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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Without pics most women aren't even going to open your message.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Rather than private messages.

Also, your profile text says nothing about you. Come and find out? No thanks, there's more than enough people reaching out with some actual personality on show.

What do you want? What do you have to offer? Who are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks I did not know what to put but will update

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Read a lot of hot posts from single men who struggle to get replies amd meets, so that you can make sure your expectations are realistic

And pick up tips. Ultimately it is the uniquemess of ech person that standa out. Its best to be honest about being partnered.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help "

Seriously - there are so, so many guys on Fab compared to single women and couples. You need to ask yourself the question: why would someone want to meet me?

Whatever the answer is (and I can guarantee it's not "because the women on here are sex-starved nymphos who will fuck anyone") then that's what you need to get over in your profile. As it stands, you're literally nothing but a dick (not meant in offense, but that's all we know/see of you. Oh...and you have a bath, too.)

(Bry)

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help "
... I'm married . See my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im married to

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help "

There's a whole body and parts

So sorry the no photos thing be it married or job...

Doesn't wash

No photos no profile pic instant delete

Why would I bother to message you when my inbox gets full of people actually trying to get my attention

You can be married

Your choice to be here, for whatever reason

But you won't really get anywhere if you think others will do the running for you.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help "

Basically you have little to no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rather than private messages.

Also, your profile text says nothing about you. Come and find out? No thanks, there's more than enough people reaching out with some actual personality on show.

What do you want? What do you have to offer? Who are you?"

Well he hasn't taken the hint

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

What will make you stand out more than anyone else on here is not having a profile pic, a single dick and one line on your profile....I mean why wouldn't you stand out with any of that?

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
over a year ago

brighton


"I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help "

With a profile like that you have zero chance. Most women/couples aren't into cheaters and with no photos and nothing about you why would anyone respond?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 02/01/23 22:09:35]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Removed before I got us a forum ban but was basically along the lines of we looked but wouldn't be arsed to ask more OP. Hope that helps

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Compare your profile to the profile of those who you are hoping to interact with. Is there a big contrast?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help

With a profile like that you have zero chance. Most women/couples aren't into cheaters and with no photos and nothing about you why would anyone respond?!"

From what I've read on the forums, some women / couples prefer married men who are cheats, as they are going to want to be discreet and not cause drama.

(Narrator's voice: Drama is caused anyway)

But they still have lots to choose from, and this profile isn't selling OP.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help "

"Something different"?

No, not really.

"Come and find out"?

Mysterious and enigmatic looks a lot like can't be arsed, on a profile.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

There's a new single female profile local to me, been on the site for 6 hours only, and has just posted a status update about how the site is too intense for her, as she has 890 messages already.....

OP; how would your profile stand out against such long odds......?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your help will be updating Thank again

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I am married so can not but pics up but would like to try new things that I have never done please help "

Can you not do pictures that don't show anything that identifies you?

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

I always send a photo with my messages, you can try that. If my messages are read though, I still get nowhere, so women obviously don't like what I look like, so you might be in the same boat. Dunno what the girls are looking for, but I don't appear to have it.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I always send a photo with my messages, you can try that. If my messages are read though, I still get nowhere, so women obviously don't like what I look like, so you might be in the same boat. Dunno what the girls are looking for, but I don't appear to have it. "

Many ladies look at people's profiles initially, before they get round to opening your message. What's the point of sending one, but not having it on your profile? I don't think it's the photo thats the only issue here for you or the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if there is an hierarchy at play as it is always the usual suspects who turn up on these threads including me apparently ha,

but I know I not in an hierarchy and wouldn't wish to be but I still wonder.

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