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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd like to say, mainly for guys benefit, that its really difficult to tell you all apart! Most guys profiles have a main pic of a cock or belly or some other nondescript fleshy part. You cant expect to be remembered amid the stramash of other fleshy pics of hopeful chaps unless you have an individual picture. Use some imagination and creativity and get remembered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok, give us some examples of what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to say, mainly for guys benefit, that its really difficult to tell you all apart! Most guys profiles have a main pic of a cock or belly or some other nondescript fleshy part. You cant expect to be remembered amid the stramash of other fleshy pics of hopeful chaps unless you have an individual picture. Use some imagination and creativity and get remembered!"

Who said that...??

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

She's right though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's right though. "

rubbish!...how many men come here for pic validation!!!!!!!!!?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"She's right though.

rubbish!...how many men come here for pic validation!!!!!!!!!? "

It's not about validation. She's right about the boring pics. Torso after torso, cock after cock. No imagination or anything. Often wonky, in bad lighting, blurry. They tell you nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You women can talk! arse tits clunge!! just men don't get bored of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You women can talk! arse tits clunge!! just men don't get bored of it lol"

Cleavage cleavage minge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's right though. "

Agreed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok, give us some examples of what you mean "

There was a single guy on here whose erotic pics drove women mad to the extent that forum threads were started and a fan club was set up! Not a cock pic in sight. All erotic teasing pics such shirt unbuttoned, wrapped in towel etc. Drool. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you guys mean tho I think the best pics should be sexy with a humorous twist...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try some donuts, marshmallows - or basically anything but a sky remote!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like being nondescript and unmemorable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And for the right reasons too don't forget! For example, a guy sat there, legs wide apart holding an erect cock, doesn't appeal to me, in fact it was totally off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok, give us some examples of what you mean "

Pictures where a guy has put some thought into them; 20 cock pictures taken at all the angles possible really isn't worth bothering with as to me and I guess others suggests that they think the way to a woman is with their cock, nothing more.

Some nice torso pictures, not necessarily with a cock, some pictures taken in front of a mirror look great, others monstrous, even clothed ones can be just as sexyand I mean fully clothed too, not forgetting a nice bum picture not showing the hole either, must be clean too ie no toilet paper dangling

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like being nondescript and unmemorable. "

yea right!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

the lady is right. I always appreciate a nice semi clothed shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 cock pictures taken at all the angles possible really isn't worth bothering with..."

only 20?

Our viewing record stands at 49 cock shots on one profile with no other pictures apart from another blurry cock shot which didn't count as 50...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what you guys mean tho I think the best pics should be sexy with a humorous twist... "

Yours is the best I've ever seen!! Priceless!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to say, mainly for guys benefit, that its really difficult to tell you all apart! Most guys profiles have a main pic of a cock or belly or some other nondescript fleshy part. You cant expect to be remembered amid the stramash of other fleshy pics of hopeful chaps unless you have an individual picture. Use some imagination and creativity and get remembered!"

Nice lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like being nondescript and unmemorable. "

Your not nondescript

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't always work though we've been told afew times that our pics are "too arty" just shows you can never win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love those pics with a hint of what might be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't always work though we've been told afew times that our pics are "too arty" just shows you can never win "

Absolutely right, however hard you try there will always be someone ready to find fault. But that's not just on here, it applies to life in general. All you can do is try your hardest.

Do agree that some profiles do show too many cocks. On the subject of your pics Miss Giggles they are fabulous, in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to say, mainly for guys benefit, that its really difficult to tell you all apart! Most guys profiles have a main pic of a cock or belly or some other nondescript fleshy part. You cant expect to be remembered amid the stramash of other fleshy pics of hopeful chaps unless you have an individual picture. Use some imagination and creativity and get remembered!"

Would you say your own profile pics are shining examples of 'imagination and creativity'

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Still my lips pic got me some meets

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By *wanzMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"I'd like to say, mainly for guys benefit, that its really difficult to tell you all apart! Most guys profiles have a main pic of a cock or belly or some other nondescript fleshy part. You cant expect to be remembered amid the stramash of other fleshy pics of hopeful chaps unless you have an individual picture. Use some imagination and creativity and get remembered!

