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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey I put a post out a while back about Advice on my profile, i think i followed the advice given but don't seem to be able to get a conversation going. Is it my profile as any advice is always appreciated.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Your always going to struggle to find any 99 year olds on here....

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By *mber and FireCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Search profile advice on the forums, check through the myriad of topics and comments, then compare it to your profile.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Hey I put a post out a while back about Advice on my profile, i think i followed the advice given but don't seem to be able to get a conversation going. Is it my profile as any advice is always appreciated."

I would reign in the age preferences, I always feel that 18-99 is a case of doesn't matter how hold you are, I will fuck you.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We can't see any red flags on your profile.

Don't get hung up on the age thing, a lot of people (like us) don't see it literally, just a way of showing that age doesn't bother you.

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull

A single guy is always going to struggle on Fab due to sheer numbers, if you want to give yourself a better chance go to socials and have actual conversations - swingers are always friendly if you're respectful. But even then expect nothing, be friendly, confident and patient and eventually you'll get friends and meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A single guy is always going to struggle on Fab due to sheer numbers, if you want to give yourself a better chance go to socials and have actual conversations - swingers are always friendly if you're respectful. But even then expect nothing, be friendly, confident and patient and eventually you'll get friends and meets."

Great sound advice. Probably the best way to find people is to actually be with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you like some brutal feedback on the profile, I can do it in private? I see several things as woman I would not reply to and even red flag. But I'm pretty sure you don't mean it the way you've written it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey luna yeah all feedback is much appreciated, if it's really brutal though a private message might best haha

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
over a year ago

brighton

The first bit about not having trouble getting a relationship but they are boring is weird and offputting.

Don't refer to penis in vagina as the 'main event'

The para about wanting an intense close FWB is a bit much. It is also fairly unrealistic to expect that whilst saying you don't want a relationship. That level of trust and intensity is more relationship sex than FWB sex - not always but you'd be VERY lucky to find that. I would re word that whole bit.

Your pictures are not good. Dick pics should be friends only and you should have a full body pic ideally.

Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The first bit about not having trouble getting a relationship but they are boring is weird and offputting.

Don't refer to penis in vagina as the 'main event'

The para about wanting an intense close FWB is a bit much. It is also fairly unrealistic to expect that whilst saying you don't want a relationship. That level of trust and intensity is more relationship sex than FWB sex - not always but you'd be VERY lucky to find that. I would re word that whole bit.

Your pictures are not good. Dick pics should be friends only and you should have a full body pic ideally.

Hope that helps!

"

I've done a bit of rework on certain things so far but like most things it'll need more improving.

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