FabSwingers.com forum: Premature Ejaculation and Edging

By *erces Letifer OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

So then, fellas, who wants to be able to last longer than they currently do?

Ladies, who wants blokes to be able to last longer than they currently do?

I've read/heard that edging while masturbating is the cure. So, masturbate until you feel yourself getting close, then stop. Wait a few moments/minutes. And repeat.

Anyone with any experience doing this? Did it work? Did it not? Anyone know of any other tools or techniques to help guys last longer??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can edge for a couple of hours soaking with pre cum then a massive load of cum, I can repeat it’s the first massive cum I need to unload then ready to go and last much longer I’ve tried to train myself with the mrs it depends on how excited I get and who with makes a difference

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I edge guys

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

This is all good,but please guys remember a minority of us actually like and enjoy quick cummers, so don't necessarily assume it's a problem..

I actually struggle with guys who go on and on ( start thinking about what I want from Lidl after a while lol).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is all good,but please guys remember a minority of us actually like and enjoy quick cummers, so don't necessarily assume it's a problem..

I actually struggle with guys who go on and on ( start thinking about what I want from Lidl after a while lol).

Other supermarkets are available

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By *eardedDad03Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"This is all good,but please guys remember a minority of us actually like and enjoy quick cummers, so don't necessarily assume it's a problem..

I actually struggle with guys who go on and on ( start thinking about what I want from Lidl after a while lol).

Especially the fresh cooked pastries

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I do edging all the time. Creates intense orgasms when they're ready to cum.

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By *eardedDad03Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"So then, fellas, who wants to be able to last longer than they currently do?

Ladies, who wants blokes to be able to last longer than they currently do?

I've read/heard that edging while masturbating is the cure. So, masturbate until you feel yourself getting close, then stop. Wait a few moments/minutes. And repeat.

Anyone with any experience doing this? Did it work? Did it not? Anyone know of any other tools or techniques to help guys last longer??

Purely for research purposes... *gets clipboard ready*

Yeah, I do this almost every meet before and during. It still all depends how excited and horny I am! I can normally repeat straight away and last much longer. I’ve been using cock rings recently and they have worked to such.

Emla numbing cream is amazing to use as well during foreplay. Put it on your sensitive spots and it totally numbs you for a little while.

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By *eardedDad03Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"I do edging all the time. Creates intense orgasms when they're ready to cum."

The building up makes my cum much more heavier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Edging is amazing, I’m doing it right now as I have a look on here, I’m desperate to cum but it feels so good edging myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that I didn't have a choice but to try medication, priligy I found worked wonders for me

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By *etsplay1250Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Their are de sensitizing sprays that also work , I use one , simple but effect and you only need apply before sex

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By *eardedDad03Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

"I found that I didn't have a choice but to try medication, priligy I found worked wonders for me"

With priligy how long do you seem to last now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I edge all the time i rarwlt just wank but when i edhe for a few hours i have a huge huge cum shot and can repeat but down side is its made it harder to cum during sex and not sure if anyone else has fpund this but had women complain i take to long to cum

But love edging doing it now

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

Our friend is an ‘Expert’ in giving advice for the sufferers of premature ejaculation. So much so that he decided to offer his services by way of a lecture at the Town Hall last Saturday night , 8.00 pm, for all the men in the Leamington Spa area suffering from this very embarrassing condition !

But when he got there though - there was nobody there.

They’d all come on the Friday night !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Managed over 20 mins of penetration and loads of foreplay

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By *ifemale32GGWoman
over a year ago

Telford

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By *ifemale32GGWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Boom boom

"Our friend is an ‘Expert’ in giving advice for the sufferers of premature ejaculation. So much so that he decided to offer his services by way of a lecture at the Town Hall last Saturday night , 8.00 pm, for all the men in the Leamington Spa area suffering from this very embarrassing condition !

But when he got there though - there was nobody there.

They’d all come on the Friday night !!!

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I being doing it for 3 hours so far

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"I being doing it for 3 hours so far"

Too much time on your hands

Boom boom.

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By *erces Letifer OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"I can edge for a couple of hours soaking with pre cum then a massive load of cum, I can repeat it’s the first massive cum I need to unload then ready to go and last much longer I’ve tried to train myself with the mrs it depends on how excited I get and who with makes a difference"

So, would you say that edging makes your initial load bigger and make you able to go again straight after? And is this in addition to, or instead of being able to last longer during penetration? When you say you've tried to train yourself, does that mean that edging hasn't improved how long you last, ultimately? Personally I've struggled before with going a second time straight away, as it can be too sensitive and even painful after the second ejaculation.

"I edge guys"

That's nice... but does it help them with lasting longer/premature ejaculation? This is the point of the thread.

"This is all good,but please guys remember a minority of us actually like and enjoy quick cummers, so don't necessarily assume it's a problem..

I actually struggle with guys who go on and on ( start thinking about what I want from Lidl after a while lol)."

Sometimes, you can come across a particular thread that just isn't for you, y'know?

"I do edging all the time. Creates intense orgasms when they're ready to cum."

From your experience, has it gone on to help guys last longer during penetration? Or is it just increased orgasm intensity for that moment/session?

"Yeah, I do this almost every meet before and during. It still all depends how excited and horny I am! I can normally repeat straight away and last much longer. I’ve been using cock rings recently and they have worked to such.

Emla numbing cream is amazing to use as well during foreplay. Put it on your sensitive spots and it totally numbs you for a little while."

