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By *ark125125 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near by

Hi

Could anyone explain what's the reason behind some messages suddenly disappear from your inbox and outbox?

As far as I know if other person blocked you, you can still see previous messages but can't view their profile or can msg anymore..

But the above I still couldn't figure out

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a mystery as I've noticed the number (drop) change back up when refresh

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

They might have left the site or been caught out and removed

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By *ark125125 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near by


"They might have left the site or been caught out and removed "

Seems I'm not the only one have experienced it here. Most annoying bit is, chat flow really nicely and probably just about to share contact details.. And boom! All the messages plus the user disappeared from the site

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"They might have left the site or been caught out and removed

Seems I'm not the only one have experienced it here. Most annoying bit is, chat flow really nicely and probably just about to share contact details.. And boom! All the messages plus the user disappeared from the site "

At times if they are new to the site it can be a few things. Too much for them remember your not the only one probably messaging them and get put off and leave or not who they are believed to be some guys get kicks from it so if anything they got excited

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If someone deletes their profile all messages to and from them disappear.

If admin disable their profile or they block you the messages remain

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

Sometimes messages do simply vanish for no apparent reason, especially 'sent' ones - I've had it happen numerous times, and it's been nothing whatsoever to do with the other parties no longer being on the site...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've not logged on for a while and now most of my messages have been deleted / I have loads of messages in my inbox and some of the older ones have gone missing

Fab is a super busy site. Hundreds of thousands of private mails are sent every day and we have tens of millions of such messages on our system. Because we do this mostly for free, we can't keep all the messages for ever because our costs would go up and up and the site would get slower and slower. Older messages that have already been read in "dormant" accounts that haven't been logged into for a while are removed from the system. Similarly if you have loads of mails in your inbox, the system will periodically remove some of the oldest.

If some mails are important to you and you want to make sure they're not deleted, become a site supporter and save any important mails to your "saved message folder" (look for "save it" on the bottom of messages you receive) and we'll keep those mails on the system (unless we screw things up and they get deleted too; but we'll try not to!).

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The above is from FAQS

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By *ark125125 OP   Man
over a year ago

Near by


"I've not logged on for a while and now most of my messages have been deleted / I have loads of messages in my inbox and some of the older ones have gone missing

Fab is a super busy site. Hundreds of thousands of private mails are sent every day and we have tens of millions of such messages on our system. Because we do this mostly for free, we can't keep all the messages for ever because our costs would go up and up and the site would get slower and slower. Older messages that have already been read in "dormant" accounts that haven't been logged into for a while are removed from the system. Similarly if you have loads of mails in your inbox, the system will periodically remove some of the oldest.

If some mails are important to you and you want to make sure they're not deleted, become a site supporter and save any important mails to your "saved message folder" (look for "save it" on the bottom of messages you receive) and we'll keep those mails on the system (unless we screw things up and they get deleted too; but we'll try not to!).

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The above is from FAQS "

Highly appreciate for well detailed explanation.

In my case I was talking about most recent messages (today itself) and of course it happened in the past several time. According to your explanation I guess the other party has left the site.

Thanks again

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We've noticed that our sent messages have disappeared from a good proportion of our conversations..

ie, theirs are showing but not ours

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"They might have left the site or been caught out and removed

Seems I'm not the only one have experienced it here. Most annoying bit is, chat flow really nicely and probably just about to share contact details.. And boom! All the messages plus the user disappeared from the site "

They had their wank n got post orgasm clarity

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

There was a period of three months during covid when I did not log on. I know I got messaged in that time because I got email notifications. When I eventually logged on the messages were gone.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"There was a period of three months during covid when I did not log on. I know I got messaged in that time because I got email notifications. When I eventually logged on the messages were gone. "

I think, because of the amount of time you hadn't signed in for... I sent a friend a message and it disappeared from my sent box after about 3 weeks, when he wasn't online... He signed in about 2 bloody days later and I hadn't sent annother reply

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