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"Not another thread from single guy complaining about not getting meets surely lol" Surly this is the section where it says asking for others opinions/feedback why the hell would you be in this part if you dont want to be helpful? | |||
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"Not another thread from single guy complaining about not getting meets surely lol Surly this is the section where it says asking for others opinions/feedback why the hell would you be in this part if you dont want to be helpful?" I know that, but there's about 3 threads already running with the same question. Here's some advice, all single guys should stop feeling sorry for themselfs. | |||
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"who said anything about feeling sorry for myself? and what use are the other threads qhen im asking for input on my profile? rather than hijacking someone elses post i started my own... got a problem with it then go complain about someone elses post" Attitude won't help you get meets. | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice " Not sue how you can say that? Or accuse him of attitude? | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice Not sue how you can say that? Or accuse him of attitude?" Advice is stop going on about not getting meets. | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice Not sue how you can say that? Or accuse him of attitude? Advice is stop going on about not getting meets." AT which point did i "go on" about not getting meets i mentioned it ... | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x " No face pic, mentioning the word discreet and can't accommodate is not a great combination. Those that can accommodate will generally do much better than those that can't. 2 near identical cock pics. And the text of your profile is so bland it may as well say nothing. | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x No face pic, mentioning the word discreet and can't accommodate is not a great combination. Those that can accommodate will generally do much better than those that can't. 2 near identical cock pics. And the text of your profile is so bland it may as well say nothing. " Hmm thought my face pic was on there as i added it as a profile pik... child so accom is outve the question obv i think a re write is in order , cheers | |||
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"well I just checked your profile you seem good to me, maybe out a little more about u and what your into on your profile, and try get a few more pics up, just a personal performance but I don't like profiles with just cock pics on id rather not see any and have a face pic sent privately, May be worth u upgrading so u can see who looks at you as I find that sometimes leads to meets and messages etc.. hope u find someone soon, PS you should go to a club they are lots of fun if you out a meet up on the clubs section I'm sure someone will join u xx " Hard for guys to get into clubs i've heard. | |||
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"Ok since it's your first time here goes. 1. A face pic as a profile pic is a good start 2. Get rid of the cock shots n keep one to use privately for the people that ask to see it as they don't do much for most people, unread get a nice bod shot n bum shot that wot us ladies wanna see n gives us a bit of mystery 3. If u can't accom and want to be discreet an it is for a genuine reason of ur child say that so u don't get automatically written of as another cheating bloke 4. If u want I try clubs don't wait for a partner to go with go alone trust me u won't be the only one there a a single n everyone is friendly n understanding of the classic newbie nerves n it is the best way to get verified by an users. 5. Finally, pad out your profile by telling people about yourself n what ur likes and dislikes are yes u can tick them but discuss them too Hope that helps " YEah thats exactly the kindve post i was hoping to see, Cheers xx | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice Not sue how you can say that? Or accuse him of attitude? Advice is stop going on about not getting meets." And who are you to say what others can and cannot post on? If the guy had started countless threads on the topic you'd have a fair point but really the way you are replying reflects more on you than him... | |||
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"Not another thread from single guy complaining about not getting meets surely lol Surly this is the section where it says asking for others opinions/feedback why the hell would you be in this part if you dont want to be helpful? I know that, but there's about 3 threads already running with the same question. Here's some advice, all single guys should stop feeling sorry for themselfs." | |||
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"Hard for guys to get into clubs i've heard." Wrong. Single men aren't allowed in some clubs on some nights. Some clubs (Chams spring to mind) have a waiting list for single guys but even there you can get in on certain nights. Some clubs will charge disproportionally higher admission for single males. That's not exactly hard. | |||
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"Hard for guys to get into clubs i've heard. Wrong. Single men aren't allowed in some clubs on some nights. Some clubs (Chams spring to mind) have a waiting list for single guys but even there you can get in on certain nights. Some clubs will charge disproportionally higher admission for single males. That's not exactly hard. " Hard in the sense there is a waiting list etc | |||
