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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

"

Photo rules state that permission must be sought by everyone in the photo. Report the photos and let admin deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if pics are recognisable as me. If not, I'd be flattered personally. However I understand it possibly being frowned upon as it is a bit cheeky

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By *ants_Nerdy_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Havant

I've been looking at the local updates page a lot and I've seen this from a few local men. There's no way of knowing if these people consented to their photos being shared this way. Makes me uneasy. I wouldn't do it myself.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

"

If it's already been consented when taken, thought it would be obvious if they were private or public since consent was already given to have on profile. Otherwise a person wouldn't agree with any taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

Photo rules state that permission must be sought by everyone in the photo. Report the photos and let admin deal with it "

Thanks. They have removed it after I noticed/asked, but their response was 'you are not identifiable / they own the pic as they took it'. Glad to know fabs rules are that permission is still needed. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if pics are recognisable as me. If not, I'd be flattered personally. However I understand it possibly being frowned upon as it is a bit cheeky"

Its more graphic than I would be comfortable sharing publicly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

If it's already been consented when taken, thought it would be obvious if they were private or public since consent was already given to have on profile. Otherwise a person wouldn't agree with any taken "

Do you mean being consented between you, is consent for any use?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I hate action shots on men’s profiles and many are without permission and men who haven’t even got Beria have them. I’d ask them to remove immediately or report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disgusting how can u do that isnt this the same as revenge porn .. if u dint have consent dont post it . Feel for u hun thsts wrong so wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate action shots on men’s profiles and many are without permission and men who haven’t even got Beria have them. I’d ask them to remove immediately or report them "

Whenever I ask men who the woman is on their pics they always say it's their ex.

Hmm yeah right an ex gave permission for their pic to be used as sex bait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

Photo rules state that permission must be sought by everyone in the photo. Report the photos and let admin deal with it

Thanks. They have removed it after I noticed/asked, but their response was 'you are not identifiable / they own the pic as they took it'. Glad to know fabs rules are that permission is still needed. Thank you "

I hope you called him out as the cheeky cunt he is. Also let him know what he did was potential against the law if your agreement was only for private use between just you 2.

Sorry you went through this.

KJ

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't really mind so long as I'm not identifiable from the pictures. However if someone puts one up without at least clearing it with me first it's getting reported.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We always ask , we don’t mind them posting with only body parts or disguised , I won’t let single guys. Have any. Facial pics of wife after we played just to make sure

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd be happy to this as long as I was asked first. Without permission it's definitely not OK.

XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, gals, be quite specific about the rules for taking pics and vids as "for your own personal use" makes it legitimate to post on their own personal profile while "for your own personal viewing" is a different kettle of fish.

Sad that manners are a fast disappearing thing because I have no prob with posting meet pics on my personal profile BUT would not dream of using one without sending a copy to everyone in the item, identifiable or not, and obtaining everyone's consent for the intended use. It's just a simple extension of the consideration given/expected during the meet.

Just a reminder that even if you are not identifiable but the meet is at your place, the surroundings may identify you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all. He has taken it down so thats, that. Just the lack of asking/ attitude of I can due ownership/ not being identifible, that concerned me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Guys, gals, be quite specific about the rules for taking pics and vids as "for your own personal use" makes it legitimate to post on their own personal profile while "for your own personal viewing" is a different kettle of fish.

Sad that manners are a fast disappearing thing because I have no prob with posting meet pics on my personal profile BUT would not dream of using one without sending a copy to everyone in the item, identifiable or not, and obtaining everyone's consent for the intended use. It's just a simple extension of the consideration given/expected during the meet.

Just a reminder that even if you are not identifiable but the meet is at your place, the surroundings may identify you."

Clearly I was not specific enough. Thanks for this, very helpful.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

If it's already been consented when taken, thought it would be obvious if they were private or public since consent was already given to have on profile. Otherwise a person wouldn't agree with any taken

Do you mean being consented between you, is consent for any use? "

Between the two who must have discussed and either agreed and how If was placed on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

If it's already been consented when taken, thought it would be obvious if they were private or public since consent was already given to have on profile. Otherwise a person wouldn't agree with any taken

Do you mean being consented between you, is consent for any use?

