FabSwingers.com forum: Does our profile put you off (couples)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Looks fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile seems ok.

The fact your only looking for doing last minute meets (whilst fine if that's how you roll) will stop a significant percentage of couples been able to meet you.

Especially couples like ourselves who have children. Due to childcare needs we have to plan any adventures at the very least a few days in advance.

The lets me now / in the next hour or 2 as we are horny / in the mood tends to work better with single guys a, due to the sheer numbers of them and b, many will have the lifestyle flexibility to allow them to meet at short notice.

Just to add we have been swinging pre children and post children as a couple so are speaking from our experiences.

Good luck on your adventures xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Profile seems ok.

The fact your only looking for doing last minute meets (whilst fine if that's how you roll) will stop a significant percentage of couples been able to meet you.

Especially couples like ourselves who have children. Due to childcare needs we have to plan any adventures at the very least a few days in advance.

Just to add we have been swinging pre children and post children as a couple so are speaking from our experiences.

Good luck on your adventures xx

KJ "

We'll have add that we can plan ahead too x

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

The only thing we can see is you guys are to far away from us

Seriously it looks good

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By *estlands4Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

As a guy (who I appreciate you’re not after) but then one thing that could raise a query is that you’ve only been verified by 1 guy 6 months ago presumably when you set the profile up & as you’re after couples or a female some may think you’re one of those mainly it’s the male couples of which there are lots on here…

Just making the point as you were asking for constructive criticism…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a guy (who I appreciate you’re not after) but then one thing that could raise a query is that you’ve only been verified by 1 guy 6 months ago presumably when you set the profile up & as you’re after couples or a female some may think you’re one of those mainly it’s the male couples of which there are lots on here…

Just making the point as you were asking for constructive criticism…"

We dropped the old profile during lockdown when the site became full of dreamers and attention seekers , the old one was running for 6 year ,we now tend to pick up and drop the profile when needed , fab and the lifestyle can and does take over you social life if you let it, so we agreed this time around to be a bit more chilled ..lol

But thanks x

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

Xx "

No, there is nothing that puts me off.

Him x

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Nothing puts us off x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

No, there is nothing that puts me off.

Him x"

Thanks ....the reason behind asking is we get a lot of couples taking a look at us and then again but dont message ,

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Nope nothing wrong there x

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

No, there is nothing that puts me off.

Him x

Thanks ....the reason behind asking is we get a lot of couples taking a look at us and then again but dont message , "

Nope, there is nothing off putting x

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Looks great to us. We couldn't do last minute due to distance. Other than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good to us.

Honestly, reading the forums and seeing so many opposing views on what a profile should look like, I think you just have to go with what you are happy with and if it attracts less people but you get what you want then it’s all good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Looks good to us.

Very true ...lets face it we are here for fun and not to become performing dogs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

No, there is nothing that puts me off.

Maybe they are intimidated buy ur beautiy and both or ur sex appeal... i as asingle man (not ur target demographic) saw ur body and thought well id never hae a shot hahaha ur smoking hot xx

But ur profile is mint

Him x

Thanks ....the reason behind asking is we get a lot of couples taking a look at us and then again but dont message , "

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

The last minute meets comment would be a game changer as we need some degree of planning and find many couples the same.

No verifications would make us be a little cautious although not the end of the world.

Other than that it’s ok.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

Xx "

The only thing is your lack of verifications, we only reply if we can see some verifications from others that are verified.

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By *urreyNotSoNewbiesCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Lack of recent veris, not a lot of profile info.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

The only thing that would put us off is the lack of veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We understand the above comments ,like we said before we arent new , just a bit more casual this time round , not in a rush to fill the veris up, to be honest its a bit off putting seeing lots of veris , as for lack of info on the profile ,we like to be straight forward , but thanks its all good stuff and by the looks of it theres nothing wrong

Just thought we'd ask incase there was something we'd missed . X

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"We understand the above comments ,like we said before we arent new , just a bit more casual this time round , not in a rush to fill the veris up, to be honest its a bit off putting seeing lots of veris , as for lack of info on the profile ,we like to be straight forward , but thanks its all good stuff and by the looks of it theres nothing wrong

Just thought we'd ask incase there was something we'd missed . X"

You don't need to rush getting veris, but they will massively increase your chances of getting meets. We assume our amount of veris aren't off putting as you winked us three weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just thought we'd ask incase there was something we'd missed . X

You don't need to rush getting veris, but they will massively increase your chances of getting meets. We assume our amount of veris aren't off putting as you winked us three weeks ago

And you didnt wink back ...lol

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Not your target audience but.

You have 3 public and 50 private photos.

Can you not add a few more public so people can get a sense of who you are.

Your bio wording could do with some work.

You can say you prefer short notice meets, but can plan ahead if the connection is there.

I dislike the “single guys we will find you” line. It may be the truth, but just use message filters if needed. It smacks of entitlement.

Your bio doesn’t give much away about what you both like and can offer to others.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Just thought we'd ask incase there was something we'd missed . X

You don't need to rush getting veris, but they will massively increase your chances of getting meets. We assume our amount of veris aren't off putting as you winked us three weeks ago

And you didnt wink back ...lol "

We definitely would have if you had a few good veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's a good profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

Xx "

Nope great looking profile

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Looks good to me, the only thing for us would be the don't plan meets, having small kids we can't do that that's the only reason we'd pass.

