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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's a scam and only need a man for the child then boom it doesn't happen over night it's pre planned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a scam and only need a man for the child then boom it doesn't happen over night it's pre planned "

Oh that's their game is it, crafty

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

An awful lot more who don't.

Sexuality is fluid to an extent. And when single, people may be available and more open to other partners and interests they had, whilst inside relationships

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can honestly say I haven't seen one woman on here who has become bi or lesbian because of a bad relationship. I really must pay more attention

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn? "

They have a bad experience and want to try something new?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can honestly say I haven't seen one woman on here who has become bi or lesbian because of a bad relationship. I really must pay more attention "

Yes you must, and stop looking at cock all day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An awful lot more who don't.

Sexuality is fluid to an extent. And when single, people may be available and more open to other partners and interests they had, whilst inside relationships "

Without being disgusting, explain what you mean by "fluid".

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

We wear trousers too often..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been bi-sexual it's not because of any bad relationships. I've dated women obviously but I do prefer to date men but love having sex with women. Maybe the right woman will come in and I could go the distance with her.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I had terrible time with men...but i could never eat vag and love cock too much. Now i just want alot of cock to keep my sexual appetite alive

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I think women who always been bi or lesbo has suppressed it thinking it's better life being with men and realising being with a man wasn't compatible. So they want to see if being lesbian works better.

But the treatment some people give definitely makes one think the other sex could be better.

I physically just can't go with women. My brain is too hard wired to be sexually attracted to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this an assumption based upon rejection messages?

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By *rincess Peach xxCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn? "

Is this how you justify rejection to yourself?

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By *rincess Peach xxCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Is this an assumption based upon rejection messages? "

Ahh you beat me to it haha

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By *ewisbi76Man
over a year ago

west edinburgh

its absolutely true. theres a lot of press atm about "late life lesbians".

The most recent office for national statistics survey found that 11.5% of women under 24 say they are gay/bi but for women in age brackets over 24 only 1% say they are. (May this year reported in the Guardian)

Thats a massive difference, partly due to changes in social expectations i think, and it suggests that a fair number of older women might at least be bi if they had their time over again.

Heres the opening paragraph from a womens magazine article i recently read "Crushing on a woman can be amazing, and sexuality is fluid, so it's pretty common for anyone — no matter where they fall on the sexuality spectrum — to feel attraction toward someone of the same gender". You would never have read a mainstream article like that even 10 years ago, women seem much more open to this change than men.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn? "

Or just lose trust in men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say I’ve ever seen a woman’s profile saying that and I look at a LOT of them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this an assumption based upon rejection messages? "

No, I just wanted to see what whacky answers you lot came up with

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I can honestly say I haven't seen one woman on here who has become bi or lesbian because of a bad relationship. I really must pay more attention "

Same here

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn? "

They realise men are useless in grand scheme of things and flock to the poontang for salvation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn?

They realise men are useless in grand scheme of things and flock to the poontang for salvation. "

But you're a man

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn? "

And how did you come to that decision. Yes you made it up either to get attention or your angry because no one will meet you or you just like being a dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn?

And how did you come to that decision. Yes you made it up either to get attention or your angry because no one will meet you or you just like being a dick"

Oh I'm not angry baby, I'm not meeting anyone on here, I've avoided Covid19 so far, I don't want to risk catching any other nasty infections. If anyones angry, it's you, keep up the good work, it's very entertaining

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

I think about 90% of women are bi , my wife didn’t find her bi side until we started swinging , she loves boobs now , and just as happy licking or being licked as she is with fucking guys

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn?

And how did you come to that decision. Yes you made it up either to get attention or your angry because no one will meet you or you just like being a dick

Oh I'm not angry baby, I'm not meeting anyone on here, I've avoided Covid19 so far, I don't want to risk catching any other nasty infections. If anyones angry, it's you, keep up the good work, it's very entertaining "

You best leave then

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I honestly thought this thread must have been started by an 18-year old. (No offence meant to any 18-year olds, but obviously I would not have assumed younger.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn?

And how did you come to that decision. Yes you made it up either to get attention or your angry because no one will meet you or you just like being a dick

Oh I'm not angry baby, I'm not meeting anyone on here, I've avoided Covid19 so far, I don't want to risk catching any other nasty infections. If anyones angry, it's you, keep up the good work, it's very entertaining "

Viscious bile wrapped up in denial.

Think I was right about those rejections

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd say that most of the bisexual/bicurious women on here ,identified as such long before they joined fab.

I've seen many state it's the main reason they're here to explore with other women.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I think about 90% of women are bi , my wife didn’t find her bi side until we started swinging , she loves boobs now , and just as happy licking or being licked as she is with fucking guys "

That's the thinking of a fab guy

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn? "
if what you say is true there would be a lot fewer straight women left in the world.

I have never met a woman who has turned gay or bisexual due to a bad relationship with a man. People don't choose to be heterosexual, gay, or bisexual.

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By *lue NoteMan
over a year ago

Chertsey


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn? "

The exact same can be said of men. I think it's more a case that once either gender has experienced the lifestyle, yours likely to be more fluid with one's sexuality. I'd never have considered or entertained the thought of becoming bi curious in the past. That said, that's a stretch from actually becoming bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be an awful lot of women on here who have had a bad marriage/relationship and then suddenly turn lesbian/bisexual...how does that work, do they go to a conversion therapist, or just watch lots of lesbo porn?

The exact same can be said of men. I think it's more a case that once either gender has experienced the lifestyle, yours likely to be more fluid with one's sexuality. I'd never have considered or entertained the thought of becoming bi curious in the past. That said, that's a stretch from actually becoming bisexual"

Exactly this.

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