boat, unless you're the Prime Minister, you have no extra rights to privacy that we all have.

If you were to say..."I run my own business so am very flexible with when I can meet" .. that's a different matter.

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By *idalgo13Man
over a year ago

Near York

Hi Thom, all I can advise, is listen to the advice about your profile by those you are looking to meet. Yes agree, take all the business man stuff out…people may feel that work comes before pleasure which equals you cancelling meets or socials.

Not just dick pics….parts of your body from different angles, do look at other guys profiles to get ideas…guys that are similar to you, how they have done their photos…etc. It is all a learning curve.

You mentioned some of your fantasies which is great and you did write a profile and added photos…and that is far better than some that just have a shadow. It is all about the effort you put in…

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By *abulousTwo!Couple
over a year ago

Lowestoft

We didn't mean our comment sound as harsh as it might have sounded but it's useful to know what people reading it might think. We're not saying everyone feels like we do though.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Hello sexy people. How do I know if my profile is any good please? "

If you messaged us we'd look at your profile, check out the pics (physical attraction is key) and very quickly delete your message. Two dick pics, both of which can't be classed as anywhere near classy.....

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We didn't mean our comment sound as harsh as it might have sounded but it's useful to know what people reading it might think. We're not saying everyone feels like we do though."

It’s really helpful - thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi Thom, all I can advise, is listen to the advice about your profile by those you are looking to meet. Yes agree, take all the business man stuff out…people may feel that work comes before pleasure which equals you cancelling meets or socials.

You mentioned some of your fantasies which is great and you did write a profile and added photos…and that is far better than some that just have a shadow. It is all about the effort you put in…

Brill - thanks

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

The jizzy dick pic is not doing you any favours.

I don't know who told men this type of photo looks good, but they lied.

If I've just knocked one out onto my stomach I'm just reaching for the tissue paper asap, I don't even want to look at it, let alone photograph it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Appreciate all of this. Thank you. Changes being made already xx

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Tbh no it’s not great

Thanks. Anything specific? "

Photos. Lack of.. the one you show is hardly stopping in the tracks kind

Blurb.... Tells me nothing

Your profile is your shop window.. would you stop and go in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think mine needs a little work too...

Any thoughts?

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"If that was your CV how would you feel?

We wouldn’t give you the job.

A Dear John letter - oh dear! Must try harder "

I actually wrote mine like a CV formatted and word counted. I'm not saying to follow me but that's what works for me.

Still many do not read it but I get a perverse delight in directing them to the profile when they ask questions that are answered on it already.

You need more photos and by more photos, I don't mean all pics of of your cock/abs/bum/muscles from different angles in your loo. Either use your creativity or stick to the basic expected photos ( basic photos for men: Face or part of face, Full-length body shot( nude or in-a-suit), blue jeans and white t-shirt, sport activity/hobby shot)

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Think mine needs a little work too...

Any thoughts?"

See my reply above. Also, you are fairly new. this is a male-dominated site. 169 women to 3000 men. You will have to stand out ( in a good way not bad way), join events early, and make yourself available to get anywhere.

good luck.

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