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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here on and off for some time with no success.Please could some of the Women reading this have a look at my profile, and tell me where I'm going wrong.

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By *rgmrsmCouple
over a year ago

chrischurch

Maybe increase your age range

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Your pictures aren't enticing and your profile lacks info in what you can offer a potential meet nor your preferences or interests

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

I am going to be straight with you.

- You are an older gent. Your match pool will be statistically and significantly smaller than average.

Think of it this way. You can stand still in a dark room. Somebody might find you eventually.

Or

You can move about with you arms wide open continually searching for those around you.

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Online presence

- Your images do not do you justice. Sling on a nice suit comb the hair, stand tall, stand proud and smoulder.

- Your profile text should be exciting. What do you have to offer as an experience worldly gentleman.

- Be present. Interact in forums and chatrooms. Be seen. Be remembered for the right reasons.

Offline presence

- Be present. attend local social events and clubs. Be seen. Be remembered for the right reasons.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Realistically, your age range isn't going to work. I would suggest upping it from both ends.

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By *andamoCouple
over a year ago

thornton heath

Totally what Amelia said. Be yourself but if you're looking for a companion then this isn't the site for you. If you want to 'get involved' then get involved with the community. Otherwise if you just want to get laid then 'tinder' is an option.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You might want to think about your backgrounds more. In one photo you appear to be in a clinical setting and in the next it could be a morgue.

It's fair to say they are industrial ovens, but they are also very similar looking and made by the same company that a lot of crematoria use.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree with most, some better pics and the age range would be hugely off-putting for me.

Mrs

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I'm basically echoing other people's advice....

Make sure your photos are friendly, arty or exciting and a true representation of your current look (you look very different in some pics).

At 64 you'd happily meet an 18 year old but not a 63 year old? Each to their own, but it would put me off.

Your bio is like a shopping list. Try inject some personality!

Attend some local social events, it's always easier to 'sell yourself' face to face.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Most will find a 64 year old guy looking to meet 18 year olds a little bit creepy.

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