FabSwingers.com forum: First mf meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A question for you experienced couples, after a bit of chatting and feeling very into it and turned on by it we are looking to experience our first mf meet soon but would you recommend either a private meet first or attending a club first and seeing how we feel about it once we have experienced a club scene?

Kitty x

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Tricky as either might not work for you. You might find a club visit very interesting if you pick a good one and take it easy, just flirt and chat first time. Yet nothing beats a private one to one meet with a special couple you have chatted with for a while, cozy social to start, no pressure to play first time, build up slowly and naturally over several meets. Oh for a developing naughty friendship with others !

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Have you thought of trying at a social , we have done club , parties and a private meet , all have been fine ,but we found the social we attended so much easier

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’ve always found private meets to be electrifying in their intensity and pleasure, whereas we’ve found clubs not very erotic at all.

But lots of people here will tell you clubs are better for meets, so it’s horses for courses.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

A vote for a club here

No pressure and you can do as much or as little as you're comfortable with.

Getting four way attraction and availability can he a nightmare on here .

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

If you're comfortable with a club environment, it can be easier to suss out potential playmates just due to sheer numbers. We don't care for clubs too much ourselves and it's really quite difficult to find 4way chemistry online so in our exp, a social meet or two in a public place is preferred.

You can always try a threesome first to get your feet wet- much easier to arrange and can be an amazingly sensual couples experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club meets every day of the week. If you don't click at a club, you can wander off and do something else, sauna etc. If you're at home (or someone elses) and you don't click, it gets 100% more awkward. Just my opinion. Have a great first meeting though. M X

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I agree with some of the previous comments. Try going along to a couple of the socials first.

A club is great for planned meets but that’s a double whammy in terms of ‘firsts’. It’s much easier meeting couples socially than singles - make the most of it and enjoy a night out with people you can talk about anything with

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

As other has said a club is great for a first meet if you are anxious that you might not gel with someone. With regards to socials however it’s horses for courses really. Some people are really into them and some like us, not so much. We’ve never found the need for socials but everyone’s different so as much as people can give you advice, only you know what’s best for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the answers guys we think we will do the club. Had our first mff in a spontaneous holiday night out and we loved it but as some have said it may be hard finding a couple out and about x

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

socials first works for us

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