So, would you say that the edging actually gives you more/some control over how fast you cum initially? Or the cock rings/emla cream? Personally I'm not keen on the idea of using numbing creams, as A) I want to still feel all the lovely sensations and B) have in the past lost my erection completely when putting a condom on that had a numbing agent in the tip.

"I edge all the time i rarwlt just wank but when i edhe for a few hours i have a huge huge cum shot and can repeat but down side is its made it harder to cum during sex and not sure if anyone else has fpund this but had women complain i take to long to cum"

Interesting...

Would you say that it's gone past the point of giving you more control/say in how fast you cum initially to the point of finding it too hard to ejaculate? And this is because of edging? If so, would you say you edge a lot/all the time? I'm really looking for ways to give me more control, but not less control in the opposite direction.

"Managed over 20 mins of penetration and loads of foreplay"

This sounds great, but needs more context. Do you edge? Would you say this helps with how long you last? Or is it something else you do (any other tools/tips), perhaps? Also, did the lady appreciate over 20 minutes of penetration? Or did she get sore/bored sooner than that? Sharing information is the goal of the thread.

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By *onMashMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

I generally edge when on my own staying away with work. I can edge for hours, plenty of pre cum though albeit my ejaculation is huge and heavy with plenty of cum the sensation is not as strong.if I then repeat and masterbate harder and faster, my ejaculation is mind blowing, strong and shoots as its not as thick therefore the slow edging process is sexually mind stimulating and the flip side hard fast masterbation is a sensation from the scrotum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was on anti depressants they make you last way longer. It took me 30-45 mins to cum non stop, no edging. Not recommended cos my dick was sore lol. Sometimes it’s good to cum sooner. Guys who say they last hours must be sore and the poor woman too

You could cum before sex and that should make longer.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"This is all good,but please guys remember a minority of us actually like and enjoy quick cummers, so don't necessarily assume it's a problem..

I actually struggle with guys who go on and on ( start thinking about what I want from Lidl after a while lol).

This^^

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

I trained himself to last for hours through edging technique! It does work but you need to persist for it to be effective

Xx missy

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By *heelofTimeCouple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

"This is all good,but please guys remember a minority of us actually like and enjoy quick cummers, so don't necessarily assume it's a problem..

I actually struggle with guys who go on and on ( start thinking about what I want from Lidl after a while lol).

Hehe this is very true we met a couple a few years back and she took offence that himself couldn’t cum quickly for her. My bad as I prefer long sessions. Post that meet we had to work on techniques for quickies lol

Xx missy

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By *acko452Man
over a year ago

maldon

I started edging myself and last for days. I did have an online goddess who would give me tasks and dictated when I cum. I’d love a new mistress

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By *lueeyeseyesblueMan
over a year ago

sidcup

Cock ring works wonders.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"When I was on anti depressants they make you last way longer. It took me 30-45 mins to cum non stop, no edging. Not recommended cos my dick was sore lol. Sometimes it’s good to cum sooner. Guys who say they last hours must be sore and the poor woman too

You could cum before sex and that should make longer. "

Yes, about the tablets, but not all of us are repeaters.

More time on foreplay might help.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"When I was on anti depressants they make you last way longer. It took me 30-45 mins to cum non stop, no edging. Not recommended cos my dick was sore lol."

Also not recommended because research had shown that anti-depressants can lead to long-term erectile dysfunction.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Edging only works if you apply the same principles (controlled breathing, pc muscle control) that you use when edging, to when you are having sex.

You’d sooner see results using a cock ring and/or desensitizing sprays or gels.

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

Numbing cream would help

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Guys... Wanna know a secret?

Women aren't that bothered if you can last for hours!! In fact, a few rounds over the same amount of time is just as good if not better.

Honestly, don't torment yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could cum before sex and that should make longer.

Yes, about the tablets, but not all of us are repeaters.

More time on foreplay might help."

No, you’re right. Yeah use toys or oral/fingers so they can get off too. Shows you care about their needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was on anti depressants they make you last way longer. It took me 30-45 mins to cum non stop, no edging. Not recommended cos my dick was sore lol.

Also not recommended because research had shown that anti-depressants can lead to long-term erectile dysfunction."

well I’m glad I wasn’t on them long term

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By *un Times 1Man
over a year ago

coventry

Just Ejaculate when you are ready. If it’s quick or long, don’t get hung up about it.

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By *ave sean 83Man
over a year ago

Douglas

practising in real life is better,,you find that certain positions help it/hinder it,,personally the more graphic it is,,the harder it is to edge properly,,but if shes on top,,or missionary its quite easy...

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"So then, fellas, who wants to be able to last longer than they currently do?

Ladies, who wants blokes to be able to last longer than they currently do?

I've read/heard that edging while masturbating is the cure. So, masturbate until you feel yourself getting close, then stop. Wait a few moments/minutes. And repeat.

Anyone with any experience doing this? Did it work? Did it not? Anyone know of any other tools or techniques to help guys last longer??

Purely for research purposes... *gets clipboard ready*

This is a regular practice for me during self play and has been for a while, wouldn’t say it’s made a difference to intercourse as I’ve never suffered from premature ejaculation before. It does however make climaxing soooo much more intense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv not found it helps but love edging do it nearly every day I like to get so close to cumming that I cum a bit then put it on my finger and lick it off

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"Iv not found it helps but love edging do it nearly every day I like to get so close to cumming that I cum a bit then put it on my finger and lick it off "
when I'm edging a guy I love it when he spits a bit of spunk , show's he's really riding the edge

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