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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

I'm looking to improve my profile and would love brutally honest feedback.

Please let me know about anything wrong about it and share advices.

Thank you for your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only looking for women and can't accommodate a big red flag

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Pictures are ok but the only thing you have on your profile is your bmds test and that daft legal rubbish

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Disclaimer, I'd re write your entire bio

Bit about you, your interests what you are looking for.

Plenty of helpful advice among the pile of threads from previous folk whom asked similar as yourself if you care to browse within the forums just search profile help advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uv wrote more on this post than u have on ur profile

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I mean.

Writing a profile would be a good start.

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By *lwenWoman
over a year ago

De12 area


"Hi everyone,

I'm looking to improve my profile and would love brutally honest feedback.

Please let me know about anything wrong about it and share advices.

Thank you for your time "

I was a bit disappointed to not find a profile to read. Oh that because you haven't written one..

May try that first.. And the legal bits are a waste of time..

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

There is no profile to review!

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

At 27 you should be able to come up with some exciting or enticing photos. The first one people see is of you in a bland tshirt , bland underwear and in a bland room.

Your happy to show your face so put some Facebook style photos up of you enjoying yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile pic is actually really good, I like that one a lot but you really need to add more in the written section as other have already said

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Profile pic is OK. Your results from the BDSM test aren't for me but if I was looking for a sadistic degrader I'd be wanting to see some awareness of SSC and RACK on a profile.

J

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By *cesHighMan
over a year ago

Weymouth

Just write freely about yourself, desires, expectations, pictures are great, you will soon make connections, good luck

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By *corpio_juice420Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"You're only looking for women and can't accommodate a big red flag "

But I'm straight only really looking for women n couples I guess I say I cannot accommodate as I have teenagers but on the RARE occasion I can. So I say it's easier to say cannot accommodate. I don't want to be a red flag haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic is okay, but it's downhill after that. Write an actual profile of what you're seeking/what you offer. Get rid of the legal bit as it means nowt. Put up some good pics alongside your profile one.

If you can't accomadate state why? If you're single most will think you're not because of it. Can you do hotel meets? The numbers are against you on here for solo men. Stand out

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By *corpio_juice420Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Profile pic is okay, but it's downhill after that. Write an actual profile of what you're seeking/what you offer. Get rid of the legal bit as it means nowt. Put up some good pics alongside your profile one.

If you can't accomadate state why? If you're single most will think you're not because of it. Can you do hotel meets? The numbers are against you on here for solo men. Stand out "

Yeah I agree with you on that one thanks for the heads up xx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Pictures are ok but the only thing you have on your profile is your bmds test and that daft legal rubbish"

And ironically that legal rubbish will be copied from someone else's profile/post

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

That bdsm test means nothing to us.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

100% sadist seems a bit scary to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What profile?

Currently all you have is a meaningless BDSM test and an equally meaningless warning that site owners themselves have stated in FAQs that tgey'd rather people dudn't post on their profiles as, not only does it take up valuable server space, but is unenforceable.

Think about it, would you actually spend money in taking someone to court for sharing images that you yourself place in the public domain?

Here's a clue, you'd lose.

There is literally nothing that tells any of your target audience anything about you, what you have to offer and why they should want to meet you

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

You need to start again op

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

You don’t have a profile, you have photos and info that makes us think you either live with your mum, or your partner.

While BDSM is what some people are looking for, it’s not a great selling point if it’s your only selling point.

Finally, the ridiculous ’legal’ disclaimers, just don’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing op, look at other mens profiles who use the forums, some great profiles, to give you a heads up, the tailor yours that subjectively sells you, show some of your personality and character in a profile...

And lose the wanky legal disclaimer shit

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

As well as all the advice given so far, have a look at your age range.

You’re looking for women between 18 and 25 on a swinging site where the majority of members are aged 30+

I would either be more realistic with your age range or, if you are genuinely just looking for sex with women between 18 and 25, try Tinder or Bumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The percentage list this is a snore fest for me

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Tiny age range (and it's the age range that's probably smallest on Fab) and no profile at all (the BDSM test makes it look like you would be better on a more kink related, and very popular, alternative site and the legal rubbish makes you look like a sheep).

Didn't bother looking at the pics because of the above.

(Bry)

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Looks worse now than it did lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks worse now than it did lol"

I feel sometimes the effort is all too much for some folk

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Aw hey there's actual words now.

It looks like you'd be better suited to a site around the fetish side of life though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks worse now than it did lol"

What about something constructive for him then, instead of sarcasim, assistance in what is meant to be a community

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