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"Hard for guys to get into clubs i've heard. Wrong. Single men aren't allowed in some clubs on some nights. Some clubs (Chams spring to mind) have a waiting list for single guys but even there you can get in on certain nights. Some clubs will charge disproportionally higher admission for single males. That's not exactly hard. Hard in the sense there is a waiting list etc" ONE club has a waiting list... | |||
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"Hard for guys to get into clubs i've heard. Wrong. Single men aren't allowed in some clubs on some nights. Some clubs (Chams spring to mind) have a waiting list for single guys but even there you can get in on certain nights. Some clubs will charge disproportionally higher admission for single males. That's not exactly hard. Hard in the sense there is a waiting list etc ONE club has a waiting list... " I'm no expert never been to one, just repeating what i've been told. | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x " Good luck mate. I posted something like this a few weeks ago. Got some idiot remarks also but mostly positive ones that were very welcome. Altered my profile etc and Bang! A meet the next few days after. Stick with it mate. Good luck. P | |||
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"Now now boys! If your not going to be nice to each other, atleast get naked in a paddling pool full of trifle and sort it out that way " may consider paying to watch.... | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x No face pic, mentioning the word discreet and can't accommodate is not a great combination. Those that can accommodate will generally do much better than those that can't. 2 near identical cock pics. And the text of your profile is so bland it may as well say nothing. Gota agree. " | |||
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"Now now boys! If your not going to be nice to each other, atleast get naked in a paddling pool full of trifle and sort it out that way may consider paying to watch...." Glad someone else thinks it's a great idea, just think how many meets would turn up to watch lol x | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice Not sue how you can say that? Or accuse him of attitude? Advice is stop going on about not getting meets. And who are you to say what others can and cannot post on? If the guy had started countless threads on the topic you'd have a fair point but really the way you are replying reflects more on you than him..." Well said. My thoughts, as well. I think in general, the majority of us, do get a little tired of the same old threads appearing on here, but it's bound to keep happening, as new single guys join up, that aren't au fait with the site. We were all in that position at one time or another, remember. | |||
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"We were all in that position at one time or another, remember. " | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x " We're in Machester the first two weekends of January, we will definitely be in touch Amy x | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x " yes it is hard work... you get out what you put in... and that sometimes means showing that you are different to other people... giving people a reason to pick you as opposed to some else out there... a lot of those guys will have gone down the social route.... just chatting to people at the various socials across the country does open a lot of avenues that just a profile doesn't do... a lot of people will have gone to clubs, and again shown they are different (not the silent, say boo to a goose approach) and again, it opens up different avenues... so say to yourself... what have you done to stand out? the site does give you the tools to make it work.... it is about how many or how little you use those pieces... | |||
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"The best advice is to be yourself. If that doesn't get you meets then maybe swinging isn't for you." This ^^^^^^^^^^ right here is the single best piece of advise on FAB. I'd rather people didn't get advice as it makes it harder to spot the ones who can't write their own profile! Be yourself, you wont appeal to everyone, and you'll alienate some, but the ones that are still intrested will be better quality meets for you. Kate. | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice Not sue how you can say that? Or accuse him of attitude? Advice is stop going on about not getting meets. And who are you to say what others can and cannot post on? If the guy had started countless threads on the topic you'd have a fair point but really the way you are replying reflects more on you than him... Well said. My thoughts, as well. I think in general, the majority of us, do get a little tired of the same old threads appearing on here, but it's bound to keep happening, as new single guys join up, that aren't au fait with the site. We were all in that position at one time or another, remember. " | |||
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"The best advice is to be yourself. If that doesn't get you meets then maybe swinging isn't for you. This ^^^^^^^^^^ right here is the single best piece of advise on FAB. I'd rather people didn't get advice as it makes it harder to spot the ones who can't write their own profile! Be yourself, you wont appeal to everyone, and you'll alienate some, but the ones that are still intrested will be better quality meets for you. Kate. " I say the same thing as a single bloke and get slaughtered for saying it.... they then say something about not wanting competition ect ect ect... | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice " complaining about his thread is hardly giving advice, is it? | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x " OP - you have asked two questions:- And I doing something wrong? and am I uglier than average? Contributors can only answer the question(s) you have posed. Maybe if you asked if there was anything anyone could highlight - including your profile - where you could make improvements which might lead to a response, then we can possibly offer more constructive help. | |||
