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By *enj08475 OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton

Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I imagine those that have regrets are somewhat less likely to still be on the site to answer this for you.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I have no regrets since joining it's been fantastic hence still here years later

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By *oleinone200Man
over a year ago

leeds

None! Love it

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

From what I've heard people tend to regret the things they didn't do more than those that they did.

Having said that, this could be quite a big step/change in your relationship that will have lasting effects (whether it's continued or not). So, lots of honest and open conversations together about what you both really want, and maybe taking some baby steps/dipping of the toes in the water as you progress.

Good luck!

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"

You've been asking this question for a year now. Why so many posts from you on the same topic?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"

Following your green arrow or does seem like your not too sure, if you are a jealous type or not 100% then don't do it.

Mrs

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"

My view is I would rather regret trying it than later saying I wish I had tried it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We agreed that it was just sex and approach this as a couple, so no regrets.

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes but maybe not the kind you are thinking of.

There were situations in our swinging life where moments happened where we could have done even more extreme and more kinky things but hesitated. And the opportunity passes

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By *rincess Peach xxCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"

I don’t believe you serious

Join as a couple if you are.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"Yes but maybe not the kind you are thinking of.

There were situations in our swinging life where moments happened where we could have done even more extreme and more kinky things but hesitated. And the opportunity passes"

Never say never! New opportunities may yet arise...

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Both of you need to be sure this is what you want. Once you have done it can be very addictive for some.

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By *alverncpleCouple
over a year ago

malvern

Only regret was all the wasted time worrying about feelings etc

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

None

You should just go for it ,the longer you spend pondering on it,the less likely you'll ever do anything about it op.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

No regrets but some things/meets not to be repeated and lessons learnt.

Only advice we have been given and pass on freely. Set your own boundries listern and talk to one another only agree if you are both on the same page all if this before any meeting. That will mean neither of you take one for the team and reduce the risk of not having fun.

So enjoy the adventure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi myself and wife considering swi nging/cuckokding and wondered if anyone has had any regrets since starting?"

46 weeks ago you asked the same question, people tried to help you then and you're still asking time and again.

I struggle to know what you're looking to accomplish.

By now you should have a couple's profile and take it at both of your paces, that'll be my advice.

Good luck

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By *andC1000Couple
over a year ago

Ashford


"No regrets but some things/meets not to be repeated and lessons learnt.

Only advice we have been given and pass on freely. Set your own boundries listern and talk to one another only agree if you are both on the same page all if this before any meeting. That will mean neither of you take one for the team and reduce the risk of not having fun.

So enjoy the adventure."

actually talk to each other and don’t carry on behind the others back if you’ve any self respect or respect for them. Communication is key and will probably open more doors for you if you put the effort in instead of hiding on here keep asking the same question as others have commented on.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

With the exception of having our time wasted by absolute wankers we have (so far) had no regrets about the fun we have had.

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

Only regret is the fucks we missed out on and we've been playing for all 30 years of our married life

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By *ife has permissionCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

My only regret is that myself and hubby didn't open up to each other sooner!!!

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By *othornymarriedcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

As many have said before, we wish we had done it sooner

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

My only regret that wish I didn't wait 9 months before exploring what I had come across and joined

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Heathrow

No regrets other than not having enough time to swing!

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