Would you say your own profile pics are shining examples of 'imagination and creativity' "

I have tried .... but its not easy ... Need someone to help me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to say, mainly for guys benefit, that its really difficult to tell you all apart! Most guys profiles have a main pic of a cock or belly or some other nondescript fleshy part. You cant expect to be remembered amid the stramash of other fleshy pics of hopeful chaps unless you have an individual picture. Use some imagination and creativity and get remembered!

Would you say your own profile pics are shining examples of 'imagination and creativity'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't always work though we've been told afew times that our pics are "too arty" just shows you can never win

Absolutely right, however hard you try there will always be someone ready to find fault. But that's not just on here, it applies to life in general. All you can do is try your hardest.

Do agree that some profiles do show too many cocks. On the subject of your pics Miss Giggles they are fabulous, in my opinion"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to say, mainly for guys benefit, that its really difficult to tell you all apart! Most guys profiles have a main pic of a cock or belly or some other nondescript fleshy part. You cant expect to be remembered amid the stramash of other fleshy pics of hopeful chaps unless you have an individual picture. Use some imagination and creativity and get remembered!"

Wow. Yours are highly creative. Your lips in one and chin in the other. Practice what you preach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be hard for single guy.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

see... i can understand both sides...

women and couples are guilty of exactly the same thing, so do i think it is fair to pick out just single guys for this....

not in the slightest!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"see... i can understand both sides...

women and couples are guilty of exactly the same thing, so do i think it is fair to pick out just single guys for this....

not in the slightest!

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Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"see... i can understand both sides...

women and couples are guilty of exactly the same thing, so do i think it is fair to pick out just single guys for this....

not in the slightest!

"
currently speaking to a cpl now who are wanting to meet today n the only pics they got are of the woman's foo, so I ask for face pics, get a reply saying we sort them out, still not recieved a hr later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still my lips pic got me some meets "

They are lovely lips

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

currently speaking to a cpl now who are wanting to meet today n the only pics they got are of the woman's foo, so I ask for face pics, get a reply saying we sort them out, still not recieved a hr later "

might just be waiting for the pics getting authorised .. hope it works out for u !

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By *ervySmurfMan
over a year ago

Deutchland

Much the same as most close ups of lips, cleavage or arse from women along with the typical demand for face pics from a guy.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Still my lips pic got me some meets

They are lovely lips "
...Happy new year lol

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He had a small dick then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always better going for a good comedy pic - fake tash and glasses on a cock - how original

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah my pics are fleshy and non nondescript but I have never had an issue being remembered. What I am saying is that guys will do better if they are memorable, even a pic of mickey mouse is better as it would stand out, then I would know when I get a message in "oh thats THAT guy, I liked his chat, I remember what we talked about, I'll reply now" rather than "hmm whos this guy, he seems to know me, I cant remember him, his pic looks similar to the message above and his name is the same as the message below, should I say I cant remember where we left off? Maybe just ignore it, maybe he wansnt that interesting thats why I dont feel any draw..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah my pics are fleshy and non nondescript"

Mmm I dunno, you do have very nice lips, especially in the second pic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's right though.

rubbish!...how many men come here for pic validation!!!!!!!!!?

It's not about validation. She's right about the boring pics. Torso after torso, cock after cock. No imagination or anything. Often wonky, in bad lighting, blurry. They tell you nothing."

dont u just hate it when sarcasm is lost....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women on here don't need to make the same effort as men with pictures, it seems, just like with written content.

Although some female pictures will definitely get my attention much quicker than others.

It's funny if women aren't moaning about what men write (or don't) they're moaning about their pictures

Personally I'm like marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YuP...the point of the thread is one sided and aimed at the largest group on fab...the largest group has to stand out individually.So in the order..

men try hard much harder

couples try hard but uve +1 in favour(hence why theres a lack of male pics in cpls profiles)

women occasionally will never actually need a pic to get interest

simple facts I think we all know!

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By *lpha__centauriMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Hey all, I definitely agree with most of what's said, a lot of guys pics are unimaginative and dull.