Between the two who must have discussed and either agreed and how If was placed on here "

They didnt discuss it with me before putting it on their profile. At the time, it was taken to be a moment captured/remembered for us, and not shared.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

No, I wouldn’t be happy with that. Taking an intimate photo to be kept as a momento on a personal device is different to sharing it on public pics here. If that’s what they were intending to do with it, they should have made that clear at the time (or checked with you before posting it) so you could say you were ok with it or not.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Without expressed consent, No! We have many pictures including others and featured on other's profiles as well.

All with permission to do so, just respectful to do so we feel.

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

When we have taken photos of a meet, we have always swapped them and checked that everyone is happy with them.

Under no circumstances would we ever post a photo without prior agreement and would always ensure that no recognisable features are displayed.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

consent can also be about who can show the photo and where just because someone was ok taking the pic and gave consent does not mean its been consented to show anywhere or everywhere the new laws cover that ...

so if a boyfriend took some pics that were consented and later on decieds to show them else where then hes basically in trouble same applies to swingers and others this thinking they own once consented is false and everyone is right to challenge just because you gave consent does not mean they can do what ever they wish with it ... fab knows that and thats why they act

these new laws cover every angle so that people cannot be embarrassed or exploited even when at the time taken the pics were consented

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"I've been looking at the local updates page a lot and I've seen this from a few local men. There's no way of knowing if these people consented to their photos being shared this way. Makes me uneasy. I wouldn't do it myself."

When I see a male profile with pics of loads of different women that he is having fun with and there is very little to no verifications always makes me think there was no consent given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under new laws that are coming in, posting any nudes of someone, without permission, will be dealt with as harshly as revenge porn.

So be warned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under new laws that are coming in, posting any nudes of someone, without permission, will be dealt with as harshly as revenge porn.

So be warned"

The lawyers and cash junkies will have a field day on here once the first few cases are done. On the flip side, always be very careful at meets.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

So I do have a few photos of me with others that permission was gained at the time, there are 3 or 4 when other person is in public photo - buts it’s a hand or top of head so hard to identify

Yes I do have private photos that may be more explicit. Then I have photos for personal usage which have persons full face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"consent can also be about who can show the photo and where just because someone was ok taking the pic and gave consent does not mean its been consented to show anywhere or everywhere the new laws cover that ...

so if a boyfriend took some pics that were consented and later on decieds to show them else where then hes basically in trouble same applies to swingers and others this thinking they own once consented is false and everyone is right to challenge just because you gave consent does not mean they can do what ever they wish with it ... fab knows that and thats why they act

these new laws cover every angle so that people cannot be embarrassed or exploited even when at the time taken the pics were consented

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

I reported a guy who'd took photos of me as I sucked his cock (I didn't know), and suddenly my hand on his cock was one of his profile photos. I have a distinctive tattoo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

"

Definitely not on. Illegal also I think. Name and shame the culprit to warn others..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess without explicit consent of 'yes I'm happy for you to share these pics on ABC or with xyz' a person cannot ever assume they are for anyone's eyes but their own.

I also don't think legal copyright or not being identifible (subject to opinion) trumps explicit consent, either.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

If you don’t have specific permission from everyone in the pics that you can post them on your profile, you shouldn’t be posting them on your profile.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


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Yes I do have private photos that may be more explicit. Then I have photos for personal usage which have persons full face "

When you say for personal use do you mean for wanking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Yes I do have private photos that may be more explicit. Then I have photos for personal usage which have persons full face

When you say for personal use do you mean for wanking"

Others have indicated personal use as including their personal profile

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By *r ShenanigansMan
over a year ago

Lancing

Downright rude if nothing else.

Pictures I have taken get sent to the ladies concerned: they can put them in their galleries if they so choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only myself in my gallery is my go to rule. Meet partner out of shot. I don’t think it’s ok to show other people in your own gallery (just my opinion of course).

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

I haven't read the whole thread so forgive me if this has already been said but nothing should be posted without consent.

The other people in my pics, both friends only and public, have given their consent even if they are not identifiable.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"A pic taken of your bodyparts during sex on a private meet (consented to be taken/ shared between you both as a momento), is then posted on the other person's profile public photos, without them asking you?

Thoughts? TIA xo

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Illegal

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There's thousands of men posting pics of them hanging out of women I doubt all of them gave permission

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

We do have pics posted of meets in our public gallery, but for each and everyone of them we sought permission from those that appear in them. Likewise for pics that are posted of us on others profiles, it’s just common decency. We’d be absolutely furious if someone posted pics of us without seeking permission. Not sure where the law sits with this one, but if it’s not illegal, it certainly should be.

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