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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi folks. I’m in need of some profile advice. I don’t ever really get any response off women. I was just wondering if there was anything I could do to show that I am genuine. I’m up for fun and I don’t get pushy if someone doesn’t respond so what am I missing as I know I’m no Brad Pitt but I’m always getting told that I’m not bad looking either. Apart from my terrible tattoos. Any criticism is appreciated. Thanks

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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Similar here to mate,think showing to much,years ago before internet I sent Polaroid pic with letter fully clothed ,had much more success ,granted I was younger

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good bio but your photo posture doesn't inspire any confidence. Clearly a bit of muscle so flex it.

Also that dick pick with the writing a bit of a turn off. Perhaps cause I don't like flaccid dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks. I’m in need of some profile advice. I don’t ever really get any response off women. I was just wondering if there was anything I could do to show that I am genuine. I’m up for fun and I don’t get pushy if someone doesn’t respond so what am I missing as I know I’m no Brad Pitt but I’m always getting told that I’m not bad looking either. Apart from my terrible tattoos. Any criticism is appreciated. Thanks"

Is your profile pic your arse or your armpit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good bio but your photo posture doesn't inspire any confidence. Clearly a bit of muscle so flex it.

Also that dick pick with the writing a bit of a turn off. Perhaps cause I don't like flaccid dicks. "

Thanks for the advice. I was unsure about the pic with the writing too. I’ve taken it down as you just confirmed my suspicions.

I will take it on board about my profile pic and use a different one. Thanks a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good bio but your photo posture doesn't inspire any confidence. Clearly a bit of muscle so flex it.

Also that dick pick with the writing a bit of a turn off. Perhaps cause I don't like flaccid dicks.

Thanks for the advice. I was unsure about the pic with the writing too. I’ve taken it down as you just confirmed my suspicions.

I will take it on board about my profile pic and use a different one. Thanks a lot"

New pic looks good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good bio but your photo posture doesn't inspire any confidence. Clearly a bit of muscle so flex it.

Also that dick pick with the writing a bit of a turn off. Perhaps cause I don't like flaccid dicks.

Thanks for the advice. I was unsure about the pic with the writing too. I’ve taken it down as you just confirmed my suspicions.

I will take it on board about my profile pic and use a different one. Thanks a lot

New pic looks good. "

Thanks a lot

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Everyone would struggle to meet any 99 Year olds on here to be honest.

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By *yourselfMan
over a year ago

Heworth

Most guys get zero interest on here. Just the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on this site over a year, didn't put much effort the first 4/5 months. as im not great at online chat, noticed I was too forward, sat back, chilled down and now I'm going to my first club social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the dick pics

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Your profile seems ok.

Our advice is to get yourself out and about, look for socials, group meets or nip along to your local club (if one is close by).

Doing this will get you a few verifications, shows you as a doer not just a chatter.

Give it a whirl, you may just enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile seems ok.

Our advice is to get yourself out and about, look for socials, group meets or nip along to your local club (if one is close by).

Doing this will get you a few verifications, shows you as a doer not just a chatter.

Give it a whirl, you may just enjoy it. "

Thanks for your advice. It was really good advice as you have confirmed my thoughts that I need to start going to the club and getting myself out there more. I guess I’ve been quite nervous about going but I’m sure that’s only a mental barrier. I will most likely just relax and enjoy meeting people alike. Even if I don’t play it’s not just about that for me I’m just happy to meet some cool people if just that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been on this site over a year, didn't put much effort the first 4/5 months. as im not great at online chat, noticed I was too forward, sat back, chilled down and now I'm going to my first club social. "

I hope you enjoy yourself at your club social. I have been thinking about the club for a while now too

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