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"And what if the answer to both questions had been "yes"..,.not much help, eh?" Exactly...... | |||
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"Not another thread from single guy complaining about not getting meets surely lol Surly this is the section where it says asking for others opinions/feedback why the hell would you be in this part if you dont want to be helpful? I know that, but there's about 3 threads already running with the same question. Here's some advice, all single guys should stop feeling sorry for themselfs." | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice complaining about his thread is hardly giving advice, is it? " | |||
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"lol sounds lot fun miss julie at least if you were in pool with us " Us? Who invited you? Lol | |||
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"Hard for guys to get into clubs i've heard. Wrong. Single men aren't allowed in some clubs on some nights. Some clubs (Chams spring to mind) have a waiting list for single guys but even there you can get in on certain nights. Some clubs will charge disproportionally higher admission for single males. That's not exactly hard. Hard in the sense there is a waiting list etc ONE club has a waiting list... I'm no expert never been to one, just repeating what i've been told." There's plenty of clubs that let single guys in, just need to contact the club prior to your visit to be added to guest lists | |||
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"Anyway finally gotten round to a computer and have changed it around abit more x" Can't see much evidence that you have taken on board much - if any - of the advice all of the contributors to your thread have taken the time and trouble to offer... and you're wondering why you're not getting any interest...? Beginning to wonder why I bother contributing to threads like this - would be more productive banging my head against a rough cast wall... | |||
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"Anyway finally gotten round to a computer and have changed it around abit more x Can't see much evidence that you have taken on board much - if any - of the advice all of the contributors to your thread have taken the time and trouble to offer... and you're wondering why you're not getting any interest...? Beginning to wonder why I bother contributing to threads like this - would be more productive banging my head against a rough cast wall... " New profile looks as bad if not worse than the last with minimal effort put in. | |||
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"Well I'm trying to give you advice Not sue how you can say that? Or accuse him of attitude? Advice is stop going on about not getting meets. And who are you to say what others can and cannot post on? If the guy had started countless threads on the topic you'd have a fair point but really the way you are replying reflects more on you than him..." | |||
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"Anyway finally gotten round to a computer and have changed it around abit more x Can't see much evidence that you have taken on board much - if any - of the advice all of the contributors to your thread have taken the time and trouble to offer... and you're wondering why you're not getting any interest...? Beginning to wonder why I bother contributing to threads like this - would be more productive banging my head against a rough cast wall... " Make sure the wall is covered by your buildings insurance first | |||
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"Anyway finally gotten round to a computer and have changed it around abit more x" Also do a search through the introductions forum as this subject comes up all the time | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x We're in Machester the first two weekends of January, we will definitely be in touch Amy x " | |||
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"Hi guys ive been on here a while and have piks and am photo verified but dont seem to get any replies/interest am i doing somthing wrong or am i just uglier than the average guy on fab? x " i think that maybe it | |||
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"Hi Guys .... please wind your necks in the OP will not be the last person to raise this topic and yes those of us who frequent FORUMS do see these often The truth is that sex dating/swinging is all about connection and the likeable factor - those two are probably top of anyone "looking" list Its nothing personal- nor a dig on your manhood or looks or anything else specific about you; its as simple as us single men are in a "buyers market" and its not for us to chose who clicks with you ..... Agreed that efforts need to be made to promote yourself and you can do that by not advertising yourself - just be poliete - never pushy -and always turn up if you made commitment.. Happy Fabbing " What he said. | |||
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"Hard for guys to get into clubs i've heard. Wrong. Single men aren't allowed in some clubs on some nights. Some clubs (Chams spring to mind) have a waiting list for single guys but even there you can get in on certain nights. Some clubs will charge disproportionally higher admission for single males. That's not exactly hard. Hard in the sense there is a waiting list etc ONE club has a waiting list... I'm no expert never been to one, just repeating what i've been told." I see you are a shining example for us single guys... the OP asked for advice, clubs are not hard to get into. Don't believe everything you read or hear, Elvis is still alive and works in a chip shop near me | |||
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