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By *uriouscouple21 OP   Man
over a year ago

reading

Anyone got any tips/ help to make me last longer? Got a delay spray wich works well but would like to last a while without any sprays etc?

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By *uttyMan
over a year ago

Local to you maybe

Not all about how long you can last though. Use other parts of your body, fingers, tongue during play as opposed to just thrusting in and finishing lol

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

It's not a race, it's a dance

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By *neplusserMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

My advice would be to go down on her till you feel like the erge to cum has died down.

If thats not for you then apparently if you squeeze just under the tip before cumming youre supposed to last a little longer (dont know how true that is though).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

buy a rowing machine and sit in front of the tv and row for hours.

builds great stamina

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Anyone got any tips/ help to make me last longer? Got a delay spray wich works well but would like to last a while without any sprays etc?"
how quick are u exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its 20 seconds there really is no hope!

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Practice edging....nearly cum...stop...nearly cum stop..nearly cum..oops....sowee....(put kettle on)

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

There's a spot at the base of the cock which if pressed firmly just before you are about to cum makes it impossible to shoot. It is a trial and error thing though, as if you do it fractionally too late you cum.

And if you do it too many times you can't cum.

But worth exploring with a friend.

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By *uriouscouple21 OP   Man
over a year ago

reading

Thanks will try that, varies sometimes really some times will be normal over an hour others its minutes tried the stop and wait etc, quite frustrating and after I've cum there's no urge for me to carry on

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i wouldnt say an hour is normal anyway if guys are being honest prob more like ten 15mins if its intercorse i cld go all day wth oral bt as soon as i enter a pussy i cum fairly quick nt seconds bt mayb 10 mins bt i get hard again quickly a small break and im good to go again and the more times u cum the longer u start to last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can maintain an erection for an hour maybe, but surely not penetrative sex for an hour?! Unless being deliberately slow/tantric that's no fun for anyone! Sore!

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By *uriouscouple21 OP   Man
over a year ago

reading

Can maintain an erection for ages and do foreplay for hours just any penatrive sex and that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can maintain an erection for ages and do foreplay for hours just any penatrive sex and that's it"

Well don't bother putting it in until she feels satisfied; after which I'm sure she'll want you to feel the same ...some women find it extremely flattering if you come quickly after penetrating her - just make sure she's fully satisfied first

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By *uriouscouple21 OP   Man
over a year ago

reading

Nope unfortunately she likes it hard and fast for a long time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope unfortunately she likes it hard and fast for a long time lol"

What do you like? Don't forget there's two in a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope unfortunately she likes it hard and fast for a long time lol

What do you like? Don't forget there's two in a relationship? "

It's a rhetorical question by the way ...I don't actually want to know what you like by the way lol

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By *uriouscouple21 OP   Man
over a year ago

reading

Yea I doing it hard and fast just can't go long enough like it :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always experiment with the old 'tactical wank' technique...... I've heard that this can be very successful for stamina but has the downside of a significant decrease in 'load size' for the main event.

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't quite understand why anyone would who could go for 'minutes' let alone an hour would imagine there was an issue. It maybe seems like exaggeration but for us 3-30 seconds would be about it. We tried longer lasting condoms and they DO work. Problem is they must rely on an aenasthetic so the wee wifey is thinking 'is something happening?' Bit counter productive really. Ho hum.

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"I don't quite understand why anyone would who could go for 'minutes' let alone an hour would imagine there was an issue. It maybe seems like exaggeration but for us 3-30 seconds would be about it. We tried longer lasting condoms and they DO work. Problem is they must rely on an aenasthetic so the wee wifey is thinking 'is something happening?' Bit counter productive really. Ho hum."

3 secs?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a race, it's a dance"

Ditto xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope unfortunately she likes it hard and fast for a long time lol"

Do you let your mind wander? If I feel I'm going to cum soon and she's enjoying it I just let my mind wander for a bit. It makes me less aware of what I'm doing long enough to push back any orgasm and then I can get back to enjoying what I'm doing all over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just been put on new medication by my doctor and one of the side-effects is increased stamina. I'm not one to brag but after an hour of pounding away....I give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my own personal exprience

a tight cock ring works wonders and stops you coming quick

Give it a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you wee, stop yourself weeing using no hands. Then start,then stop. The muscles you learn to control doing that are the same for cumming.

Also the pulling out trick squeeze the end works too.

But all takes time to learn

However...

For many they may find it a compliment.

Happy thrusting.

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By *ing_masterMan
over a year ago

Pattaya

Try thinking of the football results!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience,a lot depended on how regularly i was having sex,with exs if we were having regular daily sex i lasted much longer,not because it wasn't good,just seemed more in control.if your having sex infrequently this may have a bearing?the fact your wanting to last longer and are eager to please should lead to success.in short my advice is do it much and as vigorously as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Viagra helps but its just a mental thing. If you keep thinking 'dont cum, dont cum' your thinking about cumming and you will. Try and savour all the other sensations going on around your body. Deep breathing aswell helps. Also the 'tactical wank' is good for those extra special girls ha.

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