I'd like to think some of mine break that mould a little but the site doesn't give the best feedback mechanism.

Perhaps a resting system (1 to 10 ?) , possibly with comments would help people be inspired to post more imaginative, erotic pics ?

Also, another thing I found difficult as a single guy is the actual logistics of taking a better pic. We don't have the luxury of a photographer most of the time so can make it harder to set up a decent shot.

I know there was a fair bit of positioning a tripod & timer, running back and forth trying to get the desired angle for my profile shots !

Personally I'd welcome more feedback and ideas to help improve my profile pics but do think there is a lack of method to receive that unless it's directly from friends etc.

'Fans' are OK but only offer a limited 'I like this' response, not why or what that is liked, and they don't offer much in the way of critique.

Just my thoughts, M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey all, I definitely agree with most of what's said, a lot of guys pics are unimaginative and dull.

I'd like to think some of mine break that mould a little but the site doesn't give the best feedback mechanism.

Perhaps a resting system (1 to 10 ?) , possibly with comments would help people be inspired to post more imaginative, erotic pics ?

Also, another thing I found difficult as a single guy is the actual logistics of taking a better pic. We don't have the luxury of a photographer most of the time so can make it harder to set up a decent shot.

I know there was a fair bit of positioning a tripod & timer, running back and forth trying to get the desired angle for my profile shots !

Personally I'd welcome more feedback and ideas to help improve my profile pics but do think there is a lack of method to receive that unless it's directly from friends etc.

'Fans' are OK but only offer a limited 'I like this' response, not why or what that is liked, and they don't offer much in the way of critique.

Just my thoughts, M "
i fyou want an honist opinion on your profile pics get rid of the bottom 2 pics the rest are spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 cock pictures taken at all the angles possible really isn't worth bothering with...

only 20?

Our viewing record stands at 49 cock shots on one profile with no other pictures apart from anothedr blurry cock shot which didn't count as 50... "

Recently saw a profile with 104 cock shots lol

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By *lpha__centauriMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Think I've got rid of the two you meant !

Appreciate the feedback and thanks for the compliment

May even inspire me to go to the effort of getting the tripod out again (and by that I mean my camera )

M xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YuP...the point of the thread is one sided and aimed at the largest group on fab...the largest group has to stand out individually.So in the order..

men try hard much harder

couples try hard but uve +1 in favour(hence why theres a lack of male pics in cpls profiles)

women occasionally will never actually need a pic to get interest

simple facts I think we all know!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 cock pictures taken at all the angles possible really isn't worth bothering with...

only 20?

Our viewing record stands at 49 cock shots on one profile with no other pictures apart from anothedr blurry cock shot which didn't count as 50...

Recently saw a profile with 104 cock shots lol"

"saw"...I think u did more than saw...even the counting lol...musta been a nice enough cock to keep ur attention...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"20 cock pictures taken at all the angles possible really isn't worth bothering with...

only 20?

Our viewing record stands at 49 cock shots on one profile with no other pictures apart from anothedr blurry cock shot which didn't count as 50...

Recently saw a profile with 104 cock shots lol"

And beauties they were If its the same profile I'm thinking of! Lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"20 cock pictures taken at all the angles possible really isn't worth bothering with...

only 20?

Our viewing record stands at 49 cock shots on one profile with no other pictures apart from anothedr blurry cock shot which didn't count as 50...

Recently saw a profile with 104 cock shots lol

"saw"...I think u did more than saw...even the counting lol...musta been a nice enough cock to keep ur attention..."

No I've seen it as well, it says how many public pics and if you scroll down every one is a cock shot bar one! And they're all pretty much the same! X

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"She's right though.

rubbish!...how many men come here for pic validation!!!!!!!!!?

It's not about validation. She's right about the boring pics. Torso after torso, cock after cock. No imagination or anything. Often wonky, in bad lighting, blurry. They tell you nothing."

The ones taken in the bathroom mirror on a mobile whilst flexing the tattooed covered muscles are the best...

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Recently saw a profile with 104 cock shots lol"
104????? Have you been counting all???

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