FabSwingers.com forum: Not having any luck :(

By *avink OP Man
over a year ago

wexford/waterford

Hey swingers, I've been on here for a while, I'm a genuine decent guy, but have had no luck meeting up with anyone, just wondering if you have any tips? Is it something to do with my profile? Or the fact I have no verifications? Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

There are loads of threads about this if you search. Fab is a Cockfest so unfortunately single men find it very difficult.

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By *avink OP Man
over a year ago

wexford/waterford

Ok thank you

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Ok thank you

Clubs are you best option to meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey swingers, I've been on here for a while, I'm a genuine decent guy, but have had no luck meeting up with anyone, just wondering if you have any tips? Is it something to do with my profile? Or the fact I have no verifications? Any advice would be appreciated.

Thanks

Can’t accommodate? That will put red flags up

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By *avink OP Man
over a year ago

wexford/waterford

Damn it I forgot to change that I can accomodate, thanks lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hi OP.

If you hope to meet from here, think of your profile as your shop window. At present it really just says "I'm a man who wants to have sex with a woman". There's nothing that would make someone stop and think they want to know more.

I'd also question whether you'd really want to meet a lady in her 90s...

If you're a social person, you'll have a much better chance at a club.

Nita

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By *avink OP Man
over a year ago

wexford/waterford

Thanks Nita. I'm completely new to this scene, so unaware of where are the best clubs etc to go, but thanks for the advice

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By *onBurgundy99Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Get to a club, be friendly and make an effort to say hello to hosts. Get a verification or two from that.

One way to see clubs near you go to 'Club Reviews' section on here, it's categorised by area.

Good luck, also send face pic on your first message, (i write in subject face pic inside) or something like that if you see / read a profile that you're interested by. Irrespective how your message is, women on here get absolutely hounded by guys, so you'll likely be swept aside without one. And 99.9% of time, dont send a pic of your tackle.

Good luck fellow single brother

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Thanks Nita. I'm completely new to this scene, so unaware of where are the best clubs etc to go, but thanks for the advice"

There is a whole section on here that has all the clubs on

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

OP the odds on this site are incredibly against single men.

Don't take personally even well verified guys struggle to get meets here.

Clubs and socials can be a way forward but bear in mind the former is also very trick.

If you are shy, cannot approach couples to initiate a conversation and does not understand clubs etiquette you are likely to be disappointed.

Also you need to find the right club they are not all the same trust me, I visited quite a few before finding out the ones I feel welcome and people attending have a lot in common with me.

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By *odKnowsImGoodMan
over a year ago

Harpenden

Same problem with me -

I get

Loads

Action and

Great

Feedback but this site - zero - think it’s a women’s world - lol

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By *amspoonsMan
over a year ago

North East

Mate theres thousands of men on here. Couples and women are spoilt for choice. Unless you are truly exceptional or very lucky, you are out of luck.

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By *amieLDN22Man
over a year ago

London

This site is geared towards couples and women and that's the truth. Its pretty much a shit sandwich for the single male. You'd fair much better in clubs - check out the reviews section.

I dont message people anymore bc its a massive waste for the little time I have free every week to spend messaging people. I'm naturally a shy person anyway and find it easier to actually talk to people face to face rather send awkward back and forth messages saying cringe, awful stuff.

I spend my time just searching Meets/clubs/parties or just reading the Forum which is good entertainment for me. And I'm pretty much happy with that. Occasionally someone will say hi and that's when you get to work. You have to make the most of the sandwich.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"This site is geared towards couples and women and that's the truth. Its pretty much a shit sandwich for the single male. You'd fair much better in clubs - check out the reviews section.

You seem to be doing better than most of us single guys on here..... You have actually had a meet.

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