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How do i ease a gf into swing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need advice how to go about it

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I guess not cheating on her and having a joint profile might be the way to start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess not cheating on her and having a joint profile might be the way to start "
sheshappy for me to go out playing she said shed like to start but really shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should probably stop lieing, as well.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"You should probably stop lieing, as well."

+1

this marks the 3rd 21 year old "single profile" male this week we have encountered with exactly the same story, its quite pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not pathetic. I had the same issue at 23. Sorted it though

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It's not pathetic. I had the same issue at 23. Sorted it though "

What lying and cheating on your partner isnt pathetic ?

got some real heroes here on fab we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He never said he was cheating. Let's be open minded. It's Christmas and they are new recruits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if you're swinging with a partner then meeting another couple would be ideal because then you're both there and both able to have fun and share the experience

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By *otwife CoolhubCouple
over a year ago

Bathgate

Best thing to do is take your first forays into swinging together.

Set up a profile, check messages and see what it has to offer jointly. Made up scenarios to snare a partner into participating probably doesn't have much success.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess not cheating on her and having a joint profile might be the way to start sheshappy for me to go out playing she said shed like to start but really shy"

No need to explain yourself to the holy couples. They are the Untouchables.... Best thing since sliced bread.... True Genuine Swingers.....

Good luck with your gf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess not cheating on her and having a joint profile might be the way to start sheshappy for me to go out playing she said shed like to start but really shy

No need to explain yourself to the holy couples. They are the Untouchables.... Best thing since sliced bread.... True Genuine Swingers.....

Good luck with your gf. "

You've got two chances OP when you broach it with her....

Wolf

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

discuss fantasies with her and if swinging or being watched, exchanging or multiple partners is mentioned suggest you to a local club and just take your time

some club regulars ( couples and singles ) will be over you like a rash if you both are hot... just take it at both your pace.

good luck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

go*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may lead her into it, but, you may have to drag her away

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"discuss fantasies with her and if swinging or being watched, exchanging or multiple partners is mentioned suggest you to a local club and just take your time

some club regulars ( couples and singles ) will be over you like a rash if you both are hot... just take it at both your pace.

good luck"

Great advice _iew ..can i add to the OP, when you ask her, you have to empower her to say no, by re assuring her whatever she decides, will not effect your relationship either way.

If she is pressured or doing it to keep you, its totally wrong and also people will suss it out,when you meet.

I wont wish you good luck ,as luck doesn't come into it ,its simply her free will and choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BRILLIANT!!! needed saying! There is still hope


"I guess not cheating on her and having a joint profile might be the way to start sheshappy for me to go out playing she said shed like to start but really shy

No need to explain yourself to the holy couples. They are the Untouchables.... Best thing since sliced bread.... True Genuine Swingers.....

Good luck with your gf. "

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


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No need to explain yourself to the holy couples. They are the Untouchables.... Best thing since sliced bread.... True Genuine Swingers.....

Good luck with your gf. "

thanks for the odd response, not sure why this guy gets a different reply to the hundreds of other men who have "single" profiles and start a thread about their girlfriend/wife (who isnt mentioned at all on the profile).

As long as it gives you a chance to get on your own soap box eh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No need to explain yourself to the holy couples. They are the Untouchables.... Best thing since sliced bread.... True Genuine Swingers.....

Good luck with your gf.

thanks for the odd response, not sure why this guy gets a different reply to the hundreds of other men who have "single" profiles and start a thread about their girlfriend/wife (who isnt mentioned at all on the profile).

As long as it gives you a chance to get on your own soap box eh ? "

well said far to many double standereds in forums now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (sten) Had been a swinger for some 7 years before I met Morrigan, when we first started seeing each other we talked about it I was open and honest from the beginning. We decided that we needed to concentrate on us, after nearly 2 years we decided to look into it as a couple and see if it something we want to get into together. The 3 things we have learned is Honesty, Communication and Mutual Respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No need to explain yourself to the holy couples. They are the Untouchables.... Best thing since sliced bread.... True Genuine Swingers.....

Good luck with your gf.

thanks for the odd response, not sure why this guy gets a different reply to the hundreds of other men who have "single" profiles and start a thread about their girlfriend/wife (who isnt mentioned at all on the profile).

As long as it gives you a chance to get on your own soap box eh ? "

Kettle..... black....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discuss it with her fully, watch some porn, porn where there is swapping couples, MMF FFm and discuss what turns you both on, then set up a couple profile on here and get looking for what ya want together, start with soft swing if you want to ease in gently xx just dont take all the hot t-girls away from me xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I guess not cheating on her and having a joint profile might be the way to start sheshappy for me to go out playing she said shed like to start but really shy"

Am I the only one who noticed that she knows about his single profile and his playing but is more hesitant and cautious??

C'mon people! Read before you condemn!

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

There is a similar thread in Swingers Chat, some good advice on there

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Need advice how to go about it"

Well I know Tiger Woods has got a coach ...some like bubba Watson are self-taught ...generally I'd take the green back to the tee approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless she has indicated some interest in this it is hardly appropriate to 'bring it up'.

Try watching some suitable porn, maybe 'Screw My Wife Please' and see if it gets a reaction.

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