Mrs

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

No looks fine to me. I seen alot of profiles with off putting stuff. Maybe abit more information about what you like in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that profile pic is you, and I don’t doubt it is, it’s eye catchingly sexy and I’d imagine you are inundated! Good way to get yourself seen by posting in the forum though. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing we find off putting is the lack of feedbacks (veris, what ever they're called). We don't have many ourselves as we haven't swung much in the year or so since we started.

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

If we were not picking because you asked:

No veri’s showing.

No photos of you together.

Who is who I.e. is male or female bi?

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

Nothing off putting at all ....again as some have mentioned it would be the last minute meets as we have a family and you're so far away so our meets would need to be planned

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

See you have swinging clubs in your interests so maybe that's best way to go .. hope I bump into you both one day

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

profile is fine nothing to put anyone off at all as for last minute meets i think the majority of swinging couples meet this way ..it dont seem like that because of the forums but thats such a tiny tiny part of the scene most of the couples we know and have meet over the many year are mostly spontaneous meet .ers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong with your profile

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

Xx "
i am not a couple but the 2 female pics are stunning,,,

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I can’t comment as a couple as I’m a single but I have to say you have one of the best profile names on here

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off ?

Xx "

Not really.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Just your distance from us

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

It's not great. Not terrible. But wouldn't bother putting any effort into meeting you as barely any pics and veris.

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By *arren and AliciaCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Profile looks ok we feel we have the same problem only thing I know is wrong with ours is not many photos of hubby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single bloke it looks fine, if you were lookong for a last minute meet and I was free I would send a message for you to then roundly ignore

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We like what we see but private meets are just to much hard work!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Just a quick question to other couples, when looking ar our profile is there something that put you off?"

Could do with a few more pics and a clearer one of the guy. Lack of verifications after six months might make us doubtful.

Specifically due to the way we play, we'd be unsure if you'd both be happy playing with just Char while Bry watched, as Bry doesn't play with other women.

(Bry)

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By *otyorkshire01Couple
over a year ago

Perth, Australia

Profile looks good to us

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Theirs nothing off putting but at the same time nothing that would make us want to message you.

Very little info and only the 3 pics on show ..

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Your profile reads well, if we were able to do last minute meets and our interests match we would approach you.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Looks good just distance

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

The last minute wouldn’t work for us but you have stated you can arrange in advance also. Your profile name is brilliant and would definitely appeal to us although we’re some distance away. We also prefer lots of photos that clearly show both people with couple profiles.

C x

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

There’s nothing there that would put us off, but…

There’s also nothing there that would pique our interest either. Not many photos and not really a lot about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice profile , the only thing we don't like is dick pics. Do prefer sexy underwear shots

, but that's what we like and not necessarily other couples on here .

It's an A form us xx

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By *urreyNotSoNewbiesCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"There’s nothing there that would put us off, but…

There’s also nothing there that would pique our interest either. Not many photos and not really a lot about you."

This

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We always try to ensure that our profile updated regularly and that our photos show a little of what we like. It’s our way of ‘selling ourselves’ to like-minded potential playmates.

It’s also the reason why we often load new photos to help attract attention x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dont get us wrong we get plenty of couples wanting to meet , its the ones who keep looking but never message that confusing x

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Dont get us wrong we get plenty of couples wanting to meet , its the ones who keep looking but never message that confusing x "

Maybe they just like looking at your pictures?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont get us wrong we get plenty of couples wanting to meet , its the ones who keep looking but never message that confusing x "

Maybe they fear rejection or you're not what they're looking for, or not what they're looking for right now.

Sometimes it's just one of a couple online and they won't message until they're with thier partner and we'll, we all know how profile's can get lost in the noise here.

We get lots of looks with no message, doesn't put us off though.

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

For most folk your profile is simple and straightforward which is fine. Nice tasteful pics.

Maybe a bit light on info, while for many younger folk (under 50) meeting at short notice can be tricky.

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By *incs2someCouple
over a year ago

cleethorpes

one of the sexiest profiles on here.would love to meet up sometime.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is only our opinion and take no offence. Rather see possible improvements.

Lack of public pictures. The few girl pics, great, would prefer more. One pic of a flaccid dick? Not so great.

When we look at couples, we look for well kept couples and judge the male as much as the lady. If we were to meet and swap with a couple, we both have to like the girl and the man.

Nothing turns us off more than a single flaccid penis picture. Usually the girl is presented beautifully but the male isn't. I think both are equally as important.

Perhaps it's your thing, last minute meets but there isn't much to go by really from the bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks great - hot pics of you both good info…. What’s not to like! Only thing is lack of location but otherwise fab!!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Only thing puts me off is no singles guys lol.

Great picts and would definitely want to meet if you wanted guys.

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

You have a nice profile, nothing that would put us off.

Don’t get too disheartened, lots of us like to ‘window shop’ on here, but it would be virtually impossible to meet everyone on here that you liked the look of, be happy that your profile is actually getting so many views.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

OP disappeared again. He's been coming and going using the same pics for 5 years, always with one verification from a Man.

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