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By *p4fun60 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Absolutely!

When single guys at clubs or parties ask us, we claim we don't have any - bloody chancers!

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Help fucking always gratefully received but I always have the condom inventory at maximum and with a back up tank ??

Must be really irritating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't normally play with couples but the amount of times I've been asked by single girls when heading to the play rooms if I have a condom with me is a bit shocking, surely they shouldn't need to ask, it should just be the obvious thing to have with you in a Swingers club shouldn't it???

The only time I've not had them on me at all times is if it's a fancy dress night and I haven't got pockets but they are always in my locker ready to grab if needed

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

Playing the other side of it. We have often handed over one of ours to a guy. Two reasons, one is that this way its an obvious expectation and no excuses. But also as certain brands of condom Candy can find irritating, so that way we know she is going to be OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over"

Agreed up to a point....however I have an allergy to latex, so certain brands of condoms are off the cards. I have some to supply should we need to

Mrs

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley


"Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over

Agreed up to a point....however I have an allergy to latex, so certain brands of condoms are off the cards. I have some to supply should we need to

Mrs "

Same

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By *p4fun60 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over

Agreed up to a point....however I have an allergy to latex, so certain brands of condoms are off the cards. I have some to supply should we need to

Mrs "

I see where you coming from but wouldnt you have thought that a well prepared person would have already thought of that & brought their own non latex ones for just such a reason - I just find it incredulous that a guy thinks its OK to rock up in the hope of getting a fuck & not even prepared to supply his own protection & tbh the next time it happens to us the only fuck they're gonna get is a "fuck off" lol

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21


"Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over

Agreed up to a point....however I have an allergy to latex, so certain brands of condoms are off the cards. I have some to supply should we need to

Mrs

I see where you coming from but wouldnt you have thought that a well prepared person would have already thought of that & brought their own non latex ones for just such a reason - I just find it incredulous that a guy thinks its OK to rock up in the hope of getting a fuck & not even prepared to supply his own protection & tbh the next time it happens to us the only fuck they're gonna get is a "fuck off" lol"

Exactly as it should be.

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Kimberley

I agree with the point they should be prepared but I also have some anxieties around people supplying their own. I just can’t help but think that some guys may tamper with them ahead of the night. I might be paranoid but it’s hard to trust people nowadays

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

The vast majority of guys will have a condom on them unless they have temporarily lost one , used them and not gone to get another.

I tuck mine under the rubber band for my locker key ..I do lose it occasionally and indeed on several occasions have lent one to a gent who didn't , at that moment have one , and he duly went and got one to replace it after he had finished ...

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I always wear a condom but have been asked numerous times by couples if I'm happy not to use one....

I commented on another thread on this , and there are absolutely loads of couples that don't use condoms, I was surprised...

They argue that doing oral defeats the purpose anyway , and they do regular sti checks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over

Agreed up to a point....however I have an allergy to latex, so certain brands of condoms are off the cards. I have some to supply should we need to

Mrs "

I tend to only use skyns now but before I did I'd always keep some latex free ones in my locker just incase someone I'm with has an algae to latex, Just makes sense to me to come prepared.

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East


"Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over"

There really are some cheap skates out there! I agree if the lady has a condom preference with her it should be used

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By *uto564Man
over a year ago

Widnes

The one that gets me is me and my fiancé go in a room with a guy and we start playing (with door closed and locked) and other single chancers knock and ask if they can come in…..

If we wanted them in we would have asked them or left the bloody door open……

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I agree with the point they should be prepared but I also have some anxieties around people supplying their own. I just can’t help but think that some guys may tamper with them ahead of the night. I might be paranoid but it’s hard to trust people nowadays"

This is a bit worrying to me.

If you don't trust someone enough not to tamper with a condom why are you letting them fuck you?

Everyone is responsible for their own safety so it should be a combination of take your own supply if allergies are a concern, expect that any potential play partner has their own (they also may have allergies of course and there's the question of fit - some guys need larger or smaller than standard condoms of course) but most of all if there's honestly any worry about someone being untrustworthy then it's simple - don't fuck them.

A

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over

Agreed up to a point....however I have an allergy to latex, so certain brands of condoms are off the cards. I have some to supply should we need to

Mrs

I see where you coming from but wouldnt you have thought that a well prepared person would have already thought of that & brought their own non latex ones for just such a reason - I just find it incredulous that a guy thinks its OK to rock up in the hope of getting a fuck & not even prepared to supply his own protection & tbh the next time it happens to us the only fuck they're gonna get is a "fuck off" lol"

One club I was in had free condoms in every room, and when I was lucky enough to be invited to play with this couple, I grabbed one of the freebies and away we went! Unfortunately this turned out to be a mistake, and ruined the experience! The condom was too small, and gave me an irritation

I’ve always carried my own Skyns ever since, including in my car day to day, because you never know with Fab lol….

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"I agree with the point they should be prepared but I also have some anxieties around people supplying their own. I just can’t help but think that some guys may tamper with them ahead of the night. I might be paranoid but it’s hard to trust people nowadays"

I agree with you there. There is a very slim chance someone could have done that. But I also can work the other way trust is definitely important.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I always carry my own condoms, in my play bag. If a guy has his own, great, though I have noticed my body does not like some brands. I go for Skyns myself, get a value pack from Amazon that lasts a while.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

We have specific preferences with condoms, so we’re happy to supply - but guys shouldn’t expect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't have condoms of thier own then it tells us they are a chance who doesn't take thier and also our sexual health seriously therefore it's an instant no from us. Like many posters we use latex free skyns so will often give the guy joining one of these for Ks benefit but they'd only be given one if they had shown the respect to bring thier own.

KJ

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

When at a club I always carry my own condoms but if a couple want me to use their one that’s ok with me.When at a spa I keep them in my locker as I feel it’s a bit arrogant / desperate walking around with condoms in my hand whilst trying to relax and enjoy the spa facilities.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Surely you just let them raw dog her after giving it a quick once over to make sure its clean?

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By *p4fun60 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Surely you just let them raw dog her after giving it a quick once over to make sure its clean? "

What an absolute dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely you just let them raw dog her after giving it a quick once over to make sure its clean?

What an absolute dickhead "

Given the fact that thier profile text is very tongue in cheek (like this response) but it's actually a very well verified account with clearly genuine verifications left by obviously genuine accounts, I'm gonna go out on a limb here and suggest thier post was fairly obvious sarcasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rant alert

Really this is aimed at single guys...

When in a club watching a couple & hoping to join in at least have the common courtesy if invited, to supply your own Durex, seriously you want to fuck my wife & expect me to help you, don't be so fucking lazy buy your own or decline the invite...rant over

Agreed up to a point....however I have an allergy to latex, so certain brands of condoms are off the cards. I have some to supply should we need to

Mrs

I see where you coming from but wouldnt you have thought that a well prepared person would have already thought of that & brought their own non latex ones for just such a reason - I just find it incredulous that a guy thinks its OK to rock up in the hope of getting a fuck & not even prepared to supply his own protection & tbh the next time it happens to us the only fuck they're gonna get is a "fuck off" lol"

Hahaha at your last line I know where you're coming from, and you're right that guys shouldn't just rock up and expect a fuck without making any effort to supply their own condoms

Mrs

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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This is a bit worrying to me.

If you don't trust someone enough not to tamper with a condom why are you letting them fuck you?

"

It's just a fuck

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