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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know everyone has their personal preferences.

I have nothing against it, you want what you want and why settle for less

But is there a market for shorter men on here?

Looking to explore the club scene but far too intimidating.

I’m more than comfortable in my own skin…

Any tips welcome

Happy swinging all x

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I prefer guys taller than me, but at 5ft2 that's not difficult

The club scene is very inclusive of all shapes and sizes. You come across as a nice guy and your photos are extremely easy on the eye so I'd assume you'd have no problems at all.

You're not going to be everyone's cup of tea, but that's the same for everyone on here x

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Height can play a part but sexually you're not standing whilst doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer guys taller than me, but at 5ft2 that's not difficult

The club scene is very inclusive of all shapes and sizes. You come across as a nice guy and your photos are extremely easy on the eye so I'd assume you'd have no problems at all.

You're not going to be everyone's cup of tea, but that's the same for everyone on here x"

Haha exactly

Thank you for taking the time to reply !

Always a difficult one to gauge as I’m probably unfairly based this on my experiences just going out to a normal nightclub.

Appreciate the compliments, you’re a stunner I have to say

You’re absolutely bang on though, it’s like dating a bit of a number game & you may not be everyone but you will be someone’s cup of tea

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Height can play a part but sexually you're not standing whilst doing it "

Haha very true my man!

I’ve lost count on how many times I’ve tried that line

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I've not really had a problem and I'm below the average UK height for a guy.

Don't get me wrong, in my experience it does seem to be the case that most women prefer a taller guy. Thankfully though, there's still a few left that are shorter than me!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Height isn't an issue for me at all.

If there's mutual attraction that's all that matters.

You might find that clubs work better than Fab, as a good personality can overcome the perceived disadvantages of your height.

Nita

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"I know everyone has their personal preferences.

I have nothing against it, you want what you want and why settle for less

But is there a market for shorter men on here?

Looking to explore the club scene but far too intimidating.

I’m more than comfortable in my own skin…

Any tips welcome

Happy swinging all x"

Don't worry, it's not your height.

Some ladies will be picky about height, age or skin colour etc. You're never going to persuade them, if you don't match their preference.

Then there are hundreds of other women who don't care about your height.

Unfortunately they are outnumbered hundred to one by other men.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"Looking to explore the club scene but far too intimidating.

I’m more than comfortable in my own skin…"

This seems a bit contradictory.

Yes, height is attractive to women. But so is confidence. If you're more than comfortable in your own skin (and therefore your height), this will come across in clubs in how you carry/hold yourself. It will eminate from you like a vibe/aura. As will the opposite - being too self-conscious and awkward/timid. Women can pick up on both very easily.

Luckily for most guys, the height thing is an adaptive strategy of mate selection. Meaning that women are attracted, on average, men that are taller than they are. And is also just so happens that women, on average, are shorter than men - sorted! So with confidence in the bag, you should have no problems going to clubs.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking to explore the club scene but far too intimidating.

I’m more than comfortable in my own skin…

This seems a bit contradictory.

Yes, height is attractive to women. But so is confidence. If you're more than comfortable in your own skin (and therefore your height), this will come across in clubs in how you carry/hold yourself. It will eminate from you like a vibe/aura. As will the opposite - being too self-conscious and awkward/timid. Women can pick up on both very easily.

Luckily for most guys, the height thing is an adaptive strategy of mate selection. Meaning that women are attracted, on average, men that are taller than they are. And is also just so happens that women, on average, are shorter than men - sorted! So with confidence in the bag, you should have no problems going to clubs.

Good luck! "

No contradiction here at all my friend.

You can still be confident, confident in your own skin & find new environments intimidating.

For me my height is not an issue, but it is however smart to look for advice before putting yourself in to new environments.

From above “the club scene is inclusive”

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

It's interesting I noticed so many shorter men (5ft 8 and under) on dating sites and on here. Me personally, anyone over 5ft 10 for me

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

The only time I normally get to see guys shorter than me is at panto watching Snow White…. Being 5”2 not that many guys come in shorter than me.

I have the opposite problem with men being too tall… i know we are all the same height horizontally but I quite like being vertical too…. And me being down here and a guy being all the way up there just means I get cramp in my toes and calf’s from being on tippy toe’s and him putting his back out! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's interesting I noticed so many shorter men (5ft 8 and under) on dating sites and on here. Me personally, anyone over 5ft 10 for me"

Absolutely respect that, everyone has there type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only time I normally get to see guys shorter than me is at panto watching Snow White…. Being 5”2 not that many guys come in shorter than me.

I have the opposite problem with men being too tall… i know we are all the same height horizontally but I quite like being vertical too…. And me being down here and a guy being all the way up there just means I get cramp in my toes and calf’s from being on tippy toe’s and him putting his back out! Lol "

Hahaha that made me giggle

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

If I am attracted to a guy, his height is irrelevant

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Height is an opposite of an issue to me. How he acts is a massive part in judging who I meet.

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By *appytaffWoman
over a year ago

blackwood

For me height is irrelevant it’s all about the chemistry.

That said I’m only just 5ft so the whole world is taller than me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd be more than happy to come across you in a club!.. as fellow vertically challenged people

We have no problems in clubs, have found them to be inclusive regardless of a persons shape, size, age etc x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me height is irrelevant it’s all about the chemistry.

That said I’m only just 5ft so the whole world is taller than me lol "

this made me giggle. !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We'd be more than happy to come across you in a club!.. as fellow vertically challenged people

We have no problems in clubs, have found them to be inclusive regardless of a persons shape, size, age etc x"

Haha very kind of you

Up the smallies !

That’s really good to hear! I think it’s just nice to hear people talk about the inclusivity

Puts the mind at rest x

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By *appytaffWoman
over a year ago

blackwood


"We'd be more than happy to come across you in a club!.. as fellow vertically challenged people

We have no problems in clubs, have found them to be inclusive regardless of a persons shape, size, age etc x"

Same your so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We'd be more than happy to come across you in a club!.. as fellow vertically challenged people

We have no problems in clubs, have found them to be inclusive regardless of a persons shape, size, age etc x

Same your so far away"

always the case. Merry Christmas xx

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By *ove2lickMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Small guy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's much less of an issue in the swinging world than in the dating one.

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By *amspoonsMan
over a year ago

North East

Shorter just.means your cock hangs nearer the floor, which in here might be an advantage hahaha!

To be honest mate as a single bloke you are fucked (or, rather, not) anyway, regardless of height. You gotta be truly exceptional to get anywhere

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By *ustyMayfair85Woman
over a year ago

Mayfair/Travelling

I find that some short men are very insecure about their height which is a turnoff.

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